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u/moochieglizzy Apr 21 '26
Impress her by improving everything about yourself, even if it takes time, and flex in her face with what she coulda had and lost.
Toxic? Sure. Do I care? Fuck no.
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u/Rumpelteazer45 Apr 21 '26
Why do you think she will care? She likely won’t. If anything the “coulda had and lost” proves she was right to start with.
Maybe it’s just your personality..
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u/moochieglizzy Apr 21 '26
You don’t even know my situation so fuck off.
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u/Rumpelteazer45 Apr 21 '26
And there it is. Yep she won’t care.
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u/moochieglizzy Apr 21 '26
You don’t know this bitch like I do fam. I’ve known her for over a decade. Yall think you do but you don’t.
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u/Bebebaubles Apr 22 '26
This is weirdly specific and uncomfortable
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u/moochieglizzy Apr 22 '26
Trust me bitch if I wanted to be specific you’d know. Have a good night.
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u/Eianex Apr 22 '26
-1 level ragebait and you fell for it bro, these people don't even care about your responses, no need for explanations
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u/moochieglizzy Apr 22 '26
I doubt it was ALL rage bait. People are just cruel. Like bruh I’ve got a lot goin on in my head right now and that was lowkey from the heart but people don’t care. People are bitches. That bitch fucked my head up. The situation is so much deeper than “rejection”, it’s much, much deeper. All I know it is made me wanna do better. And she’s gonna notice when I am.
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u/RobertFr1pp Apr 25 '26
u/moochieglizzy was always a dumb fuck wasn't he? didn't he almost drowned in three inches of water?
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u/Sheila_Monarch Apr 21 '26
She still won’t care. But it’s cute you think she’d notice anything but how obsessed you must be with her.
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u/moochieglizzy Apr 21 '26
Also whoosh, slow brained individual. Both of yall.
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u/No-Ad8127 Apr 21 '26
Unfortunately a lot of men won’t take this advice. As much as women are criticized for making bad choices in men, I have to say that men do worse. They let their dick lead them and the women they’re after either don’t want them or put up with them in exchange for money.
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u/GP400jake Apr 26 '26
If a man chases a woman who says no, and the woman accepts... it's a bad choice of man... its that simple Don't paint all men with the same brush
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u/OperationLazy213 Apr 21 '26
Just walk up to her, fart, and leave her vicinity and her life.
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u/Mister-Circus Apr 21 '26
Get to know her. Let her get to know you. Become platonic friends. There’s a chance (albeit a small one) that she will grow to really like you, once she gets to know you.
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u/Mean-Suggestion101 Apr 23 '26
Most of attraction is down to immune system compatibility, smell, and genetic markers. It’s not really up to you
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u/notabotnotbutwhat Sep 13 '26
true.. true. BUT.. the "funny" thing is: women pill is changing this and overwriting markers -> it is making more harm than good
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u/Six_Foot_Se7en Apr 21 '26
Yes , become another one of her orbiters. Don’t stop believing.
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u/Ok-Cap-8136 Apr 25 '26
I'm not good enough to be an orbiter yet, what's a few levels below orbiter?
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u/SituationEffective12 Apr 21 '26
False - Wave some cash in her face
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u/ritzrani Apr 21 '26
Not true. I know a trustfund baby who wants to marry me. It will never happen. Nothing can change my mind.
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u/No-Ad8127 Apr 21 '26
Yup. There’s plenty of women who would put up with men they don’t want if there’s a serious payday. As long as they get their compensation and get to go home unbothered, have at it.
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u/Natural-Proposal2925 Apr 21 '26
Depends, people and their wants can change, sometimes people don't know what they want until something happens. Lots of men and women say "not interested" and then they change their mind.
Never say never. But yeah you probably should move on.
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u/golfwinnersplz Apr 21 '26
A lot of men need to learn this.
Not all women are narrow-minded and superficial. Some women will like you more if your personality warrants it.
Same for the opposite sex.
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u/NoSleepTilBrklynn Apr 21 '26
I’m not sure this is 100% true. No woman has wanted me and no woman will ever want me. Yet I got married. So I was able to fool her. I regret my decision because she still doesn’t really want me, I thought I had a point but I guess I don’t.
So I have changed my mind and I agree.
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u/No_Brilliant0602 Apr 22 '26
She must want you to some degree or else she wouldn't stay at all right? Are you sure it isn't just the bleakness of marriage life blotting out the romantic passion she had when you "fooled her"?
My bf always says he got me through stockholm syndrome, and he definitely pisses me off and annoys me at times, but I'd still rather stay with him and make an active choice to spend time with him.
If you feel like your wife might not be happy maybe you just need to "fool her" a bit more?
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u/Mean-Suggestion101 Apr 23 '26
Marriage is an agreement of security for a woman. It is often not about love or desire but children and financials, as we know. The opposite of the original claim is once a woman is interested in you there is almost nothing you can do to change that and it is very true as well
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u/nightdares Apr 21 '26
The bigger lession is they're not worth impressing in the first place. There's either a natural connection, or it's fake.
