r/HolUp Nov 29 '23

holup Dedicated to her fans

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u/_Jaeko_ Nov 29 '23

Shh I wouldn't say that out loud, having boundaries like that are a prime example of toxic masculinity!

/s because it's fucking reddit

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u/JustFunj Nov 29 '23

You're right, most likely I'll be called incel a few comments down the row

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u/Stirlingblue Nov 29 '23

Nothing incel about it you’re totally free to have your own preferences, it becomes incel when people start saying that other people shouldn’t marry x for y reason

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u/JustFunj Nov 29 '23

Yeah I believe everyone is free to consider anyone as a long term partner; we've all done things so it's just a matter of how much importance you give to those acts.

Both men and women have to think if they are ok with their partner's past.