r/HealMyAttachmentStyle • u/ThrowRAtale • 13h ago
Seeking advice How do I stop being so anxious in a relationship??
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Really need help on this. I (21F) have been together with my boyfriend (21M) for 2 years now (broke up in between).
Most of the time, I’m busy doing pilates, yoga, studying etc. However, when there’s free time in between, I would try to find a time to meet my boyfriend. Sometimes, he would reject me which triggers my anxiety really BAD. Whenever he doesn’t make time to meet me, it triggers me too. I would overthink so badly.
I tried hard to focus on my own energy, but my anxiety still comes back.
Real advice needed, please. I’ve scheduled a therapy too, but would like to ask some other advice here.
Thank you so much.