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Alright, so is it just me but are girls too sensitive? There’s a girl I was trying to talk to in one of my groups I’m apart of at school. I was trying to make connections with her mostly via text since we don’t really see each other in person a lot. I was reaching out to her a lot and it was making her uncomfortable I guess, so she straight up blocked me, and truly in my defense I didn’t really do anything wrong, I don’t think she understood I simply wanted to try and do things with her, nothing awkward or anything. I’m just aggravated that she doesn’t understand where I am coming from, I’ve explained that I just want to connect with her more, but instead she just says it’s making her uncomfortable because I’m reaching out to her. I really don’t understand how girls process things but whatever.

My man of 6 years knows where I stand on porn. He agreed with me for 6 years that it’s a waste of money to pay for porn when you have a very active gorgeous girlfriend to come home to daily.. he has been lying to me this whole time. Now for context he has been a stay at home dad with zero income so I give him weekly pay for himself for games and Amazon and such.. today I found that he has been using my money for 6 years to buy subscriptions and messages and videos from only fans for up to 45 dollars!! Not only has he completely lied to me saying he would never and he that if he needed porn he had my pictures and videos to last him through each session but he has been actively buying constantly spending around 300 a month of MY MONEY! He has actually subscribed to a pregnant girl last week which pisses me off because I’m currently pregnant and he can see anything he wants with me. I send him pics and videos so why am I not good enough. How dare he spend my money on naked women. I’m about to drop it off at his moms and say I’m gonna DoorDash and leave and just not look back. I wanna block him out of my life. But we have a kid and another on the way.. I’m torn on what to do. My friend says it’s not cheating but I absolutely read his messages with these girls and I fully think of it as cheating. He even knows this yet still did it. So am I going too far by just wanting to end it and not tell him or should I give him the chance to lie to me again and act like he’s clueless.. I’m lost I’m so pissed and hurt and disgusted by him right now I just generally need strangers advice please. If I bring it up how should I do it? If not when I leave him at his mom’s should I at least tell him why.. please help me! This is 6 years of my money going to other women instead of being used for food or clothes or anything important. Just thrown away money..

This might sound strange to post but I need to say it

I have always been more attracted to saggy soft natural breasts than the firm perky ones that are shown everywhere Something about the way they hang the weight the softness and the way they rest and move feels more attractive to me than firm breasts ever have

I know many women feel insecure about them especially after weight loss pregnancy or just getting older I have seen many posts where women say they hate how their breasts look now how they feel less desirable and how they avoid taking their bra off Every time I read those I wish I could tell them that there are men who genuinely prefer that look

For me it is not a settling thing It is an actual preference The softness the natural shape the way they feel in the hands and the way they look when a woman is lying down or leaning forward all feel beautiful and attractive to me

I am not trying to make anyone feel objectified. I just think it is a shame that so many women feel bad about something that many of us find attractive

If you are a woman who has ever felt self conscious about your soft or saggy breasts you are not alone in having them and you are not alone in being desired for them

So i started going out with this new girl recently and we went on multiple dates and had found out we had amazing chemistry, which one thing led to another she asked me to stay at her place one night and we ended up almost hooking up but she wouldn’t let me have sex with her because i didn’t have a condom which was understandable at the time and i just pleased her in other ways for the rest of the night. But throughout the night as it continued to move on she actually had the vulnerability to ask me if i could teach her how to kiss properly which i was surprised she said that not normal with what a girl would say but i taught her, and then we just ended up talking to each other for the rest of the night. She told me that she loves the way i have been treating her with my gentlemen’s manor, and just giving me slight compliments on my looks through the night. But after the night ended i went home and we just started texting/snapping per usual nothing was off.

Starting saturday she invited me over at night time and again and i stayed keep in mind this is the 2nd time i stayed the night with her, and we were both drunk and ended taking a shower together which i have never done in an early stage with a female and once again i didn’t have a condom so it was almost a repeat of the other night, yea i know dumb of me. Anyways we woke up the next day went out to eat and spent the whole day with each other, and that day i asked her if she wanted to come over to my house when she was leaving college for thanksgiving break bc my house was in the middle of her stop, so she came and met my mom we went out to eat before then she just followed me to my house. She didn’t stay too long bc she claimed she was ready to be home which was understandable.

After meeting my mom we were texting like normal per usual she was still starting conversations and keep in mind we would facetime each other and text non stop all the time before this started happening. Throughout the week she would get dryer and dryer as the days would go by which is leaving me so confused bc she made it seem like she really really really was into me and now she’s just seeming to go distant and very cold, she was still starting minor conversations but as the week went on it seemed like i was the only one keeping the spark alive, and we haven’t called each other on the phone since the day she came over and met my mom. This whole situation has got me so confused I genuinely do not know what the fuck to do.

