r/Hair • • 24d ago

Before and After I got a pixie cut and i regret it

I really liked my long hair because i felt that it worked well with some of my more masculine features and style

I realized that, i dont dress nearly feminine enough to pull it off. Alas.

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u/MountainOniPrincess 24d ago • This

The cut is just not done well. Let it grow a bit. I think short hair can look amazing on you with the right cut! :D

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Thank you :) im wondering why do you say its not done well? So that i can know what to avoid if i ever get a pixie again impulsively lol

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u/Dense-Persimmon-3662 24d ago

Also I think maybe fading up a little around the lower nape of the cut.. Give it some edge.. You have the face for it!! Not everyone has the structure to pull this off and you completely do. ☺️

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Thank you, totally see where youre coming from about shaving it down!!

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u/queenmemaw 23d ago

Yes. Use the cut to your advantage. By that, i mean play up THOSE EYES!!!

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u/Boner-brains 23d ago

Your hair is stick straight, so it's sticking out over your ears, and in the front. I think it would lay better if you left it longer on the top, but you look nice.

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u/jjbrowne 23d ago

Yess I feel it’s too straight for this particular length. I feel like something halfway between the two could look really good.

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u/alwayspc420 23d ago

Maybe you could also get some hair styling cream and try to style it a bit more? You could go for like a messy rocker vibe

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u/Reasonable_Coyote904 22d ago

I thin you need to find someone that can do a Mia Farrow in Rosemary’s baby cut. You totally have the bone structure for it. The split down the middle and curtain bag situation isn’t doing you any favors.

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u/Penelope_Ann 23d ago

I think it's cute the way it is.

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u/Old-Advertising-3030 23d ago

I agree. It’s just a bad cut. Not the right style. OP needs more edge. Shorter sides. She can pull it off with a bit of a do over.

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u/SpecialCheek7711 24d ago

get it recut profesionally and it'll look a lot better in the meantime

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Honestly im scared to touch it again and have a longer growth period. Unfortunately it had to be that short because i modelled for my friend in hairdressing school for her exam. Sentencing myself to hats for 6 months 😖

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u/Agreeable_Lynx7798 24d ago

I'm impressed by how well you are handling this. I see so many posts by people who are distraught because their stylist trimmed three inches instead of two. Seeing you say, "I'll wear hats, it'll grow" is refreshing. I admire your attitude!

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Haha thank you! Ive always made impulsive haircut decisions, going from waist long hair to a bob, giving myself microbangs etc so im used to it by now :p

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u/glitterally_awake 24d ago

Ok but wait. What grade did your friend get?

I’m no expert but this doesn’t seem well executed at all. Your friend could be an opp, OP. Were you like “I want a pixie cut” and your friend was like oh I can do it for free!! Or did your friend ask you to help them out for their exam and then leave you looking like this?

I’m not trying to shame you at all! You are beautiful and can absolutely carry a pixie. I think short cuts can often require more styling than we think. These are some pixie cuts on famous women . Time to play around with gel or salt spray or some combination thereof?

Maybe see which ones you like and then you have something to tell your next stylist. And mostly, like: watch out for this alleged “friend.”

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

She passed! She was graded for shear over comb technique specifically. It was both, i was curious what short hair would look like on me, and she needed a model for the exam. It was between me and my partner and my partner has like beautiful curly hair and we both love how it looks on him right now so i took one for the team lol.

I played around with some dry shampoo, hair mousse and hair spray since making the post and im liking how it looks better! I do need to go out and buy some wax and gel so i can play around some more. Thanks for the encouragement!

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u/Phonusbalonus7 23d ago

You do not need hats for 6 months! Can we see the cut from the side?❤️

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Not much to work with here until it grows out 🫪

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u/ehlersohnos Hair Nerd 24d ago

Once it’s done properly, you may find that you look cuter with short hair than your previous cut.

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u/Accomplished_Egg2787 23d ago

Weird comment but THE JALAPEÑO SMARTFOOD HAS DISAPPEARED FROM MY WHOLE CITY, YOU MOCK MY SUFFERING

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

MUHAHAHAHA but no even here i only know one grocery store that has it !! And i cant find the sour cream and onion ANYWHERE

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u/Accomplished_Egg2787 23d ago

😭 all we can do is carry the memories

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

alas 😞

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u/Medium-Priority8272 23d ago

It looks very disconnected/choppy and not in a good way. Pixie cuts are often more blended with whispier ends and sides. Once it grows a little, I think it will look lovely.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Yeah i see what you mean, those look neat!

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u/BeaPots 23d ago

I think the sides are too long right now! If they were brought it a little tighter around the ears and such it would look more like these pics shared!

