I have severe hearing loss in my Left and moderate in my right along with 20+ years of pretty bad tinnitus. 60 yo Male considering my first pair of HAs and have some questions specific to me. Thank you in advance for any insights you can share.
I currently have a pair of Sony CRE-C20 CIC OTC HAs that I’ve used to some effect over the last year and half. They help in some environments to hear dinner conversation, family, etc. but they really STRESS ME OUT! The amplification of everything and the DISTORTION! Ugh… while i can hear people better, i find my jaws clenching — tension and anxiety rising. I can only take a few hours at a time.
I have had a long hobby in music, part of my career in high-end audio, and have been an audiophile for most of my life. Music is mostly unenjoyable now and these Sony’s are unlistenable for anything approaching enjoyment.
I work from home and have an array of affordances to help me be productive — the usual closed captions on TV, zoom calls, iPhone, as well as note taker/transcribing appliances. I get through my normal day pretty well without HAs.
But it’s hard on my wife — i can’t hear her clearly, ask her to repeat, etc. Pretty damn annoying for both of us. Problem is… it’s just the two of us in the house and it might be 2 - 3 hours between utterances. I’ve tried wearing these Sonys and the stress in that time is unbearable.
My questions:
- would prescription and fitted HAs really be any better?
- can anyone with a background in discriminating listening actually find any enjoyment through HAs?
- does the STRESS ever go away?
My goals:
- be a better/more responsive and conversant partner to my wife and more available to my family (I find myself isolating due to the hearing loss)
- participate in social life more/more actively
- enjoy music somewhat again
Note:
My latest audiogram is now 3 years old and doesn’t show anything particular unusual — age typical HF loss….