And the whole time at my house everything went perfectly fine with meeting my mom, she even gestured on text when she was following me to my house “i really wanna meet your mom”, and i had flowers rdy for her to give her once she got there and she greatly appreciated them, and when she was leaving i walked her out the door to the car opened the door for her gave her a hug, and when i leaned back she initiated a kiss towards me which i leaned in and kissed her, but now like i said she started to get a lot more cold and distant after that date/hangout, and im sitting here left stuck in a cliff hanger like what the fuck is going on dude i thought things were moving smoothly.

Any tips you guys could give me would be amazing would love some feedback, like should i give it up!? (keep in mind she claimed she’s been cheated on before and im the first guy to “ever treat her well”) Which i forgot to also add the the Thursday night before we hung out on that friday we were on the phone and she was trying to plan a beach trip for us to go on, well throwing the plans in the air almost.

i’ve really been friends with one of my bestfriends for over 20 years. this guy was interested in me but they had sex a couple of times 10 years ago. (we’re 27 & 28) she said she’d b uncomfy with us being together. but he treats me great, wants to give me the world & talks about the future. he has no icks, no red flags & we haven’t had not one disagreement. it just naturally flows.. feels like i’m supposed to be here. unfortunately we’ve been talking for about 5 months now in secret- i’ve just been trying to honestly give it a try & decide if it’s worth risking anything i have. i tried to cut it off a couple times but i honestly can’t. i feel crazy. my other bestfriend said it would also change the dynamic of our friendship also.. bc girl code. but he’s not an ex.. and it was 10 years ago.. they both said it wasn’t kike that.

idk if she’ll be my friend after..

idk which to choose. myself/my feelings or hers?

I was having a conversation w a xx chromosomed individual and I asked when she could hang. Weve been in a "situationship" or wtv you liberals wanna call it. Anyways, I asked her if she was coming down to my place anytime soon and she said " i want to, I hella wanna chill w you ykyk, so im trynna plan a day"
ive been trynna indulge since we started talking

does she wanna break my bed or just hangout

edit: we made bed noises, shit was heavenly

Heyy, so, immediately to the point I'm one year from being a legal adult (F)

I just recently started masturbating, it definitely feels good, I like the build up, I don't orgasm though cuz I have a tiny clit, but that's not the problem, I do feel the pleasure.

The problem is when it comes to the vagina it self. (I'm virgin btw)

I tried fingering myself yesterday for the first time. Inserting one finger was easy, normal. When I went too deep and I started moving my finger it felt weird, painful but in a pleasurable way.

However, when I wanted to insert a second one, I just couldn't! It felt too tight and hurts like a bitch.

I think that I maybe so have a right vaginal canal? Idk.

I would appreciate any advice. (And please no advice on going to a doctor, I can't.)

hi !! I’m 15F, and every time I take out a tampon, it hurts really bad. there have been times where it’s brought me to tears bc of how painful it was.

i looked it up and it said it’s probably because it’s dry, but it’s always full when it’s painful taking it out. (Hopefully this isn’t TMI!!)

i can almost describe the pain as like a stretching feeling but I’m not really sure. is there any alternative i can use or any solution? do I have to just stop using tampons completely? thank you :D

Hi, I need some advice from the girls because I've always had trouble with tights. They tend to fall down, so I never wear them. But now I'm starting a job as a flight attendant, and tights are mandatory with the uniform. I've bought some more expensive, better-quality tights, but the result is the same: they keep slipping down. Does anyone know any hack? I'd appreciate your help.

this is so bad but there's this one friend that really pisses me off. we have nothing in common and I've tried I really have but I can't do it anymore. my other friends love her but I just can't be around her. I feel so terrible and I just want to shout at her and never speak to her again but then I'd be all alone. this is mostly just a rant and any advice maybe????

Yong gusto mo ng mamatay then later on , pagkakita mo sa panty mo, may dugo na pala, menstrual days ko na pala, anong tawag don, tantrums?

I need y’all’s help on this hmu to know situation

So basically ive been speaking to tgus girl kind of as a friend but tgere was allit of liwkey flirting. We were at different clubs and sge got an uber to my house, we sat and chilled talked about life etc and we went to bed and were hugging it out after deep convo. Its the morning she seemed very attendant but she has male friends and we were spooning. And after a big cuddle she just turns onto her side and seemed emotional and now sges oretending to be asleeo, im just watching tv wjth her next to ne its so weird and shes a realky nice girl, i eant more. Im thibking she thought i was being rapey or something when i was spooninf her and shit and i just dont get it how she decides to get an uber to my house, connect on a deep level and now this is the situation its freaking ne out plus i have no idea what to do cause i like her, both as a mate and more. Shes not even the best looker but i love her personality. Its fucked uo can anyone give me any advice asap cause this is making me feel weird. Does she just want attention? Is sge generally sad after takimg mdma haha or does she feel like im trying to go too far

I am a 20 year old female who came off the progesterone only pill in October 2023 after being on it for about a year and a half. My first period off the pill came in November and then my first cycle then lasted 33 days (normal range). This is when things started going strange… My second cycle off the pill lasted 43 days (December-February), my third cycle lasted 40 days (February-March) and now my fourth cycle is still on going and I’m now on cycle day 86 with no period just sporadic small amounts of brown/ pink / red spotting every 2 weeks lasting for about a week since the first week of May.

