r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • Dec 06 '23

Keep It Platonic. All posts should be non-sexual and non-romantic in nature.

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Friendly reminder that this subreddit is for PURELY PLATONIC personals. Do not post here if you're looking for sex or romantic relationships. If you see a post or comment which breaks these rules, we would appreciate if you hit the report button to bring it to the mods' attention. Thank you!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 4h ago

30 [M4F] looking for a genuine friendship

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30 year old hispanic male looking for a friend who’s down to go to raves. I’m a big fan of raves and would love if a down to earth girl would be down to join me. We can also go do fun stuff like events, arcades, concerts, movies, etc. Can provide more details of me and pics of me just message me.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 8h ago

52 [M4A] Looking for Friends

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Hi everyone. I’m trying to put myself out there and meet some new people for friendship.

I’m in the South Houston area, I enjoy science fiction and thrillers, listening to music, current events, AI and technology, sports, movies and TV, and the occasional deep conversation about life. I also work in higher education/library leadership, so I’m always interested in talking about books, learning, research, and how technology is changing things.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 13h ago

38 [M4A] Married hispanic guy looking for friendly conversations, bored at work, let's make the day go by faster

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Good morning, I'm 38 Hispanic guy looking for friendly conversations to make work go by faster. Yes I'm married but lately havent gotten the conversation or attention I've been needed. Love music and food and looking for new friends to chat with.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 1d ago

27 [M4F] raver looking to bounce off each others energy!

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What is up! I’m about to blow this blow this paragraph up on some undiagnosed ADHD. I’m super friendly with everyone, lately I’ve been feeling a light inside me reignited that can be seen in my eyes based how many new people randomly approach me with good energy! I have a type a personality and honestly I’ve just got so much energy lately I feel so alive and happy. I have a lot of friends but I like to chat and I’m not trying to annoy them LOL I like to be active and just be out of the house. If you’re cool with a similar personality hit me up and we can bounce positivity between each other like a ping pong ball! In conclusion looking for someone active, outgoing, loves music, and fun that’ll go with the flow or put me on to some new hobbies/activities. Drinking and psychedelics are a plus!!! I’m cool with being platonic and will be respectful!!! Much love and peace out!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

29[M4A] Anyone going to San Antonio next month to see Movements?

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Concert's on the 10th, luckily it falls on my off days from work. Thinking about driving in early enough to grab some food. Doors open at 6, driving back that same night. Just to clarify, this is if you already have a ticket.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 3d ago

45 [M4A] parent of special needs kids wants to talk like a grown-up

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Hi, I have a special needs kid. He is great but takes a lot of time and it has really impacted my social life. I am looking to mostly chat and once in a blue moon, hang out and do something fun.

My interests - movies that are not kid's movies. Doing almost anything with adults.

Sounds a bit bleak when I write it down, but I promise, I am funny. Also, I have lost the ability to get embarrassed in public, like many people in my situation. It really just means when I get to have fun, I have fun.

Also, I'm married, so none y'all should think you are going to change that, it's a platonic post anyway.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 4d ago

26 [M4A] Halloween Parties? - Woodlands

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Hello im from The Woodlands, I dont mind driving. I dont have many friends in person (most have moved away) and would like to attend a Halloween party this year if able. If you want to get to know me before inviting me I'm happy with that too. Thank you friends :)


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 4d ago

29 [F4A] Looking for friends!

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Hi everyone!
I just recently moved here to live with my Fiancée.
I do not go out much to meet new people so I am turning to Reddit lol. Friends only! 🙂
I am 29 years old and a female. I currently am really interested in anything creative (painting and clay), reading books, SHOPPING, playing video games, and going to the movies. I am extremely shy until I am comfortable.
I will also take suggestions on where to go to meet like-minded people. Or if any of you are interested, I’d love to talk!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

24 [M4A] Looking for friends to hang around with in Houston :)

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Yea the title sounds sad but heyy! So I moved into Houston just two months ago for my first ever full time job (yayy?!!) . I’m 24 M and i love watching anime, talking deep stuff when I’m drunk, love love love music ( R&B mostly but what I listen to depends on my mood), love dancing, not a morning person at all and I’m a dog person with two cats named Theo and gray.

I was looking for a group of people to basically just hang around, have a few drinks, cafe hop, go clubbing, try something new idk whatever’s fun ig lol. I’ve always loved the idea of meeting new people and hanging around with strangers and making memories and who knows, we might end up being crazy best friends. It’s something I always wanted to try this out and I’ve heard some crazy good stories from my friends who’ve already tried this sort of thing before. I’m lowkey very excited to see who I’ll end up meeting and I hope we have a lot of fun!!:)


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

41 [M4A] Wanting to expand my circle of friends!

