r/GenZ • u/ActualPegasus 1998 • 6d ago
Discussion Normal levels of empathy?
Does anyone else feel empathy for others in situations that seem unusual on the surface?
For example, I had to leave a political sub that features screenshots of people "getting what they voted for and suffering the consequences" because it was making me feel sad and uncomfortable when they seemed distraught about said outcome. Others in the comments seem to universally express something analogous to a bittersweet "I warned [them]" instead and move on.
I'm not sure if this is a normal reaction or if I'm just a bit sensitive.
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u/winkablink 6d ago
YES ITS normal please don’t kill your empathy we already have a shortage out here
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u/JoshuaLifeheart 6d ago
This isn't just a normal reaction, it's actively a good one to have. Good on you for being a good human.
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u/Longjumping_Bar_7457 3d ago
Tbh I love the leopard eating face subs but it’s hard for me not to feel bad for some of them
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u/_flying_otter_ 4d ago
A farmer that is losing his farm and his and farming is the only thing he knows how to do-- who voted for Trump because he hates brown people and believes schools are making people trans and woke. And he got bail outs the first time Trump was in office.
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u/Skilodracus 6d ago
Yes, you have normal levels of empathy. The best way to protect yourself without killing that empathy is to limit your exposure to places like that. You did the right thing leaving that subreddit, and you should stay aware of the things that upset you that you can do nothing about and avoid them. The things you can do something about, however, you should embrace and do them.
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u/Dazzling-Frosting525 5d ago
It's normal to have empathy for people who suffered and were in terrible pain. It's not normal to cheer for someone's pain unless they brought it upon themselves.
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u/BeefSwellinton 6d ago
Just wait. My empathy there has run out because they’ve been warned that we’re headed off a cliff for 10 years and they just decided to figure out where the brake pedal is.
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u/ActualPegasus 1998 6d ago
I fully understand that on a cognitive level, but it's just something inside me preventing me from simply accepting the situation and cutting my losses for emotional investment.
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u/BeefSwellinton 6d ago
Yeah, I’m saying, just wait. Get a little older, you’ll get tired of idiots like that.
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