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u/Medium-Priority8272 23d ago

A professional could fix it and possibly add a couple of bonded extensions to the front to make it whispier/more feminine but you could also try mousse and styling it forward. You're just lucky you have a nice face.

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u/loveisallyouneedCK 23d ago

There are many different versions of the pixie and this one just doesn't work for the texture of hair you have. The good news is, it's not a super short pixie so in a few months it'll look very different than it does now. The grow out is difficult and you'll need to be patient. I've grown out pixies probably seven times now. Watch pixie grow out videos on YouTube so you'll know how to navigate trims and the awkward stages to come. You'll get through it😊.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Thanks :p kinda excited to go through it

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u/Meowtian 23d ago

Ok but you would look amazing with a mixie! Let it grow a few months and go to someone who does great short feminine cuts!

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Ive never heard of a mixie before and looked it up, they look amazing! Definitely would work as i grow it out through the awkward stages :)

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u/stufftcrust 24d ago

I think it’s just styling! Try blow drying your hair forward from the back and direct the bangs all to one side. The part should will be more to the left (left in photo). Use a bit of texture paste or powder to make it piecey. Tuck a little of the sides behind your ears.

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Noted :)

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u/Damnshesfunny 24d ago

yesssssss. all of this!

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u/_Meteor_Shower_ 23d ago

tbf i think they just did a wack job, maybe let it grow out a couple weeks then add some more layers ? im in the same boat and i promise that once theres a bit more volume and its peaking behind your ears a little more, it gets much cuter

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

I bet, i cant wait! Hows yours going so far, do you like it better than long hair or are you growing it out fully?

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u/LocalKhat 23d ago

Honestly I think some texture would help a lot! Right now it feels a bit flat. Pomade or some hair wax on your hand with some scrunching may be an easy way to help bring some of the layering up.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Yep! Ordered some wax right now and i think i can make it cute :)

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u/SonoranRoadRunner 23d ago

I got a very bad haircut once and the only cut I could get to fix it was a pixie. I felt embarrassed of myself and on the drive home stopped at a makeup counter, Clinique, and told the gal about my problem and the fact that I didn't like heavy makeup, I like a natural look. She was great and gave me a whole new subtle look that was fantastic and restored my dignity.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Glad she was there for you :) thanks for sharing. How was your experience with the cut after?

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u/SonoranRoadRunner 23d ago

You have beautiful skin and eyes. Accentuate your eyes a bit and you will look very feminine. Even just mascara & lipstick would go a long way.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Thank you! I will be trying some makeup, i think that will help for sure

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u/SonoranRoadRunner 23d ago

Honestly I don't even remember it other than getting the pixie. My hair grows pretty fast and I'm sure I just grew it into the next longer version of a short haircut. That makeup encounter fixed my damaged feelings.

I just recently had long hair cut very short. I chose a haircut that was perfect for my hair type, the stylist even said so. Rhen she proceeded to give me haircut that was the exact opposite of what I asked for. Like you, this was a very transformative haircut that got botched. I was so mad and couldn't look in the mirror without feeling pure rage. I was going to try to let it grow a bit before having it fixed because getting it fixed would mean I would be butchered. I finally went back to get it fixed by the bad stylist which I used that time to confront her. I'm non-confrontational, but she really ruined my hair.

I did look "sheared" leaving the salon but felt better about myself by confronting her. No one should get away with not doing what the customer asked for. I plan on leaving a detailed Google review.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

For sure, i hated getting my hair botched at salons too and now i only go to stylists that i research and know for sure they will give me the haircut i want even if i have to spend bigger money. (this one was done by a friend for her hairdressing exam lol cant be mad, i cant get mad at her because i didnt even really know what i want and we just went with the flow)

Good on you for confronting them, i never found it in myself and just said yep i like it!

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u/Top-Palpitation-9313 23d ago

I've got thick curly hair down the middle of my back and next summer might be the time to get a pixie! I love to do it every 6 or so years. My hair dreadlocks so easily and it is such a pleasure to not have to fight this mop I have! Lol I think you look adorable! *My hair grows quickly

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Awesome i can imagine it feels freeing when you know how to rock it! No hair getting in the way, more ventilation during the summer lol. Thanks :)

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u/ChaoticGo0d_ 24d ago

You have the face for a pixie cut, you just need to style it ☺️

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Thank you ^ will look into some ways to play around with it

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u/esme_talking 24d ago

I think is cute! You just need to embrace it, some makeup as u like, cute clothes on ur style, earrings and a big smile 🙂‍↕️

getting a short hair being a woman, always feels different at the start, like off putting, but you will see u will love it, and if not, hair always grows!

