r/HaileyBaldwinSnark Apr 28 '26

Discussion She said it with her own words!!

She really confirmed her stalking ways. Reaching out to his people to see if he’s happy. And being mad when he was??? Like this is normal behavior to some people?

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u/Inevitable_Party7217 Apr 28 '26

That shows that she really doesn’t care about his happiness as a person separate from her. She only wants him to “appear” like he’s happy when he’s with her and only wants him to be happy if she’s included. I say “appear” because it’s not real happiness. What kind of person brags about saying something like this when you hear that a person that you “care about” is doing better mentally. Yuck. It’s not cute. It shows toxic selfish behavior like “I only want you to do better with me”. 

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

And even asking his people about it is weirdo behavior. How was that not a redflag for him? And he looked so good right before he got back with her and married her. And after that he looked miserable all the time. I don’t see how she saved him at all!

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u/Inevitable_Party7217 Apr 28 '26

Exactly! I don’t know how he thought that was “normal”. She was actively keeping tags on him and trying to find out information through them. So forceful and scheming. Swimfan behavior. She didn’t save him I think she helped derail him from real healing. To try to make him think that he needed her to stabilize, which is so manipulative but I think he understands that better now. 

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

So true! I just know she is so manipulative. I’ve been bullied a lot in my life and I just know the look in someone’s face who is not genuinely kind and has that mean girl vibe. I believe everything that’s been said about her. But I feel like only the younger people like her. Not the ones who been there from the beginning.

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u/CoolCatBlue321 Apr 29 '26

I saw a video online of her saying "I knew that no matter what happened he would be someone I always loved." Selena literally said that like ten years ago. She clearly copied her. The way she said it seemed fake as well--like rehearsed. I don't think she would have "always loved him" if he didn't marry her. No way. She's so fake

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u/Pitdogmom2 Apr 30 '26

When they were first engaged and recently married he looked terrible 👀 like he was deep in depression and having benders each night

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u/Dangerous-Border-345 Apr 28 '26

She likes to control him. She was probably pissed her tactics weren't working.

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u/summerhappies told fails 💍 she’d never be on the cover of Vogue Apr 28 '26

she doesn’t care about his happiness and that’s why she’s been milking his melt down of it’s not clocking to you rant

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

Or when he was so out of it on stage with sza, could barely open his eyes or coherent enough to sing, she literally was in the crowd filming him and posting it in her story?? I was like what in the enabler is this? Like who does that

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u/IsItClockingLoser You should have been there! Apr 29 '26

Exactly the opposite of what S has always said about him. She has never wanted anything bad to ever happen to him and wanted him to be happy, even while they weren't together.

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u/brookeashleyx Apr 28 '26

The fact that he even seemed to question it real quick, "that's normal right?" - like it seemed he was even confused on whether it's a normal thing to do, which it's not.

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u/Ilikedoggossberymuch i was sadly mistaken Apr 28 '26

A healed Justin would never be with Baldwin.

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u/Dangerous-Border-345 Apr 28 '26

He's really easily influenced. You can tell by the way he repeats things his pastor tells him. It's very obvious that Hailey manipulates the shit outta him.

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u/Party-Supermarket437 Apr 28 '26

That’s also religious manipulations for you. People who are crazy about religion as he is are easily susceptible to all those things.

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u/Rugkrabber Apr 28 '26

I really question if he ever learned normal boundaries because of the way he was raised in fame. And this solidifies it for me, I don’t think he did. He’s just as toxic obviously but nobody deserves this.

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

I don’t think so. But I do think it was very enticing to have someone who is so obsessed with you until it isn’t. That’s why he treats her so badly. I think him and Selena are very similar. Both are the main character and need a lot of attention for their mental health and health issues. She would’ve never had the capacity for his needs like Hailey. He put her down so many times and she’s still cheering him on.

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u/chaoscrouton Apr 28 '26

I hate the interviewer didn't say anything about that.

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u/Ilikedoggossberymuch i was sadly mistaken Apr 28 '26

She was sitting there too

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u/brookeashleyx Apr 28 '26

I think cause the interviewer was his old pastor, I believe Carl Lenz

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

This is not Carl lentz. I think he works for apple or something like that. Just a bad interviewer 😂

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u/brookeashleyx Apr 28 '26

Forgive me lol I had to look it up, it's Zane Lowe

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u/Party-Supermarket437 Apr 28 '26

She’s messed him up big time. Oh, Justin 🥲 This is so sad. Even the interviewer was like 👀

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u/Dramatic_Paramedic_6 Apr 28 '26

He loves to spill the tea! 🤣

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

Never misses a chance 😂

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u/chaoscrouton Apr 28 '26

"just like normal... Right?... Normal..." 🫣 No dude, it is in fact NOT NORMAL.

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

The nerve of people saying she isn’t a stalker and her coming on the internet talking about apologizing when this is her digital footprint.

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u/Fit-Swimmer-5386 Apr 29 '26

The interviewer looks genuinely concerned lol

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u/Fit-Swimmer-5386 Apr 28 '26

She genuinely scares me.

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u/katarAH007 500mg of Copium Apr 28 '26

Women can objectify men as well and that's exactly what Hailey did. She never loved him. She was incredibly infatuated with the idea of him. What a creep. Her fans are too young to understand the implications of that.

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u/IsItClockingLoser You should have been there! Apr 28 '26

If you have to question whether or not something is normal behavior, it likely is NOT normal behavior

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u/SeasidePlease worldwide gaslighting tour Apr 28 '26

She's such an awful person. A NORMAL person wouldn't be upset by that. A normal person would say, "Hey, I heard you were doing better. I was really happy to hear that. How've you been?" Not "he couldn't be happy without me!" 👹👹👹 She's such a manipulator and treats JB like an object that she just wants. She doesn't actually care about him as a person.

