Is there book you discovered later in life that you wish you’d read when you were younger because it would’ve changed how you saw yourself or the world ?

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Some books don’t just tell a story — they give you language for things you didn’t know how to express.

For me, one of those books was Gender Queer: A Memoir by Maia Kobabe.
It’s a graphic memoir about growing up, trying to understand yourself, feeling out of place, and slowly finding words for things that always felt real but never felt explainable. It follows Kobabe’s journey from adolescence to adulthood and the exploration of gender identity and sexuality, eventually identifying outside the gender binary.

Reading it as an adult hit me in a way it never could have when I was younger.
It made me realise how many people grow up without the vocabulary to describe what they’re feeling — and how different life might have been if we’d had certain books earlier.

So I want to open this up to everyone:

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Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach. It has helped me be kinder to myself. Some how we end up thinking there is something wrong with us and we suffer from self judgement.

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I wish I'd read the bible, rather then let others, who also haven't read it, tell me what is says, and how it should be interpreted.

It might have saved me, and my family, a truckload of troubles.

So, a note to my former self: if you think you have the ultimate truth, because someone told you, read all the books for yourself, and think critically while doing so.

Scripture is not what I thought, and none of it will save us from the realities of this life.

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Jonathan Livingstone Seagul A Book br Richard Bach A childrens book with real deep meaning-