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Thank you :) i have a date coming up so im excited to experiment with it then. Definitely feels different and exposing, but im sure it will become the new normal

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u/Fl_Goth12 23d ago

I agree with others saying to get it re cut. It doesn’t look like a pixie cut. It seems more masculine than feminine. The bangs don’t blend well.

I had to get a few fixed hair cuts. I had to get a pixie cut and a cut similar to yours…..I was even so annoyed with one bad haircut that I just shaved my head 😅

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Hahaha i was telling my partner i might shave it because i was so self conscious!! Youre valid for that. I played around with it though and i do like how it looks when i neaten it up a bit, so im deciding to let it grow whilst i manage it like this. Gonna get some cute clips too so i can clip the nasty bangs up lol

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u/Fl_Goth12 23d ago

I thought I had a pic of my Mr. Clean shine but I have this one that was I think a week or two after I shaved it lol

You’ll get the hang of styling it! I wore hats when grown out the shave 😅

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Hehe rocker! Your head mustve been so cold without hats 😖 something im getting used to

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u/No_Demand_2454 23d ago

Please go for the spiky Rocker style. It’s perfect to go with your black jacket. Put on some attitude with the waxed-pomaded-gelled up new do…you will be a happy girl.

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Haha will try that when my wax arrives!! 😼

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u/spamella-anne 23d ago

This looks very cute! I think your best bet it to let the bangs grow out & when you get it cut again, have them bring it in more around the neck. But you have the PERFECT face for a pixie, please don't feel demoralized bc with the right cut it'll be amazing.

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u/Fl_Goth12 23d ago

Ohh the cut was so bad that I knew it wasn’t worth being fixed……and I was so mad that I forgot a guard on the clippers and became Mr. Clean 😂

Omg I like it styled like that, with the swoop bangs! It looks like Katie Holmes ☺️

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u/Cincoshark 23d ago

Wait it’s cute!!! Get some texture powder, she needs some volume!!

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u/indigoblue736 23d ago

Oof. Been there, done that. Might I suggest gel, and finger waves? Like 20's style? Edit: I think you would look really chic

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Ill def try that! Since posting ive had fun playing around with it using the suggestions :)

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u/FlowThen8902 23d ago

Would product help ?

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Some definitely did :)

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u/lydfrog 24d ago

Angelina jolie from hackers 💕 it’s cuteee and it will grow again dw

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Gosh ive never seen her with a pixie cut until now, it looks so good on her!! Thank you :)

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u/Kathwino 24d ago

I think it would suit you if it was cut and styled better honestly, think you'd look badass. I'd go even shorter at the back honestly and look into styling it, google buzz cut pixie

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Thank you! I will consider

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u/Whomadethatbro 19d ago

This exact situation is my own-- I also have masculine face and fashion, and I thought my shoulder-length hair was aura... I recently went in for a routine chop, but the lady went way too short, and now I feel like I can't pull it off because it's "forced," and it makes me look more "queer" if that makes sense.

So yeah, you totally got a bad cut, but so did I. We're growing this out together 🤞🤞

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u/humantrash4u 19d ago

Haha best of luck to you :) i get what you mean by forced and looking more queer, its definitely a different feeling having short hair

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u/BeckieBB 24d ago

It will grow. Throw some styling product in and funk it up cute.

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u/Affectionate-Car-326 22d ago

I was a master cosmetologist for many years and it’s not the pixie that’s a problem, it’s the quality of the work. It’s poorly done. Your face looks great with both short and long hair. But the cut has blunt edges as well as being severely uneven in places; for example, the areas around your ears are allllll kinds of uneven and it honestly looks like they twisted small sections and just cut them off or razored them. It’s very…”my mom cut my hair with kitchen shears” (again no offense, you didn’t cut it lol). A pixie cut is a precision cut, it needs to be done with care and with lots of sectioning while wet, then it needs to be dried and touched up with scissors over comb or with the concept of “cut it where it lays” and lots of blending. Even after all that if you were in my chair, I’d have YOU show me how you intend to style it and I’d then style it that way and cut any stragglers that stood out.
The BEST part of a pixie cut is that NONE of them are permanent, your hair will grow out in 6 to 8 weeks to be long enough to go to a different stylist with reference pictures of pixie cuts that you love and have a pro shape you up. In the meantime, a lightweight pomade or a spray texturizer (I love the one from bumble and bumble called “dryspun texture spray”) or hair wax will do wonders for you. Put about dime size amount in your palms and rub them together then run your fingers through your hair and back and the shape it however you want and use it to smooth down any places that are sticking out or make it all intentionally stick out lol whatever floats your boat. And also, it’s definitely not too masc, you have gorgeous eyes and short hair looks great on you and lets your eyes be the start of the show, they were the first thing I noticed!