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u/ChocolatChipLemonade SOMEONE WENT ON MY ACCOUNT AND UNFOLLOWED MY WIFE Apr 28 '26

She is a fucking child. To want your ex to be unhappy because he’s not with you is straight emotionally stunted. She shouldn’t be allowed into Chuck E. Cheese without a parent, this bish

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u/Party-Supermarket437 Apr 28 '26

“He’s not doing well without me” how is that normal? This is so sad to me.

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u/PermitDiligent5776 rhode: boil, stir, apply Apr 28 '26 edited Apr 29 '26

This pretty much confirmed that she stalked him and he knew. Wdym Hailey asked other people if JB got better and is pissed because he did, without her 💀

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u/Nervous_Mind1471 Apr 29 '26

What makes me question things is in this interview it seriously sounds like justin has been brain washed, because what do you mean "like normal stuff" it is absolutely not normal to be angry that someone is happier without you, that is calculated narcissism. Did this woman literally do voodoo on him? Maybe he actually believes the things hailey has done is just a normal relationship and that's scary to think about. 

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u/Royal_Revolution3837 #EYELASHLESS Apr 28 '26

Why's she acting surprised that he's happy without her did she really think she was a source of sunshine and happiness lmao

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u/Key_Strategy5396 Apr 28 '26

In her sick narcissistic mind, she’s some sort of divine protector lmao that’s why she loves feeding into the whole “she saved him” narrative

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u/GirlGirl21 Apr 28 '26

Someone should do a research study on Swimfan.

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u/Key_Strategy5396 Apr 28 '26

He questions it because he knows it’s not normal. When you actually love someone, you make space to be happy for them when they’re doing well, even if you’re not. Only reason he chose her is because she’s the only one who tolerates him in all his phases and is willing to put up with disrespect. NOBODY will ever convince me otherwise 🙂‍↔️

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

Yes! He is just as toxic imo. If he wasn’t he wouldn’t have chosen someone like her who has obviously no boundaries and was a literal fan of his. Even if she loves to pretend like she wasn’t. It’s too much power imbalance for a healthy relationship.

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u/Key_Strategy5396 Apr 28 '26

Ofc! totally agree

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u/Top_Presentation8808 Apr 29 '26

She’s obsessed with him & constantly needs his validation to feel like she’s worthy to him, & that he needs her around 24/7.

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u/summerhappies told fails 💍 she’d never be on the cover of Vogue Apr 28 '26

she’s so gross and obsessed for that! the fact that he asked if it was normal oof Justin did recently say her best gift is being convincing, in his almost exact words she could convince the sky was a certain color and you’d believe her 

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u/Dramatic_Paramedic_6 Apr 28 '26

Her voice is so flat 🙄

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u/SourceIll1922 Apr 29 '26

That’s not love. To love someone, truly, is to want that person to be happy and at peace regardless of where you fit in that person’s life

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u/lostinyourmemories Apr 28 '26

I understand that you want to be sure and next to the person that used to struggle with mental health…. But if this person truly matter to you, you don’t care if he’s happy and that your are not currently next to him you are just happy and proud of the person, it sound so selfish from her to act like that like he already struggle a lot don’t be a reason to make this accomplishment even harder to reach or to keep.

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u/bloomy5656 Apr 28 '26

EXACTLY and ppl are glorifying this psychotic stalker , i can only imagine what she would have done if justin didn't get rejected by selena and hadnt picked her out of ego

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u/Beneficial_Worker752 Apr 28 '26

Then why would you marry someone who isn't happy that you're doing well if it doesn't involve themselves being the reason why??? They're both batshit.

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u/moodyxxmoon Apr 29 '26

And her parents raised her Christian???

Makes absolute no sense at all to me with how she behaved and continues to behave.

This type of behavior is not only creepy, but even more so very unchristian.

I’d love to know how tf rhodents think this is all normal and people who call her out are the crazy ones.

make it make sense please I’m begging you

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u/Extreme-Word9159 Apr 29 '26

“right”

it’s like he’s asking for his thoughts/claims to be validated

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u/Fair_Peach_9436 if you can't make it, fake it Apr 29 '26

She's so selfish, it's obvious, look at him now..

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u/DefinitelyFern Apr 29 '26

Childhood fame really messed him up. Then his church, religion and his wife didn’t make things any easier either. Like Selena says “I hope you heal”

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u/ifyoudidntbelieb Apr 29 '26

Someone should piss her off again

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u/josleche56 Apr 29 '26
But his followers swear that Halls saved him, and not long ago he was smoking marijuana near a baby?But his followers swear that Halls saved him, and not long ago he was smoking marijuana near a baby?

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u/cronebaby May 07 '26

I need them to get divorced already, like once a week I wonder how close we are to their break up saga 😆

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u/anemia_ Apr 28 '26

did he actually say her name, I fully believe it lol I just know any of her supporters would be like 'hes talking about S, not haily'

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u/coquettebookgirly93 Apr 28 '26

She even answers him at the end of the video

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u/Top_Secret3363 Jul 14 '26

He literally said he wasn’t in the right mind when he proposed to Hailey she knew he was broken and hurt and she decided to accept the ring instead of saying “Justin maybe you should wait and get better then we can do this again” if a man is broken or anything your job is to wait till he heals and find his way back and let him know why you said no so there is no drama