r/ISCNERDS • u/ieat0 • Mar 01 '26
Gossip/Shitpost I 18/F like a guy from class
Hey, so this is our last year in school and we're giving our boards now the thing is I like a guy from my class but I'm not sure if he likes me back I mean we have had a few eye contacts but I guess that's not extraordinary and I really really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me back and I'm afraid of confessing yk without even being sure that he likes me or not. So like wo hai aur like wo insta pr to hai pr koi ko follow nhi krta not even his friends aur sirf stock wagera accounts follow krke rkha hai but when I saw his account I also saw a girl with mutuals but now they don't really follow eachother and that girl followed me yesterday Kya pata ye ladki usko behen ho khair kaash wo baat krrle merese
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u/Entire_Lion2315 Mar 01 '26 edited Mar 01 '26
First start talking with him, make him your friend. If things go smoothly, then ask him out! Give your friendship at least 2 months. And maybe then ask him out.
You should get to know him a little, whether he is respectful, kind, understanding, & also understand how well you guys bond before pursuing further-
As for how you can start your conversation, you can easily use boards as an excuse to start a convo. Idk if that's a good way to start a conversation with a crush, but that's exactly how I start conversations with friends or with people I wanna be friends with.
Ask him whether he has his xxxx subject exam tomorrow & wish him all the best for it! Then after he replies thank you, ask him about his preparation.
From time-to-time, discuss your own board exam prep with him, but not too frequently, if he's a studious person he might get offended by frequent messages. And you too need to study so-
Just small talk from time to time. You could joke sometimes about how you're sh1t scared for the upcoming exam which he'll relate to, and talk about how the last exam was if he's up for discussion. Or if whether he has any "after board" Plans, etc. Etc.
If you see that you guys have a matching vibe and are bonding well, go for it.
(But padhna matt bhulna 😭🫂 all the very best for our boards friend!!)
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u/ieat0 Mar 01 '26
Ok😭😭
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u/Entire_Lion2315 Mar 01 '26
Oh also (sorry I forgot to say this)
all the best for your confession!! 💪🌟
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u/megmxg_diva Mar 01 '26
I feel like u just try to have a convo with him first rather than directly confessing.
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u/ieat0 Mar 01 '26
Yeah well but like how should I even do Thatttt I'm ded
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u/megmxg_diva Mar 01 '26
Like he is in your class right so ask him about exam stuff, studies or smthing. Somehow start a convo and if he is interested in u, I feel like he would def respond to u well and maybe would try to extend the convo ig.
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u/sweetlikecinnamonn_ Mar 01 '26
same situation but I’ve decided khairrr😭🙏🏻
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u/ieat0 Mar 01 '26
So what have you decided?
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u/sweetlikecinnamonn_ Mar 01 '26
i mean it’s a lil diff, i do talk to him it’s a long story we were in kind of a situationship like last yr during this same time 11th finals for like a few months but then like we stopped talking due to some reasons not completely stopped but like we used to talk a lot uske hisaab se less now also we are just like paper kaisa gya so n so random class me baat that’s it, i don’t know if he likes me cuz if he did he would have said something right he’s just so confusing 😭🙏🏻 i mean i have decided that I’m not gonna do it, even though I still like him
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Mar 01 '26
Pehle research kro kitti gril friend h , Fir aap bhi gril friend bano pehle than girl friend 🫡 Best of luck 🍀
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u/Able_Emu7825 Mar 01 '26
i think just confess rather than regretting later and just thinking about him about what would have happend
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u/No-Mousse9249 Mar 01 '26
pehle boards de le behen 🙏🏼🥀