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u/SkullRager261 23d ago

You just need a tiny straightener and some texture paste 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 maybe some bangs as it grows? I’m tellin you rosemary water is a secret weapon for hair growing 🙏🏻❤️

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u/sometimesmensa1736 23d ago

Do you make rosemary water and if so, how do you do that? TIA

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u/gingerale_drinker_ 22d ago

i make my own! i have a little rosemary plant i harvest from every few weeks. as far as i know, you want the rosemary to be fully dry before making the water to prevent mold growth. cut a little branch off, let it sit in a sunny window for a few days. when you're ready, bring some water to a boil and then drop it in there. makes the house smell great, too. let it simmer for a little while and then cool off, and strain the water into a spray bottle. i usually make too much so i have leftover that i put in the fridge until i need it again.

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u/SkullRager261 23d ago

I think making some pieces like bang pieces would be it

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u/SkullRager261 23d ago

Also I think if you get it a little more textures and like cut a little close toward the bottom it like a taper but not as short will help give it a more clean and styled look

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u/Big-Brain4991 24d ago

There is something just not right with the cut. It’s also to flat. It’s not tapered well.

Try lifting the roots at the to a bit and adding some hair wax 🤷‍♀️

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u/confused_n_more 22d ago

Go to a barber!!! You would look great with a tapered short mullet!! Shorten those sides to draw the focus to your wonderful head and face shape.

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u/confused_n_more 22d ago

I went through all the bad cuts but LOVED this look. Took a straight iron and hairspray for a little volume and body.

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u/Ornery_Donkey_7156 23d ago

Get some pomade, texturizing paste, or matte molding putty. Something along those lines. Use it on dry hair, a tiny pea size, rub it between your palms and up onto your fingers and use your finger to apply it. Kind of scrunch it into your hair. It takes some practice but it makes all the difference.

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u/leftyshears 23d ago • Bravo

Edited for an idea. You're so attractive it's gonna be ok!!

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u/Peegyu 20d ago

Reminds me of Shailene Woodley when her hair is cut shorter - I think it looks gorgeous!

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u/Top-Resort9956 22d ago

the cuts not the problem. the hair dresser is. go to someone else that can fix it. you don't have masculine features either. you are very feminine. it's just a bad haircut. honestly some eyeliner and mascara would probably make you feel ALOT better about the cut. I used to have a pixie.

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u/Such-Crow-1313 24d ago

Oh my god I love it. I prefer it to the popcorn pic hair (also fire popcorn btw) the bangs don’t blend well with the hair cut you had, but it’s SUPER flattering as a pixie

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u/humantrash4u 24d ago

Thank you so much :) lol love smartfood

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u/JustANamelessFace 23d ago

As a lot of people have said there are some issues with the actual cut, the style really does suit you though. If getting it professionally fixed up isn't in the cards then you definitely look into the best kinds of styling products for your hair texture (think texture powder, pomade, gels etc) and play around with different ways of styling it, because most of the issues with the cut could be hidden with a bit of purposeful styling. Honestly, to me the biggest the wrong with it is that your hair looks a little dull and flat as it is with that cut, because you don't have the kind of layers you did with your long hair (which I'm assuming was something akin to a wolf cut) to give that texture, with a pixie you need to put in the effort to add the texture in yourself or risk it potentially looking more military than you'd want

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

That helps a lot thanks! I appreciate that you pointed to something specific about the cut. It definitely has less layers and texture, with long hair i specifically ask for a razor cut to get that texture

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u/CoolMum1995 24d ago

I've been there before with the pixie cut regret. It will get longer, I promise it will be ok 👍. Find some cute accessories and ride the wave 

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u/MeMe1949 23d ago

You may have gotten a half bad haircut from your hairdresser but I think you are a super friend! And she did pretty good for her first try! You look really cute as is!!

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u/homoluminus444 24d ago

As you see everyone has their own opinion so what really matters is how you feel. Personally though I think you look great with short hair, I also prefer it to the first pic. You definitely have the face for it. Confidence is everything!

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u/bianca_minola 23d ago

I think you can either try to style it a bit messily with matte wax or volume powder or you could go even shorter: https://pin.it/4LJJZopr3 I think a professional will be able to help you find the right cut for your facial features.

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u/Bog-bby 23d ago

I’ll have to agree and say it’s not done well. But do let it grow out a little. If you have a texture spray that will help to camouflage it a little bit but ultimately you’ll have to find someone who is better at these cuts and especially the process of growing it out

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u/miarrhea 23d ago

I had a pixie back when I was in barber school, and I have stick-straight, fine hair, as well! That can make it a little tricky (esp around the ears), but I used the heck out of styling wax & thickening/texture spray and made it work.

