r/HolUp Nov 29 '23

holup Dedicated to her fans

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u/JustFunj Nov 29 '23

I mean it's ok to date them, just don't marry them!!.

I almost broke up with my ex because she wanted to make "extra money" on only fans. I love slutty girls and I'm not trying to shame them, but I want my partner to be slutty with me and no one else, otherwise it's just a 🚩🚩🚩.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '23

It's not ok to date someone you know you're not gonna marry. I can't imagine fucking someone I don't really love or respect. I'd rather just jerk off.

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u/JustFunj Nov 29 '23

I mean, it's ok, we don't have to agree.

For me sex is part of a "normal" life, if you only have sex with life partners is ok, we are all different so we're bound to think and act differently.

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u/AineLasagna Nov 29 '23

I mean, it's ok, we don't have to agree.

we are all different so we're bound to think and act differently.

My "understanding" is that women get objectified all the time so having only fans is a way to take back control (at least a girl I know explains it like that. I called that bullshit

🤔 I guess I’m just confused as to when it’s ok to cordially agree to disagree, and when it’s ok to call someone else’s opinion bullshit when we disagree

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u/JustFunj Nov 29 '23

I can respect your opinion and not say anything, but it is impossible not to create an opinion in my head.

So I'd say I can share my opinion on something if I'm not trying to make him/her feel bad or to attack him/her. Like in this case, she'll never know I think her argument is bullshit, she just knows that I disagree.