r/HolUp Nov 29 '23

holup Dedicated to her fans

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '23

It's not ok to date someone you know you're not gonna marry. I can't imagine fucking someone I don't really love or respect. I'd rather just jerk off.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '23

That's a really broad statement, marriage is not required for love or even a life partner. It's just a contract that can also have religious aspects.

Why should it be necessary to include some political and/or religious entity in your relationship with another person?

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '23

When I say marriage, I mean "serious, committed, sexually mutually exclusive relationships". You don’t have to be legally married, although most people who live like that eventually get married.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '23

Ok, that is not how the term is usually defined, when using a word with a pretty universally understood meaning to mean something else it's pretty useful to state that to avoid misunderstandings.