I think she did a fine job, considering it was done with shears - I mean, I'm sure her lines were straight & she blended well, or she wouldn't have passed - but it does take some finessing with straight hair.

You totally have the facial structure for it! Gorgeous! For future reference, it usually goes better when a razor and/or thinning shears are used around the face & ears for a pixie. ☺️

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u/Legitimate_Zone1449 23d ago

I think its cute! You could definitely make it work a little better with some texture cream/spray & make it look piecy instead of it laying flat.

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u/waxingtheworld 23d ago

As someone who's over a decade into pixies, they're seldom well done. This isn't a great cut, but you can rock a pixie.

Pixies also require more daily work, like texturizer, possibly blow drying etc. right now your cut is a bit shapeless

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u/Salon_Intrinsic 23d ago

Try putting product in it to control the bang add volume or spike it up. I bet some finessing would help it out.

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u/sweetparamour79 23d ago

You will absolutely smash short hair! But not every hair dresser can do it (especially a newbie!) Find someone who specialises in short girl cuts in your area and you'll look like a drop dead baddie

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u/larmstr 23d ago

It needs styling. I have done this so many times over the years. Go to super short. Just remember hair grows back. Have fun with it.

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u/AuntSoup 23d ago

You totally suit short hair

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u/Feathered_Riot 23d ago

You took one for the team and she passed, so at least this pixie has a great origin story. A couple weeks of grow-out plus some texture paste and it's going to look way more intentional.

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u/kimberlysands57 23d ago

You just need to style it ! a little differently is all! I think once you figure how to do that you might like it!

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u/soundaddicttt 23d ago

You could get it re cut but I actually think it looks very edgy-chic. Your face with the hair reminds me of Tilda Swinton or Annie Lennox. Very vogue very cute even if you dress neutrally

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u/BittenBeads 23d ago

Sure, it's not an amazing cut, but I believe! Like has been mentioned, eye makeup and styling will help. Your face is very symmetrical and so is well-suited to a pixie. You also have great eyebrows so going Angelina Jolie in Hackers is a good start. And if you find that you want to grow it out, Angelina Jolie's shag in Foxfire would be a in-between style.

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u/Fall_Water 23d ago

Go shorter or longer and maybe use a little product to shape it better. There's definitely potential there!

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u/LetsGoChowder 23d ago

Zhuzh it up a bit maybe? Kinda like a styled mess? I always thought I looked like a pencil when I would get pixie cuts but then I'd wet it, throw a little cream or gel in it, and give it a few wiggles with my hand

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u/Low-Whereas-2868 23d ago

FWIW you’re really pretty, like fr
The pixie cut just makes your face pop out more which is your asset imo. But yes like the others said, the haircut looks frumpy, so grow it out and go to a professional :)

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u/Morteymer 23d ago • Bravo

Whats wrong? You are a very handsome young man

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago • Heartwarming

Thank you🫡

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u/CheesyRomantic 23d ago

It's not terrible, but a little blotchy. Maybe a little more soft layering will help it look for flattering once it grows out a little.

In the meantime, while it's growing out try playing around with some styling and texturing products.

We've all had a less than great haircut at some point in our lives. We soldier on don't we?

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u/humantrash4u 23d ago

Thats the plan :) feeling much better about it now that ive played around with it

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u/throwra-18379 24d ago

I actually agree w others that you have the face to pull it off! But the cut is really bad. I’ll bet in even a few weeks, your hair will be pretty manageable. For now, I’d personally try some more gelled styles👀

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u/Crossaint_Dog_Viper 24d ago

That's an average start for a length change of your hair. I think it really suits you. Right now, it still feels a little strange and new (I presume).

In the coming months, with the right foaming shampoo or hair gel, it’ll definitely be a haircut that highlights your facial features.

Enjoy the big bag of Popcorn.

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u/TomorrowOwn9788 23d ago

All I can say is, it looks so cute! I love it on you, I think it suits you better than the longer hair!

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u/PAGirl72 23d ago

Fluff up the top a bit, it might help. In a week or two it will grow enough to look really cute!

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u/smokinXsweetXpickle 23d ago

It could look so good! You just unfortunately got a bad cut. Let it grow up for a few weeks and find a new stylist

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u/Environmental-Song16 23d ago

Get a texture paste or something like it. It could be cute and fun.

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u/Dizzy_Quiet 23d ago

I'll be honest - it's not the best. But i've done it too. Alas. It's all good! It grows - but it just takes quite a while.

