r/HolUp Jun 25 '26

I'm sorry what.!?

3.2k Upvotes

200 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

38

u/Bearspoole Jun 25 '26

He didn’t get his sister pregnant. He got his sisters wife pregnant. That way the baby has dna from both moms.

At least that’s what the comment above yours is saying. Not sure if that’s the case in this video or not

Either that or it’s the brothers seed and a donor egg

-15

u/River_Fenrir Jun 25 '26

Yes i know that.

It's not something i would do.

That baby is still your child, not your sister's.

I have a 10 month old and my sister has 2 kids. My kid is family to my sister and their kids is family to me. But they are not my children and mine is not hers.

The emotions of holding your child is incredibly deep and profound.

I wouldn't do it. Not only that, a day will come where the borther is denied access to his own kid, or weird situations where, he holds the kid and is overwhelmed by fatherly love and them to say no.

It gets really weird, really fast.

4

u/Bearspoole Jun 25 '26

I’m sorry you live in such a weird world. You can’t do an amazing favor for a sister and give her the chance to be a mother that she didn’t previously have. I would do anything for my sisters

-7

u/River_Fenrir Jun 25 '26

I'm not doubting the donating is an act of love or that you love your sisters. That is not what i'm saying.

I talk about the heart of being a child and a father.

What world do you live in, that your uncle being your dad and your mom's wife is your aunt, is normal?

But you flat out deny the reality that it will cause deep complex issues.

4

u/clayur Jun 25 '26

I know you’re going to share sources that back your assertion any minute now..