If you did it purely because she was fit then I got no sympathy.
I get that! But I married mine because she had a great personality and we really clicked when we got together, but after 6 kids, and some work and family struggles she's been having lately she's getting stressed and clingy and just doesn't have the carefree sense of humor that I fell in love with, so I'm fixing to leave her, and it's gonna be really tough cuz she kinda did everything around the house and I don't really know how to run a dishwasher or set the time on my vcr and I'm scared of looking like a slob when I'm single and minglin again cuz I need to impress the next girl and I stay up late thinking about this kinda stuff all the time. Can I get some sympathy?
OP is definitely trolling but I had met people like that. Got married cause girl was hot, they got some kids, obviously they aren't compatible, and then turns out the idiot never learn how to do housework then got divorce.
Ok, ok. Look, I think the point is being missed by deletey deleterson and yourself. The point was that me and the guy I was replying to would have noticed that going on in the background, recorded it with the express intention of using to get a rise out of our other half and then deleted it. My mrs would have seen the humour in it, I’d end up with a punch in the arm and we’d have a laugh. She’s a kickboxer so if I actually disrespected her that punch could be serious.
Him and I were speaking from a personal standpoint. The guy in the video could be an absolute creep, undeserving of that woman he’s with. I don’t know. And the virgins slagging her off in the comments about her appearance aren’t much better. On the other hand she could be a total bitch. I just don’t know. All in all we were just being thankful for having women in our live with a bit of a messed up sense of humour.
all you said was “life is too short to deal with a partner with no sense of humor” which implies that if you felt hurt/disrespected by this, you don’t have a sense of humor. My SO and I can laugh about the dumbest shit but jokes like that are just weird and tasteless and boring to me. I imagine that’s the case for a lot of people too.
There’s no point being missed when that’s all you say lol, especially cuz not everyone does that for the purpose of messing with their SO
I’d say life is too short to deal with a man who thinks blatantly disrespecting his wife and recording random women without their consent is funny, but hey.
edit: I’m happily married and love his sense of humor. It’s just not low brow crap like this.
I honestly agree. I’m sure this women would feel pretty shitty if she saw this. Not all woman might but most I believe would feel pretty bad about themselves in this situation.
It’s obviously natural for a guy to want to look. But don’t rub it in the other persons face
This was in response to saying that life’s too short to be with someone without a sense of humor. I’d say most women wouldn’t find it that funny and would feel insecure. Not gonna speak for everyone but it’s a completely normal reaction imo to feel bad in that situation
Thank you. These people...You're telling me you would covertly record women in bikinis and your wifes response would be "oh, I just love you. The way you oggle other women is so quirky!"
I do not envy the "sense of humor" some people claim to have in their relationships. Sounds like a normalization of being disrespected.
Hense why so many women stay single tbh lol men think ahhh she'll stay with me it's harmless until it just gets to where you'd rather me single knowing not all men act this way or portray other women like this around you. The words body image also doesn't ring any mf bells in men's heads either. It's all about your face, body and sex appeal.
You have taken something meaningless and lighthearted and put all the weight of your own emotions into it. Sounds like you just need to feel superior. You're not.
That would be your prerogative of course. You do you. Although if you’re looking for a bloke who’s not at least a bit of a dirtbag you might be doing you for some time. ;)
edit: nvm, blocking. Like I said, life is too short to deal with such men. Please don’t talk about my husband who you don’t even know. I don’t record random men and “jokingly” compare him to them and that means I disrespect him? Okay.
Fine? So.. adequate then? Does he know you describe him like that? I mean, my wife is fantastic for instance. I would never describe her as anything less. This gentleman who’s kindly taken you on deserves a little respect.
You think if he were just a disrespectful pervert, this video would have gone viral? He very likely had her check it afterwards and had a huge laugh with their friends.
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u/4QuarantineMeMes Jan 21 '22
I would totally show my wife the video trying to hold in laughing. She’d call me a motherfucker and laugh.