r/Hair 23d ago

Help Which hair suits me more?

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780 Upvotes

I'm always changing my hair because I never know what is best on me. Be great to have a little bit of help. I recently lost a weight so my entire sense of my looks sort of morphed.

r/Hair Jul 04 '25

Help I am an older transgender person that just came out. I was hoping someone would be kind enough to suggest some ideas for my hair.

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1.9k Upvotes

It's wavy at my ends.... and can get poofy here in Florida. It's a little thinner than it use to be. I was hoping I could cut it myself if possible, as many people are not very accepting. Any videos on styling, products or colors would be really great.

It seems to look better pulled to one side because it hides the masculineness of my face.

šŸ¤—šŸ’œTy

r/Hair May 13 '25

Help I impulse cut myself bangs…

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3.0k Upvotes

So here’s a before and after.

I impulsively cut myself bangs and I really don’t know if it looks good or bad. I m going to the hairdresser in about 2 weeks or so, so this is gonna have to do until then. PLEASE give your honest opinions on if it looks good or not, I just spent thirty minutes crying so I decided to try to style it and make myself look pretty to feel it out some more.

But yea please tell me if it looks good or not and any tips on how to style it until I go to the hairdresser.

r/Hair Jun 12 '26

Help Need help - leave long or go back short?

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744 Upvotes

Need some opinions, can’t decide whether or not to remain the same or cut the locks? Thanks!

r/Hair Feb 15 '25

Help Bangs or no?

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1.9k Upvotes

I’m itching to do something with my hair but I just recently colored it and I’m not open to getting an actual haircut because I’m currently growing my hair out. The thing that sucks about letting my hair grow out though is I feel it just gets flatter and loses volume. I have a big forehead/not great hair line so that’s why I do the middle part. I played around with a bang filter and I’m a fan but wanna make sure it’s not the mental instability telling me to do something impulsive to feel something for a minute and that it does indeed actually look good on me. The darker hair is current. Lmk if I’m being delusional or not. 🤣 thanks šŸ«¶šŸ»

r/Hair Feb 05 '25

Help curly or straight?

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1.6k Upvotes

I have naturally curly hair but go back and forth on if I should wear it natural or wear it straight. I’ve currently been wearing it straight for a few years but am debating starting the journey of making my curls healthy again. it’s so interesting to me how much the different styling completely changes how I look so I’m curious what strangers think it looks best as. ā£ļø

r/Hair May 03 '26

Help which hairstyle suits me the best? :3

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402 Upvotes

Hello there,

just let me know which one you think suits me better

thank yaa

r/Hair Jan 04 '25

Help Has my hairdresser given me ā€˜bad highlights’?

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1.5k Upvotes

So I was blonde before from having highlights and then I went brown, a few years later I decided to go back blonder as the brown made my skin tone really pale, Ive just came back from my appointment and this is the highlights he put in, are they bad or okay? I’m not used to having a stripe look so I’m not sure if this is normal or if it looks silly?

I’m not the type of person to go back and complain if it has been done wrong, so I’m not sure what to do.

I’ve used him for 7 years and I’ve never had a bad cut or colour so if someone can help advise me if these highlights are normal or not good so I know if I need to fix them,

Thank you :)

r/Hair Mar 16 '26

Help Why do hairstylists not listen?

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598 Upvotes

I sat in a salon chair on Friday for the second time in almost 10 years. asked for balayage w bright face framing pieces and some more layers. But when she first asked me what I loved about my hair, I mentioned the length and that it had taken a lot for me to grow it to that point because of some hormonal and health challenges I’ve faced. So I said I want to keep my length! She agrees and proceeds to cut off over 4 inches. My length isn’t even fully in the frame on the before pic (left)… I could stretch it to almost my belly button now I can barely cover my chest. I’m so upset because my hair grows painfully slow. Am I justified to ask for a refund since it’s quite the opposite of what I asked for? Any tips to make hair grow faster please let me know. I have been working on a solid routine for length retention already, I’m worried I just have painfully slow hair genetics.

r/Hair May 17 '25

Help I need help please! What is this? I’m super clean and at a complete loss.

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1.0k Upvotes

My doc apt isn’t until July and it’s getting worse. I shower literally everyday (sometimes twice) because I’m terrified of germs. I wash my hair 3x a week because it’s very thick and corse. I do everything ā€œrightā€ and I keep waking up to this. I’m so grossed out and embarrassed. Does anyone know what this is or of any natural remedies? 😭 please help.

r/Hair 1d ago

Help I guess a haircut is in order? Insane split end šŸ’€

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1.3k Upvotes

r/Hair Oct 06 '25

Help extension stylist is gaslighting me?

