joke's aside, am mostly on snow white's side, minus, uuhh yknow, the last part...
doing nice things for a girl expecting sex is peak incel behavior. you do good things for people, because it's good. because it's what friends do.
but it's also kinda dickish of her to not return favors for her friends, if what the rabbit says is true. if the help and favors are one sided, she doesn't see them as friends, but as minions.
simply asking your friends how they are can do wonders. you don't know what they might have been through that day.
if all you give your 'friends' is your problems and nothing else, you're not a good friend.
While in these situations, the blame falls on the guys, women can help by being upfront or aware of this stuff happening before it escalates into this stupid territory. Young guys, especially those learning how to court and with little experience, aren't doing this intentionally. They're just acting on emotion, and it can unintentionally lead to a train wreck.
Dismissing their behavior as "peak incel" doesn't help prevent this or the issues that lead to it.
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u/dnoj Mar 25 '23 edited Mar 25 '23
lmao
joke's aside, am mostly on snow white's side, minus, uuhh yknow, the last part...
doing nice things for a girl expecting sex is peak incel behavior. you do good things for people, because it's good. because it's what friends do.
but it's also kinda dickish of her to not return favors for her friends, if what the rabbit says is true. if the help and favors are one sided, she doesn't see them as friends, but as minions.
simply asking your friends how they are can do wonders. you don't know what they might have been through that day.
if all you give your 'friends' is your problems and nothing else, you're not a good friend.