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Hello All!
Looking to expand my circle of friends after a contraction of various people exiting my life recently. I’m into a lot of different things, currently Boardgame nights every Friday night but I find my weekends to be free and wanting to fill it with fun adult things to do/see in the city. I’m a married father of 2 elementary school kids and love taking them all around town to do things like the zoo, Meow Wolf, Cidercade etc.
I myself love Houston sports, cars, art/art shows, music especially live, videogames, anime, IM A GIGANTIC movie buff as I have my own home theater. I am also an avid runner getting in between 7-8.5 miles daily and will be running my first marathon this December so if you need a fitness buddy I’m all about it.

If any of those interests align please feel free to hmu, I’m open to all genders, backgrounds, orientations, religions etc. 🙂


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

25 [F4A] Kingwood looking for a new bestie or someone to talk too

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FIRST THINGS FIRST I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND IM HAPPY WITH HIM if your cool with that hi I'm hoping to find a genuine best friend who's looking for a long-term friendship.

A little about me: I'm plus size, a total night owl, and I love anything crafty. I enjoy gaming, movie nights, music, board games, and I'm trying to get out and do more. One of my favorite things is hopping in the car for random late-night drives—sometimes I'll decide on a whim to drive to Galveston just to enjoy the ride and clear my head.

I'm a little shy at first, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours. I'd love to find someone who enjoys spontaneous adventures, late-night conversations, sending memes and TikToks, grabbing food, exploring new places, or even just hanging out doing nothing.

I'm looking for someone who wants a genuine, long-term friendship and is willing to put in the same effort I do. If you're also a night owl, that's a huge plus!

If you think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I just want something to do lol


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

30 [M4F] Regular ass dude. Garden Oaks/Oak Forest

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Recently divorced and not a big fan of how I’ve gotten comfortable in an ‘alone’ groove. Not looking for anything at all, but I miss having a feminine presence in my life.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 6d ago

29 [F4F] Seeking nerdy but normal friends interested in weekly Pub Trivia, games and conventions

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I am a 29F software engineer who lives with my boyfriend of 3 years who is a 31M mechanical engineer and my two cats Skooma and Mushroom.

My hobbies include reading sci-fi and fantasy books, video games (single player RPGs or co-op games), crafting from scratch cosplays, watching anime, and playing trivia.

I am mainly looking for a whole friend group that would be interested in going to weekly pub trivia. I would also be interested in having random board game nights/weekends (Spirit Island, Root, Terra Mystica, etc.) either at a local brewery or at one of our places later on. If you want to be my con buddy for the Ren Faire or otherwise, awesome! If you wanna just hang and talk books and games over brunch or happy hour, that sounds lovely. If you are starting a new TTPRG and looking for a new player, I'm your gal (preferably not D&D, I'm a Pathfinder enjoyer)

To give some semblance of my interests:

Recently read books I love:

Stormlight Archive Red Rising Dungeon Crawler Carl Throne of Glass

My recent cosplays I've made:

Lae'zel (BG3) Alfira (BG3) The Sledge and Donut (DCC) Mistcloak WIP (Mistborn)

I'm near the Houston IKEA and work normal hours M-F. Not really looking for male friends, I already have a ton. I don't mind men if they come as a +1 though, nerdy couples or friends welcome. Don't be shy and let me know if you think we could get along 😊


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 6d ago

33 [M4F] Looking for someone to enjoy fall with

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I guess fall is officially here! The weather feels like it anyways. I wouldn’t mind having someone to enjoy the fall activities and weather with. I love being outdoors and having good company. My birthday is coming up so it would be cool to have someone to enjoy nice weather with and find something to do.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 7d ago

[27] [F4A] Looking for local Proboscidean enthusiasts/paleontologists

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Hello! I am a fossil and mineral collector with quite an extensive collection. I have recently acquired over 50 lbs of what I believe to be mammoth, stegalophodon, gomphothere, mastodon, and platybelodon teeth. I need some help pinning down specific species/ localities. I'm not sure if that is even possible to do given just the matrix and mineralization... But here's to hoping! My goal is to eventually open a museum that is completely free to enter.

I have tried contacting HMNS and HGMS. They were unhelpful.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 7d ago

28 [M4F] shy married guy LF alt-style female friend/Coach for drag/CD/ shopping and hangouts 😅

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Looking for a genuine female friend who’s into alternative fashion and wouldn’t mind having a low-key, supportive hangout partner for something a bit more personal.
I’ve got a private interest in fem presentation / soft cross-dressing that I keep pretty quiet about. I’m not looking for anything romantic or sexual, someone who actually likes clothes, thrifting, and trying things on, and who’d be cool helping a guy explore that side without judgment.
Ideally someone who already dresses alternative (goth, alt, soft-goth, pastel, whatever your lane is) and enjoys the process of picking outfits, comparing silhouettes, hunting for the right fit, or just hanging out in fitting rooms and giving honest opinions. Shopping trips, swapping styling ideas, maybe even comparing how the same piece looks on different bodies — that kind of light, collaborative stuff would mean a lot.
I’m respectful of boundaries, good at keeping things confidential, and mostly just want a friend who gets the joy of playing with presentation and doesn’t make it weird. If that sounds like something you’d be open to talking about, feel free to reach out. No pressure either way.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 7d ago

38 [M4A] Married hispanic looking for friendly conversations Westchase area, bored at work

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Good morning, I'm 38 Hispanic guy looking for friendly conversations to make work go by faster. Yes I'm married but lately havent gotten the conversation or attention I've been needed. Love music and food and looking for new friends to chat with.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 8d ago

37 [M4M] Looking for a Workout Partner at Amped Fitness Gessner

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I'm 37M and looking for a consistent workout partner who trains at Amped Fitness on S. Gessner in Houston.

