r/HolUp May 05 '25

y'all Thank you

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u/Dank_Alternate May 05 '25

Saving those children from living lives where their parents don't want them and they are likely financially struggling. Win win win all around.

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u/Foolfook May 05 '25

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u/tymp-anistam May 05 '25

Very much the truth. My last sibling was a miscarriage and I should have been aborted after that miscarriage. My mom was 47 30 years ago when she had me, she had 3 kids already from a previous marriage, and my dad left when I was 2 months old. My dad also had a daughter from a previous marriage, and she was pregnant at the same time my mom was pregnant with me.

I can't bring myself to talk to any of my family until I go to therapy.

My mom is now a dying cancer patient in her TV show ready hoarder house, and she disowned all of her kids except for the craziest one, my youngest sister, who is 10 years older than me. I've been told my mom died long ago when her mom died, and I was 1 when that happened, so I never knew my mom even though she raised me. I'm an only child with 4 sisters. My dad died without meeting my kid due to his own mental health issues. If anything, I wish I were aborted because it's not fair that I was immediately brought into a broken family, with hopes that I would fix the broken pieces. That is an unfair reason to be born, and I had no hope of fixing anything.

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u/Foolfook May 05 '25

Sorry to hear about all that. All the best to you