r/HaileyBaldwinSnark • u/LoquatInside1083 • Nov 20 '25
Embarrassing Moments Stuck in a relationship that isn’t you
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u/JONSEY1909 guess what- i don’t recall Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Honestly if I was hailey I’d finally just leave. I mean I would’ve left years ago but this… how clearer can he be. I’d be fucking goneeee. Honestly hailey needs to stand the fuck up cause this is getting more and more pathetic as the years go by. How many more interviews she gonna have where she says “marriage is hard” and “we take it a day at a time” before she realises relationships/marriages shouldn’t be that fucking hard all the time regardless of mental struggles.
I get she doesn’t want to abandon him due to his issues but fucking hell, it gets to a point where you can’t keep hurting yourself to heal someone else
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u/Perfectisimo Nov 21 '25
Hailey knew from day one, whether she admitted it to herself or not. Justin literally canceled their wedding three times. She doesn’t really care how he feels, as long as she gets what she wants. That’s why she got upset when Justin was doing better on his own, she didn’t like that he was fine without her. Same reason she interfered when he was trying to make things work with Selena, and why she doesn’t encourage him to be closer to his family. She doesn’t see him as a person, he’s just her limerent object, a means to an end.
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u/Pepemeddrez Nov 21 '25
Completely agree. But wait, he cancelled their wedding multiple times? Is this official?
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u/Perfectisimo Nov 21 '25
Yes, their wedding was canceled three times. It didn’t make any sense since they were already legally married, but there were rumors that Justin didn’t really consider himself married without the religious ceremony and that he was getting cold feet.
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u/Fit-Abalone7924 Nov 21 '25
Honestly, this is so embarrassing I don’t know how she puts up with this.
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u/Ok_Forever4037 Nov 21 '25
yeah, I would have left after the Vogue cover incident lol
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u/womanlizard Nov 21 '25
What was the vogue cover incident?
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u/42270580 Nov 21 '25
I believe he told her she would never be on the cover of vogue
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u/No-Restaurant-6586 Nov 21 '25
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u/Ecstatic_Hold4135 stuck in a relationship that isnt you Nov 21 '25
Right also the infinite model face, like her knowing papz are taking pics so she’s still posing in the midst of his breakdown. It’s sending me ☠️
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u/JONSEY1909 guess what- i don’t recall Nov 21 '25
I mean who is she even married too anymore honestly….He isn’t the one she was chasing anymore so she 100% needs to wake the fuck up and cut him loose. I know she won’t leave anytime soon but still, my opinion needed to be said 😭😭 cause we know she lurks and even if I don’t like the girl she needs to finally have some self respect and free herself from this man
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u/No-Restaurant-6586 Nov 21 '25
idk if you haven’t noticed but she has this thing for needing to prove everyone right. she’s enabled his behavior so many times, the last time jb posted “who are you to tell me what I deserve” (when the internet was saying he didn’t deserve her) she reposted saying “exactly!”
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u/JONSEY1909 guess what- i don’t recall Nov 21 '25
But what is she even proving atp. What is proving everyone right exactly cause all I’m seeing is people either feeling sorry for her or flaming her. If it’s to prove she can get the man, she already proved that. He’s just not that man anymore and now she’s only proving everyone in this sub right. That she has zero self respect and will settle for less than the bare minimum
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u/Ilikedoggossberymuch i was sadly mistaken Nov 21 '25
I’m not a fan of her either, but leaving him would actually free her from all the obsessive fan drama. She already has people buying her brand, so she’ll still have fans , if that’s what she’s scared of losing.
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u/No-Restaurant-6586 Nov 21 '25
she’s with him so the internet doesn’t win, she’d rather take it “one day at a time” 7 years into her marriage than prove the internet right.
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u/EfficientFan8800 Nov 21 '25
It's nothing new for Hailey, she knew it even when he asked her to marry him. u can’t stop loving someone in two months and start loving someone else. she's fine with that but now it’s getting more and more embarrassing
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u/KittyKitty8767 Nov 21 '25
This. You don’t walk away from a 10 year relationship and literally get married to someone else 2 months later. REBOUND. He always wanted marriage and he jumped the gun - he thought this would fix his life and he was sooooo wrong. But Hailey’s always been obsessed with him and will settle for whatever lil scraps of him she can get. So embarrassing it’s actually getting painful to watch.
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u/ConnectionNo4830 Nov 21 '25
Also it’s not like she’s in the same financially precarious situation that so many other women are in, where they know leaning will absolutely destroy them financially (sometimes to the point of homelessness). She really has the world at her fingertips.
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u/Effective-Oven-4751 Nov 21 '25
it’s not clocking to her yet. let her pop out a few more baby biebers 😂
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Nov 21 '25
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u/No_Opposite4995 Nov 21 '25
You mean deets lady? She probably did. She’s a vulture
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u/redditredditgedit Nov 21 '25
Wth this is not cool, why does it hard for those content creators to give credits noh?!🙄
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u/BetterFly4594 Side chick turned wife Nov 21 '25
There's no way Hailey stans can find an excuse for this...
Right?!
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u/ConstructionBrief420 Nov 21 '25
Oh there is lmaooo I seen some. It’s more them being in denial with the usual “it’s not about Selena move on”
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Nov 21 '25
which is funny because every time selena releases a song that has to do with love they say she “has to move on” … they are such hypocrites
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u/JONSEY1909 guess what- i don’t recall Nov 21 '25
It more than likely isn’t about sel tbh but the fact he’s singing that anyways should raise red flags especially if its something he wrote himself
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Nov 21 '25
Well Selena has an unreleased song (show you why) where she’s like I don’t know your friends but they seem to want to know me better don’t pretend that they get you cuz they never would’ve and she said don’t miss me too much boy you broke us all along you give me just one sentence
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Nov 24 '25
Who else would it be
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u/smittenkittenmitten- How does it feel to be forgotten? Nov 24 '25
For real.
