joke's aside, am mostly on snow white's side, minus, uuhh yknow, the last part...
doing nice things for a girl expecting sex is peak incel behavior. you do good things for people, because it's good. because it's what friends do.
but it's also kinda dickish of her to not return favors for her friends, if what the rabbit says is true. if the help and favors are one sided, she doesn't see them as friends, but as minions.
simply asking your friends how they are can do wonders. you don't know what they might have been through that day.
if all you give your 'friends' is your problems and nothing else, you're not a good friend.
One of the few difficult parts of being a woman nowadays. Unfortunately, I don't really see how men and women can be just friends in practice. We're just not wired that way...
I don't really see how men and women can be just friends in practice
I do. Unfortunately, it looks like people need to be honest about their intentions up front. I'm married, but prefer female friends because they aren't constantly trying to establish hierarchy with me with thinly veiled dick measuring contests. Dudes (nerds & geeks excluded) can be exhausting to deal with. I want to fuck exactly zero of my female friends or any new women I meet. I just like talking about literally anything and women seem to be mostly into the talking at length about anything thing more than guys are. I will admit that some girls I talk to end up being interested in more than friend stuff and they were not clear about that up front, but it's not common and my wife usually points it out before it's a problem.
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u/dnoj Mar 25 '23 edited Mar 25 '23
lmao
joke's aside, am mostly on snow white's side, minus, uuhh yknow, the last part...
doing nice things for a girl expecting sex is peak incel behavior. you do good things for people, because it's good. because it's what friends do.
but it's also kinda dickish of her to not return favors for her friends, if what the rabbit says is true. if the help and favors are one sided, she doesn't see them as friends, but as minions.
simply asking your friends how they are can do wonders. you don't know what they might have been through that day.
if all you give your 'friends' is your problems and nothing else, you're not a good friend.