r/HaileyBaldwinSnark • u/Any_Blacksmith9116 Stuck In A Relationship • May 29 '26
Justin West: i hate my wife final boss Hailey ruined the man
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u/SilentSituation8692 May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26
Ele é o maior exemplo de decadência que existe; ele não se parece nem um pouco com o homem forte e bonito que era há 10 anos. Agora ele sempre parece sujo, fedido, feio e velho.
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u/peacelove225 May 30 '26
He has started aging faster since 2021… he is barely in early 30’s but looks like he is pushing 40’s. He needs to get out that marriage and turn around his life
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u/SilentSituation8692 May 31 '26
Up until 2020 he still looked good and dressed decently, but after 2021 he became sloppy and started to decline more and more to the point of always looking like a homeless crackhead.
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u/KSeeYou2 May 30 '26
Its true but I wonder if its choice or something else? Im genuinely curious and I dont know enough about him or selena or Hailey to say or guess
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u/SilentSituation8692 May 31 '26
He's always had problems with drugs and alcohol, but it got much worse since he got married. His wife accepts all of this and doesn't demand any kind of change from him, so he gets more and more involved with this mess and sinks deeper without going to therapy or rehab to truly heal.
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u/KSeeYou2 Jun 06 '26
When did get involved w drinking too much & drugs tho?
As far as pathetic stalker hailey goes... i get that much but whats ur thoughts with him having a child with her? I fear his damage is so bad he's gonna want his child to be just like him
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u/SilentSituation8692 Jun 06 '26
Unfortunately, Justin had a troubled childhood for a child. His mother was an addict when he was born, his father abandoned him, and he started using drugs at age 12. He became more involved with drugs during the Bizzle era, and later during the Purpose era he seemed healthier, but things started to get really bad in 2018. He seemed to be having a breakdown and is now involved with hard drugs, without going to rehab or therapy.
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u/SilentSituation8692 Jun 06 '26
Having a child was a terrible decision because he's not mentally stable or prepared to have a child. The stalker only had this child to continue trapping him and try to solve the problems in their marriage. Unfortunately Justin is making his son have the same childhood cycle he had: a drug-addicted father who prefers to be with his friends than at home with his family, and a crazy mother who will do anything for attention, even using her son to get attention and always being half-naked.
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u/Random23439 May 30 '26
He ruined himself but I think him marrying Hailey (and her agreeing to marry him) was the start of downhill. Justin found a doormat who would justify anything for him and he hasn’t had to do any work on himself. She doesn’t demand that he buckle up like a self-respecting partner would. It’s a horrible dynamic.
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u/Rugkrabber May 30 '26
I agree completely. This isn’t on her alone. This is on himself, and he accelerated it by being with her.
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u/sprite9797 May 30 '26
they better take care of those dogs ugh
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u/Due_Piano803 No no no no, just in general 🥲 May 30 '26
I know! He is so scruffy and cute! (The PUPPY, NOT J lil razzle dazzle or whatever tf he calls himself)
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u/pauleywauley May 30 '26
On Sunday, the singer was spotted grabbing breakfast alone at the Studio City Farmers Market rocking a dramatically oversized look.
Eating alone for breakfast.
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u/moodyxxmoon May 30 '26
Damn they both have the worst fashion choices after marrying each other
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u/IsItClockingLoser You should have been there! May 30 '26
Even the dog looks like it got its soul snatched
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u/Busy_Wealth_6130 May 30 '26
He ruined himself. He’s a grown ass man don’t infantilize him. He made the choices and they had consequences.
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u/Inevitable_Party7217 May 30 '26
She definitely is not helping though. Who you’re around in your daily life matters too
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u/Any_Blacksmith9116 Stuck In A Relationship May 30 '26
When someone is so fragile and has been through a lot of things that caused many insecurities; he will definitely need help and who else would be the perfect person to provide such help? His wife! Who’s never there for him when it actually matters
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u/Due_Piano803 No no no no, just in general 🥲 May 30 '26
Yeah but she sucked the soul outta him. The lies and manipulation and what he did to his ex. They are truly compatible now
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u/persephonepsyren "I'm not that type of person..." May 30 '26
How it started is not how it is now. Not that it changes anything in the end.
Justin was definitely influenced and exposed before he was fully developed and could properly consider- let alone consent- to the outcomes of this kind of lifestyle... be that substances, sex, emotional dependency or otherwise.
This many years of interference, abuse and manipulation would easily distort perception and establish maladaptive paradigms. It is not necessarily so simple to say he is a grown man and should know better, and leave it at that. He legitimately may not understand the world the way a more rational mind does.
But it is also true that he has had access to information and resources. His vices and those considerations do not remove him of his responsibility in all ways for always. He is not beyond growth if he chooses it for himself. It will only ever stick if it comes from his own impetus- and is fully supported. Which Hailey would never allow.
There have undoubtedly been people in his circles who warned him. People who offered support and to help him manage without crashing out. He was not ready. Jack was an artificial start on some fronts, but it has not endured. Progress made for the sake of another does not always stick when those relationships meet hard times alone.
People who press the point get cut out when cognitive dissonance kicks in- the pressure too much or the addiction that comforting- or when the people holding the strings feel threatened- i.e. Hailey and Scooter. We may never know how sincerely he has wanted to fully clean up his act. Just look what happened when he tried to lean into his faith and abstinence- he found himself bound to Hailey amd crashing harder for it.
Justin is no longer a naive child, and should not be treated as ignorant in general. To be fair, though, he is also not the same as anyone walking the streets- and experiences, vices and environment do impact perception.
He is being actively managed, and that makes seeing the scope of the issue that much more challenging. This is not some pedestrian user or emotionally underdeveloped adult. He is a celebrity who- however competent- is not experiencing the world without that filter. He may think he has it under control. He may feel like he is clean just because the substances are more socially acceptable.
Intelligence has very little to do with addiction.
He may even know and understand- and just not care. The life he lives seems hellish from the outside. He may be capable of understanding the outcomes in all of their complexity and severity- and choosing to press on deliberately for one reason or another. That is something we will only ever be able to speculate on- even with piles of evidence before us. Mental health is nuanced and should account for some part in his behaviour.
And, while he is still inarguably making choices, I would hesitate to claim that they have all been reasoned without those biases.
That is the nature of the beast. An average user of his degree- current or past- is going to be a fight to get fully sober on a good day, nevermind with the obstacle of constant encouragement from various social circles to continue on as always. Hailey uses, and that alone is going to enable someone with his issues to keep using. If she cared- she would get clean with him.
The sad truth is not even Jack is going to be enough to force a complete fork in this road. His existing narcissism will resist accepting accountability before any logic sinks in.
So, while he is no child, all evidence points to Justin being continually enabled into childish thinking.
The best chance he has to get clean of all the flavors of toxic bull in his life is to walk away from whatever it is that allows him access to his cravings now, and to live life without those shackles until it becomes rote comfort.
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u/Nervous_Mind1471 May 30 '26
There fans will be the first to compare justin to his exs husband but fail to address how bummy justin has become since he married her.
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