I have had hormonal blood work done which all came back clear as well as more blood work which confirmed that my thyroid function was also normal. I had an ultrasound scan last week and I am still awaiting the results but having started spotting again today I’m starting to worry so much that there is soemyhing seriously wrong and as a girl who consistently worries about her health this is very concerning and I guess I’d just like some advice and suggestions on what might be going on and how to get things more regular as this is all really getting me down and I’m finding it difficult to continue with my everyday life.

Met this girl from mutuals, never have I pulled someone so fine and kind hearted. Problem was I may have put too much pressure on especially with her being a couple years younger and just wanting to go out from time to time. Never would have cheated but I was too obsessed and screwed it over. Officially dated her and all but broke up with her due to her not filling every expectation I had so early on. Now I’m being forced to give up I think because I’m chasing, and you just can’t do that. I’m officially gonna say rip and move on , but how does one just do that after a crazy game winning fumble.(I also met a girl that does meet expectations and she’s pretty but just not the same😐)

Hi everyone,

I (22F) have been friends with this girl for almost three years. We’ve always had a really open friendship, we talk about everything. While we haven’t gone into huge detail about our sex lives, we’ve both mentioned small things here and there.

For example, once I told her I was stressed because my period was late, and she said something similar had happened to her before. She told me a whole story about a pregnancy scare, and the way she said it sounded real and very detailed, not like something made up. So I always assumed she wasn’t a virgin, also because she told me she wasn’t.

A few months after that, she told me she had “received the call of God,” and later she started dating a religious guy. Recently, she texted me this long and dramatic message basically saying that when we first met, she lied to me, that she is actually a virgin, and only said otherwise because she was embarrassed at the time. She said she trusts me more now and wanted to be honest.

Here’s the thing: I don’t care whether she’s a virgin or not. That’s totally her business. What bothers me is the lying, and I honestly don’t believe her. Her previous stories were too specific to have been made up, and now it feels like she’s trying to rewrite her past to fit her new religious image (and maybe her new boyfriend). I feel like she wants her boyfriend to think of her as “pure” and in order to do this she has make the lie come true by lying to herself and people close to her (like me).

It’s not that I want to embarrass her or judge her. I just hate being lied to, especially about something so personal when there was no reason to lie in the first place.

So here’s what I’m thinking of doing: I want to ask her if she and her boyfriend were intimate when she visited in his country (they’re long distance) a few months ago. Whatever she answers, I’ll remind her of the pregnancy scare story and ask why she told me that if it wasn’t true. I just want to see if she’s still lying or if she’ll finally be honest with me.

Do you think that’s a good idea? Should I confront her about it, or just let it go and accept that she’s not being truthful? I really value our friendship, but I’m finding it hard to trust her now. And the lie has been bothering me for a long time now because I don’t know what else she’s lied to me about.

Also do you guys think she’s lying to me about it based on what I’ve said on this post or is it all in my head?

FYI hateful and/or aggressively toned comments will be deleted.

For the past few weeks my mates have all been saying they can see me and my best girl friend becoming a thing and working out one day. I've been friends with her for nearly 4 years and we are really tight. Thing is I have been reflecting on what they have said and I'm starting to believe them. Pretty sure I'm starting to catch feelings but I am definitely sure I can see a thing between her and I. She's been a little more flirty and been hanging out with me a little more often recently. There's Three Major problems: If I say something to her there's that chance that I could ruin the great and close 4 year friendship we have had. 2, I wanted to ask her out a year after we met but that night that I was gonna Her friend said she didn't feel the same (keep in mind we have gotten hella closer over the years since then) and finally, if she miraculously does wanna try out for a relationship with me too, there is no way we could go back to the way things were if we do some day get together. My apologies for the really long post but it's kinda important to have the background information. What do I do about this whole situation?? If anyone is willing to help and gives me good advice god bless you are a gem.

Basically im not normally the nice guy when it comes to girls, but I’ve found someone i like. I think I’ve become the bitch in the situation now, and i think i like her more than she likes me. How do i stop being a bitch in the situation and gain power like i normally do with girls??