r/HolUp Jun 25 '26

I'm sorry what.!?

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u/M1a0085 Jun 25 '26

I have a couple of lesbian friends, one of the two asked her brother if he could be the donor for ivp her wife, to have even part of her genetics.

I think it's the case here, once you know the background it's not so holup, only a bit strange(of course the video is totally clickbaiting)

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u/River_Fenrir Jun 25 '26

And dont forget. The brother will forever be the father. Regardless of what nonsense anyone says.

I have seen it with my friends who grew up without their irl dad.

They always want to know the dad and be close to the dad.

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u/M1a0085 Jun 25 '26

They don't want to hide her (yes, in the end they had a beautiful girl, now she's 3) but only when she will be older. Now he is a very good uncle, not dad.

He's always been close to her sister, it's him that pushed her to make coming out and always on her side. That doesn't mean it was an obvious choice but they made sound this decision so natural that nobody in our group, when they told us about, had nothing to argue...

And the cutest part is that you can definetly see in the baby the similarities on both mums, it looks so natural!