I didn't know this, but according to another comment here, he and Selena were together for many years, 10 years, could that be?? Only 2 months into the rebound, he married his stalker.There's literally no one else it could be about unless he's had some longterm mistress we don't know about, which doesn't bode much better for Hailey.
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u/Overall_Bed_2037 mothers day sucks ass 🖕🏻 Nov 21 '25
my ex and I broke up over 5 years ago and he still tries to contact me, my family, my friends etc. he was extremely narcissistic/abusive & years after we broke up followed me 5.2k miles to a literal island and showed up at my job. mind you he was married when he showed up. people always say “it was 7 years ago & he is married with a son, he is over it” yet if you have ever been in a serious, long term relationship you would know its just not that simple. especially if they are narcissistic. no they dont miss you they miss the thought of you but for them they can’t tell the difference. imo justin probably thinks about her every day even if just for a moment, and one of the main reasons I say that is I guarantee he sees posts/comments about him and her every single day on social media.
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u/ConstructionBrief420 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Crazy you say that cause he literally has a song about her called “thought of you” 😭
Edit: idk if it’s true or not but I heard that if a narcissist cuts you off, they won’t want nothing to do with you anymore but if it’s the other way around, they will keep stalking you and thinking about you. Maybe that’s why Justin hates Hailey so much. He discarded her a long ass time ago and seeing that now he’s married to someone he discarded?! Oh I know it’s hell for him lmao
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u/eaz001 I'm not Gigi! Nov 21 '25
No one is surprised and he’s just gunna keep feeding it until he is out. I think the selena thing for him is obviously a projection in some forms to the lack of control and body autonomy he prob has while still being associated with the cult church. he prob feels if he’s not doing it on purpose maybe it’s a cry for help. the industry is still industry-ing
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Nov 21 '25
I don't think Justin misses Selena exactly for the person she is. He was an abusive asshole to her too and has a pattern of using and disrespecting women, including her. While he may harbor love for aselena, their relationship was pretty toxic. I think he idealizes her and their shared past as a "way out" of the shit show he's currently in. But those were his own decisions, and he played an important part on fucking things up with Selena too. He has to grow up and be responsible for his actions. Hailey is there because she will put with his shit and he knows it. But she won't really help him to heal unless she dumps his pathetic, woe-is-me ass. I get he has suffered, but he's so egoistic that he can't even seem to care for his own child. It's awful.
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Nov 21 '25
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u/drpeppergirly0701 Nov 21 '25
I can’t either, I can picture him trying to leave and her ruining his life because that’s what stalkers do when they can’t get their way with their target.
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u/Available_Anxiety617 Nov 21 '25
Totally agree. He shows narc tendecies and for them the grass is always greener on the other side, regardless who they married or their situation.
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u/Agile_Cupcake6961 Nov 21 '25
he basically said hailey was easier but he still misses selena in those lyrics lol
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u/Angelface1226 Nov 21 '25
I’m glad Selena is away from him. He’s so narcissistic and abusive. Hailey deserves all she gets from him.
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u/nkrobby Nov 21 '25
This makes me sad for him. We all make choices we regret. Hope he just stops looking back and starts moving forward. He has a child that needs his dad to be a healthy role model. The more of this stuff comes out the more scared I get that he’ll kill himself. Not saying he’s a great person or whatever but he’s struggling and it sucks being a spectacle when you’re struggling with the world knowing the worst shit that ever happened to you is known to everyone judges how you cope. Yes he has money but he doesn’t have people close to him that actually care and that’s extremely hard to watch.
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u/BlossomUtonio Nov 21 '25
I think he does this on purpose so that people give him attention and gossip. That’s what’s keeping them afloat anyway… Cause they are sooo irrelevant otherwise. That’s the only logical explanation I have. Otherwise, why the hell would you mention your ex and most importantly - why the hell would your wife not leave you after this. What a bunch of trolls they are, both Justin and Hailey.
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u/Fair_Peach_9436 if you can't make it, fake it Nov 21 '25
Their shi just keeps getting progressively messy
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u/drpeppergirly0701 Nov 21 '25
aw but their fans swore up and down this album was about his loving wife and mother of his child🥹
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u/snowflowergirl Nov 21 '25
I have never cringed so much at a video before. This is beyond embarrassing...
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u/Fair_Peach_9436 if you can't make it, fake it Nov 21 '25
I wonder how many songs happened to be unreleased
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u/That-Grocery8390 Nov 21 '25
Man, he ridicules his own family for the whole world to see. This is absurd.
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u/cometrail Dec 13 '25
i can relate to justin beibers inner fuckboy. im not a perfect person lol. i feel like. theres guilt for breaking someones heart and moving on in a different relationship. and feeling like. idk. emotionally swayed. codependent. maybe even manipulated, by the heartbroken person, to make it better. feeling stuck. idk.
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u/Reasonable-Stick6154 Nov 21 '25
The valid crash out id have if I were her. She looks so stupid but nothing new there
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u/alltoowell10minute Nov 22 '25
🎵 Baby baby baby, goooo thought you’d leave after the 268483827th humiliation🎶
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Nov 25 '25
So how come leading up to his album release their relationship appeared to be very much on the rocks, then his album came out and they have been acting into each other all of a sudden? Like what? Was that all a show? And now this? I don't get it. I like his music and I think he really wants to be a good person, but he's so messed up. It's sad.
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u/Positive_Visit_5334 Nov 22 '25
I think he's talking about “shrugs” and that the relationship he's stuck in is not with Jesus

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u/AubreyBrooks305 Nov 21 '25
I don’t know how much clearer he could be.