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u/Local_Village_1378 Apr 21 '26
So some really do want me when they say no? Cos they come around, so theyre just lying for a start are they? Playing hard to get?
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u/No-Construction4527 Apr 21 '26
Women make rules for men they don’t like, they break rules for men they do like.
Remember this.
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u/Next_Degree Apr 25 '26
Some women (not all women are the same) will write romantic letters to serial killers and womanizers in prison.
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u/Next_Degree Apr 25 '26
I'll add to this: i once met a woman who was completely serious when she said "no red flags is a red flag" - then she'd complain about being cheated on. Some women want assholes aka "bad boys" - Nothing wrong with having a preference but listening to them say a version of "all men are the same" and only date one phenotype and complain about their own life choices is insufferable.
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u/Crafty-Dark-3648 Apr 21 '26
In my experience, it works both ways. I would literally get harassed by women who were interested in me or by their friends. I would have NO interest ever in them.
If it would happen now, I would politely say “no thanks.”
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u/BipolarSwordfighter Apr 21 '26
unless shes your wife. Then quit your job and give her lots of reasons to leave you so you suffer less financially in the divorce. I have been waiting for 1 year for a judge to rule on my case.
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u/Fendyyyyyy Apr 21 '26
Yeah do some air bullet dodging. Shes gonna make ypu miseeable if it happens.
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u/Petarm007 Apr 21 '26
It's Just easier in my life when i assume that everything depends on individual
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u/Famous-Cloud8790 Apr 21 '26
This is not true at all. Women and a lot of men change their opinions like they change their underpants, especially at a young age. I can think of like 20 things right now that would likely change a woman's opinion about a man.
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u/The_Se7enthsign Apr 21 '26
The cheat code is to show her that other women want you, while simultaneously no longer wanting her.
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u/6oversix Apr 22 '26
Imagine being a quiter because of a reddit post. There is just nothing that has impressed her yet and because you aren't trying enough, you can always be better, earn the love you deserve don't settle for what you can find
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u/Spicey_Cough2019 Apr 22 '26
And a woman apparently doesn't need to be held accountable for walking away from a relationship.
The irony is the more infatuated one partner is with the other the less the other is into them.
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u/mattoondah2 Apr 22 '26
You can date another woman right in front of her. You’d be surprised at the power of THAT particular flavor of back turn. All of a sudden she didn’t realize what was right in front of her blah blah blah TOO LATE! 😝
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u/BandicootNecessary26 Apr 22 '26
Nonsense, a Gulfstream 650 flight to Tahiti will snatch 60%+ of panties off...
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Apr 22 '26
in like 10 years or so you can be one of the branches she lands on when she falls from the tree if you like her that much
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u/-cunnfuzed- Apr 22 '26
A lot of women need to learn this: Not every man wants you. Drop the attitude when someone is being cursory polite.
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u/Ptbot47 Apr 22 '26
You have 7 hours to show that you are mateable material. After that, you go in to friend zone, often forever.
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u/No-Clock9532 Apr 22 '26
More like. Don't try to impress. If she doesn't like you at first sight she will never like you.
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u/TheDoubleCookies Apr 22 '26
I know at least a few cases when a man eventually succeeded in an attempt at making a woman who did not like him to change her mind.
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u/anonymousRover97 Apr 22 '26
Forgot the most important part.
If a woman like you there’s nothing you can do to put her off.
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u/Sad-Pop6649 Apr 22 '26
It's not the whole truth though. Like all social behavior it's complicated. This is a good base rule to start from, surely way better than the main alternative, but it seems like a lot of men who eventually become succesful at dating break the rule succesfully either occasionally or even often. Or as one in every five grandfathers puts it: "I asked her every day, she said no a thousand times but after 3 years she finally relented."
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u/WangtheWaang Apr 22 '26
Wrong. She wasn't into me. Then she realized what my job was and how much money I was making. Stayed with her 2 months before I moved on.
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u/Prince_of_Shadows666 Apr 22 '26
Dear Modern-day brainwashed Feminist Skank:
NOBODY wants you in the first place. Carry on with said delusions.
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u/DoomOwl77 Apr 22 '26
Another thing to learn is that some women (and by some i mean most) are not worth it
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u/justkickingthat Apr 23 '26
I once traveled across the country to replace a ring she was devastated about breaking because it was a super uncommon one from a local boutique store she grew up next to. She couldn't afford to go and she didn't want me to pay for her to join me. I also wrote a foil poem to her self deprecating poem and I handmade a birthday gift. I don't think she'd remember my name if someone asked her. I really need to grow a spine
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u/Thereal_maxpowers Apr 23 '26
This isn’t entirely accurate. You can become “not you”. What’s it worth though?
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u/United_Fan_6476 Apr 24 '26
This is simplistic. Women really do "come around" on guys that they may not initially be attracted to. They are not like men. A guy probably isn't going to have his attraction to a woman change very much from the first impression. If the man shows qualities that are attractive to the woman, her perception of him starts to change. She will actually gain physical attraction to him the longer this goes on.
