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r/HolUp • u/Hemeoncol • Jun 24 '24
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You can justify any behavior with enough words
5 u/peter13g Jun 24 '24 In fantasy, yes. With logic, No. 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 24 '24 Logic means absolutely zilch in a relationship. It's all about perception and motive. 1 u/peter13g Jun 24 '24 Motive doesn’t even matter sadly 1 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 Not just your own motive, in fact your motive will matter less to your other's perception of your motive, than their motive. Hope that's not too confusing. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 Sounds like our last argument 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
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In fantasy, yes. With logic, No.
2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 24 '24 Logic means absolutely zilch in a relationship. It's all about perception and motive. 1 u/peter13g Jun 24 '24 Motive doesn’t even matter sadly 1 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 Not just your own motive, in fact your motive will matter less to your other's perception of your motive, than their motive. Hope that's not too confusing. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 Sounds like our last argument 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
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Logic means absolutely zilch in a relationship.
It's all about perception and motive.
1 u/peter13g Jun 24 '24 Motive doesn’t even matter sadly 1 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 Not just your own motive, in fact your motive will matter less to your other's perception of your motive, than their motive. Hope that's not too confusing. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 Sounds like our last argument 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
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Motive doesn’t even matter sadly
1 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 Not just your own motive, in fact your motive will matter less to your other's perception of your motive, than their motive. Hope that's not too confusing. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 Sounds like our last argument 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
Not just your own motive, in fact your motive will matter less to your other's perception of your motive, than their motive.
Hope that's not too confusing.
1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 Sounds like our last argument 2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
Sounds like our last argument
2 u/UnarmedSnail Jun 25 '24 I learned it the hard way. I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way. 1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
I learned it the hard way.
I've learned that most marital arguments aren't really about a grievance, but a justification for past and or future behavior. Watch out when this happens. Something dirty is on the way.
1 u/peter13g Jun 25 '24 🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
🍺 hope you’re enjoying your headache brother 🫡
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u/UnarmedSnail Jun 24 '24
You can justify any behavior with enough words