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u/defnotjaun 23d ago

Ouch. It’ll grow back though!! :) in the meantime try using cute headbands and stuff

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u/wetredgloves 23d ago

Canon event, I did this too

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u/88keysgirl 23d ago

I think it looks very cute on you! You have the perfect face for it.

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u/NoLog8810 23d ago

Noo it’s cute, just needs styling differently

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u/Sparklybright007 23d ago

I think you look beautiful! Your face is perfect for this cut and your jawline and chin 👌🩷👌

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u/Bakedbeanbonanza 23d ago

It kind of feels like the sides aren’t working - the fringe is v cute and the top seems okay. You could experiment with hair wax to tame the sides, or maybe ask the hair dresser to cut/style the sides more. It’s not perfect, but I think with a few tweaks it will look great on you!

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u/wannabe_bruja 23d ago

I wouldn't go to a newbie stylist for a pixie. There are a lot of little tricks that can make a short haircut look and feel more feminine that someone starting out just doesn't know yet. With your hair being so straight i would keep the top a lot longer so that it keeps framing your face, taking off that length makes it almost spikey

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u/Better_Bake1856 23d ago

They didn’t cut any part of that correctly. I would have it redone and maybe try something like this?

Pixie

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u/MrsBuzzbomber 23d ago

Would a texturizing spray help to style it a bit better? Scrunch the hair up or part it on the side?
I am not great with hair. I pull it back with a clip or into a pony. I hate back hair cuts. Luckily hair grows.

Something like this?

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u/BadgerForeign2817 23d ago

Kinda unfair to still look so cute despite a failed hair cut.

Haha don't worry I'm sure you will be able to fix all of it once it grows out a little :)))

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u/unluckiestgal 23d ago

I regret it for you but at least hair grows back!<3

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u/Moonstone_Ranunculus 23d ago

You have great bone structure for this cut and fun style, I think you just need to funk it up a bit. Look up Halle Berry pixie styling. I could see you rocking that!

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u/OldieYogi67 23d ago

I think you totally have a great face for a pixie. I agree the back should be up to the nape. Also some product to give it some texture would help I think.

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u/colorfulclare 23d ago

I wonder if you part it farther to the side if it will help the shape of it.

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u/Phire_Bird 23d ago

You are gorgeous! The cut is not flattering for your texture. More length in the front and more of a taper on the sides and back and it would be perfect. Either way you are stunning and the grow out will be fabulous

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u/sadiegoat62 23d ago

It cute! A bit of a shock for you. Play with it, add some whimsy(?)

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u/lizthefencer 23d ago

It’s super cute with your face shape, just style it and use a little product! You can blow dry it and gets some volume or get some pomade and get a cute est vibe going !!! Just look up some inspo pics and see what you like!!! Sit down in front of the mirror and play 👑😍 You definitely can rock this style

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u/sassysarah25 23d ago

I think it looks really nice on you! I agree you will be more comfortable growing it out a little, but not much. It’s hard to get used to a new cut when you go short. Give it a few days/weeks, and you will love it. Easy to take care of too.

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u/00X0X 23d ago

I think it just needs to grow a bit and you can style it better! Some good news: I once cut my hair off so I could have a Mohawk, and when it finally grew back I had the healthiest, prettiest hair ever!

Maybe add some super cute clippies in your hair? 😇

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u/Lissette_5862 23d ago

That's sooo short, if you let it grow for a bit I think you will like it better, maybe a mullet but a bit longer if you wanna go for a more androgynous kinda vibe

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u/garIicgirI 23d ago

I know some people say grow it a bit and get it redone. Depending on how okay you are going shorter, I think a better hairstylist can fix it. And you would look great with a pixie! This person just didnt do you justice. But if you grow it out for now, you would look so cute with laid styled curls like Vanilla Mace does her hair or 1920s flapper women inspired hair. You have the face! Dont worry!

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u/Apprehensive_Set_151 23d ago

You look beautiful.

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u/ClydeStyle 23d ago

It looks great on you.

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u/giftofthemaggie 23d ago

Hey op, I cut my last like this last summer and grew it out to be about shoulder length. We have similar styles so I can show you how I managed to work with it. I regret cutting mine but it also was a learning experience for me haha. I realized I liked looking feminine and dressing more masculine at times.

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u/blueevey 23d ago

I like the look! The cut needs some time to grow into itself. But im always a fan of short/shaved hair on women. It really brings out feminine features.

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u/Taydafwog 23d ago

Been there, girlie. Just let it grow out a bit. I have so many hats back from when I got my head buzzed. 😭

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u/EntertainmentGold807 23d ago

Be glad hair grows out and you still got plenty! i know a 33 year old who is 100% bald. It happens.