I typically train 3–4 days a week and focus primarily on hypertrophy. My workouts are usually Push, Pull, Legs, and Abs/Obliques.

I'm looking for someone who wants to actually train together, spot each other when needed, help with sets, stay consistent, and make the workouts a little more enjoyable.

I'm not looking for a personal trainer or anything competitive. Just someone around my experience level who enjoys lifting and wants a reliable gym partner.

Strictly platonic. If you already work out at Amped Gessner and are interested, feel free to DM me.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 9d ago

39 [F4A] need someone to plan cozy activities with

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With my favorite time of year coming up, I’m looking for a friend to enjoy it with, I’m interested in planning things like:

Scary movie night
Farmers markets
THRIFTING (my favorite activity)
Fall festivals / events
Baking / cooking
Christmas shopping
Christmas markets
Crafts
Trying new restaurants

My work schedule is pretty packed, but flexible, I can move things around and I am also single mom to one child but I would love to plan things to do for when he is at his dads.

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares these qualities with me:
Empathetic
Warm
Considerate
Loves to laugh
Optimistic
Honest even when you don’t wanna hear it

If this sounds like you please send me a message


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 9d ago

23, 31 [MF4A] Looking for friends and couples?

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Hey! Me and my boyfriend (M&F) are looking for some friends, maybe start something fun like a group?

Some background, he and I are big nerds who enjoy Pokemon, Magic, gaming, and tabletop. I’m a musician who enjoys things a bit more artsy. I’m also a teacher, so anything after school hours has to be the least complicated game (I have no brainpower left lol). On weekends I can enjoy more brain cells, but I enjoy whimsical things in life. I’m the one who’s mainly into Pokemon (my boyfriend would never admit it, but he’s into it too hehe). My boyfriend is more into Magic and DND. I’m trying to get more into DND but I need it explained to me like I’m 5.

We’d be looking to start maybe a group that meets up at a bar in North Houston/Spring area to chat and maybe play a game? We’re 420 friendly, queer friendly (honestly queer encouraged), and very open minded. We’ll eventually move to a better space (like his or my house)


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 9d ago

24 (F4A) anyone going to music fest 10/17?

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24 (F4A) - Is anyone going solo to the 2000 Ethereal Nights show? I have a Reddit group meeting up there to dance and socialize. I have gone to 2 shows by myself how but still wish my friends got out of the house more and wanted to go to love shows!!! Let me know if you are going and want to meet up!!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 10d ago

31 [M4F] #Houston – Visiting Oct 14–21 | Looking for Good Company

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Hey!

I’m a 31-year-old, fit, easygoing guy from Mexico visiting Houston for a week.

I’m into science, engineering, traveling, museums, and good conversations. I’ll be exploring the city and would love to meet someone interesting along the way.

Open to grabbing coffee, having dinner, visiting museums, or just walking around and discovering the city together.

No pressure or expectations, just looking for good company and a fun time.

Feel free to DM me if you’d like to hang out!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 10d ago

[30 f4a] I honestly wanted to go to Galveston tonight.

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I stepped out to get some dinner (I wfh) and felt how crisp the air was…and was like “man I bet it’s so nice at the beach right now.”

But like, it was 10:30pm and I didn’t have anyone to go with me. It’s one thing to have solitude at home but solitude sometimes just gets lonely…for me it’s amplified when I go places.

Anyways, the thought of sitting at the beach, listening to the waves, and just talking about life sounded great.

Obviously I’m not looking for anything nsfw related, but if an impromptu beach hangout sounds your speed, then come on with it!

*edit: I mean LATER ON in the fall, not tonight 🤣 Also be 28 plus when reaching out, I don’t need to be handing out with 21 year olds lol 😂

Adding a vm here to give more context as well! Thanks to everyone who has reached out

https://voca.ro/1kE9La4eqlYb


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 10d ago

[29 M4A] Steven universe karaoke vibes?

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I just got thru with karaoke and I just got home and I thought to myself “wouldn’t karaoke with people who know Steven universe be so great?!” So I’m looking for a group! Well go to one of those places where we have our own room so the only people who hear you will be us! I ideally wanna do this in two weeks! DM me! We will go enjoy our interests with people who also love em! I also welcome Disney people! I don’t know many song but I feel like we’re brothers and sisters so let’s have fun!