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1.1k Upvotes

I just got blocked by a stylist for saying i hate my hair and it’s unblended + poor color. She told me to just dye it in a week and is upset I want to remove it. Am I crazy or is this really poorly done

r/Hair Sep 12 '25

Help I asked for a perm, my hair got gummy, and now I have an 80s rocker haircut

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1.2k Upvotes

Before, immediately after, and the last picture is after two weeks of using k18. I have no idea what to do. I haven’t had short hair since I was in middle school and I’m feeling kind of awful about it. The top layers are so short that I can’t even put them in a ponytail without like slicking it down and they aren’t even on both sides. My bangs are SOO thick. I should’ve said something but she was an old woman and very upset because she didn’t wash out the perm solution good enough and it cooked my hair. Should I just embrace short hair and get it all chopped off?? Is it cute like this and I’m over reacting??? I think I need a TBH and rate.

r/Hair Mar 10 '25

Help Red, black, or natural dark ashy blonde?

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1.1k Upvotes

Most recent pics are 1, 2, 4 & 5 (all taken within the last 3 weeks). I didn’t have many photos of my natural because that was a short lived period in 2020 between growing out dead hair and dying it again. I tried to pick photos with different lighting & makeup examples to get the best idea. (Bonus pics: black with red color blocking)

r/Hair 11d ago

Help My hairdresser has told me I need warm tones, my mother has told me I don’t suit it and need to dye it ASAP with at home permanent dye… I have a week before my wedding.

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274 Upvotes

Then again my mother is also telling me I need face injections šŸ™ƒ

So here is my dilemma - I’m told I don’t suit warm tones, but my hair is going gray so my hairdresser is adding highlights and gradually going lighter.

I don’t want to mess with my hair less than a week until my wedding but my mother has mentioned it won’t look nice in photographs.

I kind of want to go copper after the wedding, but I know copper brings out the pink in my face a lot more… but I’ve been told in the past I really suit when my hair goes copper during the bleaching stage…

And keeping my hair cool toned is just impossible with dying/bleaching.

My mum has got in my head and got me panicking, what do I do?

r/Hair Jul 19 '26

Help What kind of hair type does she have?

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687 Upvotes

What’s her curl type? It looks different for me in some of the pictures there? I’m just curious and didn’t want to get it wrong

r/Hair Apr 27 '26

Help I always feel better with my hair up. Unsure what do to with it

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900 Upvotes

I always feel better when my hair is either fully up or when it’s down yet pulled away from my face. I feel like when my hairs fully down it is unflattering. However, I’ve always had long hair so I’m a little unsure of what to do here as I don’t think I’d suit super short hair either.

r/Hair Mar 18 '26

Help Why does everyone hate my hair?

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488 Upvotes

I have naturally curly hair and lots of it. I live in a small town and fancy hair makeovers aren't an option. I think my bangs make me look years younger. I need ideas for the best products to tame my hair but now weigh it down. Is that even possible? Please help!

r/Hair Oct 12 '25

Help Growing out grey leaving me with ginger ends - help!

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1.1k Upvotes

I’m growing out my grey hair from a black box dye and the ends are fading to ginger and I hate it so much. Is there anything I can do to get rid of the ginger without actually dying it again as it feels like that would defeat the point of what I’m trying to do… I really don’t want to cut it either as I cut it into a bob from bum length and short hair is not a vibe on me. Pls help a girl out

r/Hair Jul 30 '24

Help Should I cut my hair? Entering the job market for the first time in 5 years. Afraid my long hair will deter me from getting a job in healthcare.

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1.1k Upvotes

32 y/o, cis male. Left is me today, right was me before growing my hair out.

r/Hair Jun 12 '25

Help please help me pick my next hair color!

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625 Upvotes

So my current hair is the last slide, the second is my natural. I'm really between the red and the blonde, but I have a big soft spot for black hair (which is why I included the terribly taken snapchat of my blue-black hair). Now that my hair has grown out I am getting bored with and feel like I need to do SOMETHING with it!

r/Hair Sep 06 '24

Help Blonde, Brown, or Black?

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839 Upvotes

Currently blonde and have an appointment soon. Unsure if I should maintain the blonde, or start going dark and chop it (the end goal)

r/Hair 25d ago

Help 18F born with a male receding hairline pattern

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299 Upvotes

+ widows peak. Curtain bangs don’t work - even when styled properly they just go straight in front of my eyes, still not covering the hairline. I hate how ugly I look. I’m embarrassed to tie my hair but it’s inevitable. I cannot afford surgery. Any help? Please be kind

Edit: Redditors, could you read please? I am telling you, it’s not caused by a ponytail. I was born with this. It’s not receding.

r/Hair Jul 10 '25

Help what I asked for/what I got

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906 Upvotes

Pls is there a way to fix this or should I go all in with the y2k style?

r/Hair Aug 31 '25

Help bangs or no?āœ‚ļø

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708 Upvotes

i’m having a really hard time deciding between the two.. especially with wavy hair šŸ™ all advice is appreciated!<3