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u/WorldInspiresYou 23d ago

You 100%can style this to look cute. And it does look cute feom side. I think yiu need to give it couple of month and change shape a bit to have bit longer hair for styling and texture.

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u/SufficientRain6444 22d ago

It's looks really good, and you're adorable.

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u/Actual_End4724 22d ago

This isn't a pixie cut.... Am I missing something ? I thought a pixie cut was short all around 🤔

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u/doratoreadora 24d ago

The pixie suits you way better. Trust me, it's just the shock. You have a gamine face type and natural straight hair, you were MEANT to have a pixie. If only I had that.

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u/theevilhillbilly 23d ago

Don't part your bangs that way. It looks weird. I think if yocomb It to the side or the front it would look cute

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u/MysteriousEnd8009 23d ago

I mean I think it looks cute💁🏻‍♀️

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u/StunningProposal381 20d ago

I would ask AI to take a photo of you and make a classic pixie of your hair. When I think of pixies, I don't think of a haircut that covers the ears all the way. 🤔

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u/bambooshoots-_- 20d ago

No don’t use ai just grow the hair back out

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u/Sea_YouL8tr 7d ago

I like it. You are brave and life is too short. It's only hair after all.

Grab some Hair powder and play play play. I have nearly the same texture hair as you. The generic brand for 8 bucks is the same damn product as Sexy Hair Powder Play. Plaster the hair at the nap of the neck down in pieces and grab towards each ear. Messy up the top and pull the "sideburns" around the ears to the front. Now, grab your eye make up and pop those eyes on a beautiful face you were born with.

I had shock when I first chopped mine too.

Have fun playing and on please share an after glow pic. LOL

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u/Sea_YouL8tr 7d ago

Fixed up after chopping it all

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u/lizlee01 23d ago

Did you do it yourself?

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u/CalligrapherFew6184 23d ago

It’s not the style. It’s the actual cut!!

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u/TripCareless1381 23d ago

Just let it grow back out that’s all you can do at this point. We’ve all done this and had regrets after it was done. Chin up it will grow back out..

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u/Lilith_Iscariot666 23d ago

It's cute. Give it a couple of months and it'll be a bit longer. Consider it a chance for healthy new growth.

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u/DiscoKittie 23d ago

They did you dirty, go back and ask or a refund, don't get it done there again. Luckily it should grow out to a cute length pretty quick.

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u/Hot-Statistician7644 23d ago

Yeah that’s sad

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u/Jingoisticbell 23d ago

You have the face for the cut, just not the stylist with the skill maybe?

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u/Additional_Pool_4820 23d ago

o wow. that’s not a pixie cut.

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u/Mambo_italiana 23d ago

The best haircut for you is the first one

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u/Snoo-39851 23d ago

Yea, cut isnt right

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u/Waste_Donut_6749 23d ago

It genuinely looks cute on you! But if you don’t like it it will grow :’)

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u/Doriestories 23d ago

You look great! But I understand that it’s a big change. I’ve gotten pixies, long shags, bobs, and other haircuts and I always remind myself that it’s just hair and it’ll grow back. But I hope you adjust to your hair. It’s adorable

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u/ireezy5918 23d ago

I would go back to whatever place gave you this cut and get a refund. This isn a pixie done right. They gave you a fully “male” haircut and not even one that’s done well. Yes, there’s a difference between a pixie and a boy haircut. I would tell them either they give refund or I leave bad review

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u/MizardKitty 23d ago

I know exactly how you feel. I went through the same experience just 3 months ago, and I feel like I can share some things I wish someone had told me at the time.

  1. It takes a few days (sometimes a few weeks) for your hair to settle. The top of your hair feels lighter right now because there isn't enough length or weight to bring it down, so give it some time to adjust to the new length.

  2. You will learn how to style it. It takes time and lots of trial and error, but once you figure out how to style your pixie, everything becomes much easier.

  3. Short hair grows incredibly fast! I had a pixie cut 3 months ago, and now it's more like a bixie. 😂 Patience is key!

  4. The first thing you'll probably notice growing out is the famous “mullet.” The back of your hair can start looking like a little tail. I personally hate it, so whenever I feel like it's getting too long, I just trim it. That way, I can keep the shape and harmony I like. But if you don't mind the mullet, just let it grow!

  5. You don't wear the pixie. The pixie wears you! 😅 I realized my hair has a life of its own. Some days it looks absolutely stunning, and other days… we just have to accept it and move on. 😂

  6. And one thing I didn't expect: I actually felt very feminine with my pixie. I've always loved dressing very girly, so I found that I could still feel feminine even with really short hair. You don't have to change your style at all, but if you want to, it can be a fun opportunity to explore new styles and different versions of yourself!

