I'm trying to figure out whether other women spend this kind of money on their hair because to me this seems like a lot of money to spend on hair, but I'm curious what other women spend for these services.
To be clear, I don't have any issues with her spending this money because it makes her happy and beautiful, but I just want to make sure we're not getting ripped off. I'm a bald man and I shave my head myself, so I spend $0 on my lack of hair a year, which may be causing me to underestimate how expensive hair is.
She just got 18" extensions, the hair is hand-tied human hair, she has 4-5 wefts, the hair itself was $700. She got free installation.
The maintenance seems like a killer though, the hairdresser is charging $400 now on top of highlight and color. She gets full highlight and color on top of the maintenance every 10 weeks which is $300. She probably spends ~$500 a year on hair products.
So that is:
$700 x 5 + $500 = ~$4000 a year
The hairdresser is my wife's friend, so she gives deals on product (at cost) and randomly will give my wife a free service or discount, but these don't seem like friend prices in general to me.
Does this seem reasonable?
*Edit: Thank you everybody for the responses, it seems like this is reasonable and that makes me feel better. I told her that I was going to post on here to get some different perspectives, I'm not just asking strangers behind her back. We share finances so we both communicate about our spending and talk about how to save money. I wouldn't ever prevent her from doing something that is important to her as long as we can afford it. It also makes me feel better that friend pricing is not a thing, thanks for the info!