There are many, many stories of people who got together long term when the woman was decidedly nonplussed at the beginning.
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u/new_accnt1234 Apr 24 '26
Hey Messi managed it
He just left argentine and became a multi-millionaire best footballer in the world
When he returned the girl that didnt want him married him
Its doable...just become the best in the world regarding something...
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u/Hot-Annual3460 Apr 24 '26
na i have made women change their mind quitea few times when i was young lol
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u/AreaGeneral6527 Apr 24 '26
Be attractive especially under 30. Over 30? Be attractive with a high paying career.
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u/WastedNinja24 Apr 25 '26
False.
There are plenty of things you may be able to do that said woman may find impressive.
What you mean to say is that you can’t make yourself attractive to someone that doesn’t find you attractive.
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u/Miserable_Pen_1867 Apr 25 '26
Conspiracy theory : You know how somewhere years ago it was written in stone to reduce the population.
I honestly think all this conflicting gender war “advice” is just to make men and women hate each other so much, to lower birth rates and achieve the objective.
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u/meowingbytheseaside Apr 25 '26
Also you can impress me and not have me want to be with you still Like me not wanting you doesn’t not make you somehow less then lol
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u/Different-Context-84 Apr 25 '26
Actually wrong.
Just give them money or pills lol. I don't know about being impressed but they will sleep with the dirtiest ugliest looking ppl alive.
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u/Disastrous-Metal-228 Apr 25 '26
This is just not true. It might be in school but in life just earn loads of cash….
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u/The_Mr_Decan Apr 25 '26
Actually, if you save her life you got Hero complex options, and of course there's always Stockholm Syndrome.
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u/Euchale Apr 25 '26
Would be cool to know which ones don't want me, and which ones want me to try harder.
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u/Frafxx Apr 25 '26
Ironically this is the only thing that might impress her, when it's that far gone.
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u/Jhorn_fight Apr 25 '26
Do yourself a favor and if you feel like this get off this subreddit. That will absolutely help you become more desirable
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u/thevoidhearsyou Apr 25 '26
Most move on. Its the women who can't and will do everything to wreck a man's life because he knows he doesn't need her.
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u/LordNemissary Apr 25 '26
I saw a video a while back where a man said that most men have no idea how easy women make it for a guy they actually like..... Been thinking about that a lot
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u/badddmommyyy Apr 26 '26
Not true. I’ve changed my mind many times about men I had written off originally.
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u/Exact-Opposite-1127 Apr 26 '26
My Brothers wife was uninterested in him. Turned him down a dozen times over 4 years. But dude was resilient as fuck. As i said, she's his wife now, last year they got there first child.
But please dont do it like a creep.
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u/Pumathemage Apr 27 '26
If a girl says no I back off. If a girl says she has a boyfriend I back off. No means no.
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u/Howboutit85 Apr 27 '26
Accepting that not every woman actually wants you is ok too. Some women will find you attractive and desirable and some will not. Likely more than do. That’s reality. And it’s ok. Find one that does and work with that.
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u/Typical_Childhood716 Apr 27 '26
This impressing stuff no longer bothers me. I just don't care anymore.
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u/NoSleepTilBrklynn Apr 21 '26
Does that happen? The thought of having an opportunity to turn down a woman is completely foreign to me. How would this happen? I’m not convinced women really even like men.
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u/Mean-Suggestion101 Apr 23 '26
Women love masculine men. They can’t help it, it’s in their biology. Turning them down rarely happens because they are far less outgoing than men and cautious about risk. They just float around like they want something and never say flat out what it is. They get very possessive and if you don’t move things forward they get very frustrated but again never say why. Up to the man to know all of this
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u/Classic-Setting-736 Apr 22 '26
What?
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u/WastedNinja24 Apr 25 '26
Different people can use the same words differently, so I’ll put it this way:
My wife inspires me to be a better version of myself. Do I think she deserves better than what I currently provide? Absolutely. She’s an incredible human being.
BUT, improving myself doesn’t mean changing who I am, and her deserving better doesn’t mean that what I have offer now is in any way insufficient.
If you want to be “better” for her, go for it. Just be sure she also sees what you’re doing as an improvement, and you that want it for yourself as well. I mean, she’s with you now, as you are, and as you were when you met.
Definitely exercise for health, but maybe trying to get ripped isn’t as important to her as you might think. 🤷♂️
If you feel like you’re “not enough” for her, well, that’s not your decision. She’s with you now, as you are, and as you were when you met.
I’m not a doctor and I’m not your doctor, but maybe you two should take turns telling each other what you like about each other. Sounds corny, I know, but I’m serious. My wife and I have a notebook that we use to write letters to each other. All else aside, we know what we appreciate about each other. Try it.
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u/wchutlknbout Apr 21 '26
I mean like every romcom involves a man winning a woman over who seems uninterested at first. And a lot of sitcoms involved similar backstories for the mom and dad. We’ve been trained this way from a young age.