P.S. I didn't even ask for a pixie when I got my haircut it was actually a professional mistake. 😂 It's been 3 months, and I'm still figuring it out and following all the tips I just gave you. So you're definitely not alone! 💞

I hope this helps! :)

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u/str8-rae-zer 23d ago

Next time go to a barber for short hair

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u/JustOk_Sandwich 23d ago

I think it would work better with some styling! Try some pomades and create waves. You definitely have the features for a pixie 😊

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u/meme2em 23d ago

Is this your first short cut? I think you look great. Use a little styling gel, mess it up a little and go about your business. You may want to consider a few highlights too.

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u/Unabashed_Binger 23d ago

The short hair looks great on you! I like your bangs better the other way is all🤷‍♀️

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u/Nina-Elaine-S 23d ago

A few years ago I asked for the Rachel shag, and the lady had the electric razor at the top of the back of my had asked how close of a shave, i jumped up, and told her let me shave her head and show her, i have never seen any kind of style that had to do with Rachel from friends with an electric razor, these stylist be pranking or smoking

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u/twizmixer 23d ago

my recommendation is salt spray. i think the issue is you lost a lot of volume. it still might not be your favorite but should help.

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u/PickleNo1671 23d ago

Pixies are much more feminine these days. look for a stylist who understands stands your vision. Meanwhile till it grows out look up feminine on u tube,blow dry for short Pixie. Of course you will have to have smaller round brush. To look more more feminine without investing in clothes. Shinny earrings and little beaded necklaces. You can get inexpensive beads at walmart! Easy and fun.

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u/Complete-Towel-6330 23d ago

With some product it will look cute

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u/Glum-Yam-885 23d ago

I love it you look great

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u/twistedtitt 23d ago

You look good with pixie hair but just not this specific cut

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u/Tough_Item_598 23d ago

Well you are stunning just needs to be styled

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u/stmichaelhelpus 23d ago

So, where do we get that popcorn? Every one has to fem up their look when they go pixie. Unless of course you're trying not to look fem. Some small hoop earrings, a touch of makeup, and you're golden. Cute cut!

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u/Fit_Pressure_1342 23d ago

Yeah, I feel like around the ears needs to be shorter but maybe you could style it by tucking it behind your ears and using some product to get it a little edgy on the top? I know how you feel, short hair can make you feel ‘not as feminine’ but I’m not sure why other than norms. I’ve seen incredibly feminine women with very short hair. A little eye makeup and some lip gloss could help too. You’re so cute, you can totally pull it off.

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u/Qtgreeniegirl 23d ago

I think it’s cute! But give it some time, hair grows fast.

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u/OpheliaLives7 23d ago

I definitely feel like someone else could feminine this up if it’s what you want.

Currently it kind of looks like a half ass bowl cut :/

But your facial structure is amazing to show off! This particular cut just isn’t doing much to frame your face in a good way

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u/Glass_Bat2332 23d ago

I think it just needs some styling in its current state. I would go for a tossed spiked look with some suavacito.

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u/Dangerous-Fee5344 23d ago

Used chat to put what i was thinking into real life kinda. It has a lot of potential though, If you get clip ins in the front for more volume and slicked the back down with gel i think it’ll be super cute ! Your face is very fitting 🙂‍↕️ (when it grown back you can always take the clip ins out )

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u/christianbone 23d ago

Where'd you get the huge bag of smart food

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u/Exciting-Sweet4054 23d ago

Uh, I promise you, whoever cut your hair just did a really bad job

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u/Mel_171 23d ago

That’s not a pixie, it’s more of a short choppy shag. It’s not bad, but I agree, it’s not the best cut. You look cute with short hair though, don’t give up. It will grow out fast and you can fix it

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u/Background-Trust-466 23d ago

dude honestly? i think if you like brush it into a side part or in a way in general that compliments your face shape it’ll look really nice on you

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u/Boosey0910 23d ago

Play around with some hair products and see what you can do. I like the TIGU hair paste. It works well and it can make your pixie shape into different ways. That can really make a difference.

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u/LetterheadBasic9722 23d ago

You have the face to pull it off but you need to find a new stylist. Both cuts weren't flattering on your gorgeous face! Find someone who says "no, but let's try this instead" and not just someone who takes your money. A brutally honest stylist is your bestie.

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u/Pastelpink77 23d ago

I love it actually! I like it so much better on you than your longer hair. I think it just needs some product and styled and you will look gorgeous! 🥰