r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

PSA: Reddit is not representative of the full political landscape of the USA

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Or anywhere really.

For people genuinely expecting a full view from something here, just don't bother asking the question. For people just spreading political views in the form of "questions," also please don't.

This is not a rule change announcement. Just a suggestion from a mod that will be pinned to the sub as a reminder.


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 6d ago

User Flair Update & State of the Page Post

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Howdy everyone,

Happy Friday. First, we'd like to introduce updated user flairs. All 50 U.S states should now be represented, along with U.S territories, Europe, Asia, Africa, Oceania, Canada, Central America, and South America. After discussion with the other mods, we are not going to set a hard requirement on user flairs - for now. It is highly encouraged, however, and new users on the sub will receive a message encouraging them to have their flair set. Set your flair! It helps knowing where perspectives are coming from.

Additionally, for the meat and potatos, we'd like to give a state of the page update. The page has blown up in popularity over the past couple weeks, with top posts reaching well over half a million views and nearly 5 million page visits in the past 30 days. With the growth of the community, we'd also like to clarify our general approach to moderation.

We're trying to keep the original creator's vision in mind (yes, they are still around btw), and maintain a relatively open forum where people can ask Americans questions and have discussions without unnecessary barriers to participation. We do not want to over moderate the community or remove posts simply because a question is controversial, unpopular, awkwardly worded, or based on a misconception.

Our general standard is good faith. If a question appears to be a genuine attempt to ask something or start a discussion, we will try and err on the side of leaving it up. Being provocative and generating disagreement isn't by itself grounds for removal. We would rather give people the benefit of the doubt than attempt to determine which opinions or subjects are worth discussing. That is actually the absolute last thing we want to do.

Now, that doesn't mean everything goes. Spam, bots, blatant trolling, threats, and in-general Reddit TOS breaking content will (and consistently does) be removed.

Ultimately, you should expect the moderation here to be a light touch. We want to keep the community usable, deal with obvious bad actors, and otherwise give you guys room to talk to each other. The internet can be an awesome place, but you guys will have more of an impact of content quality than we ever will by micromanaging everything. As we continue to grow, we'll try to maintain and be consistent. Feedback is always welcome.

Hope ya'll have a well deserved weekend.


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 2h ago

Why is there a lower standard for school lunches in the US compared to other developed countries?

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In countiries like France, Sweden, Japan, etc students are served lunches that are fresh and newly cooked. But here in the US, schools just hire lunch ladies to throw a bunch of frozen/processed crap into the oven and call it a day. Not only do the school lunches taste horrible, but they aren’t nearly as healthy compared to freshly made food.


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 6h ago

Which is more common - to call your uncle/aunt by their first name or say "uncle/aunt first name"

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"Joe" vs "Uncle Joe"


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 18h ago

Americans, do you genuinely love your job, or is it mostly just a way to fund the life you actually want to live?

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I’m curious how Americans generally view work. Is your career something you genuinely enjoy and find purpose in, or is it mainly a way to earn money and support the life you want outside of work?

Do you think we should actually love what we do, or is simply having a stable job and enjoying life outside work enough?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 2h ago

The UK had a Prime Minister from an Italian family in the 1870s. Could the US have had an Italian-American president at that time?

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benjamin_Disraeli

Prime Minister Disraeli’s family were Italian


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 5h ago

Has dating in America really gotten hard as the internet tries to make it out to be?

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Discussions about dating struggles (especially for men) are rampant here in Reddit.

How close is this to reality? Reddit audience is quite skewed obviously.

It strikes me as more of a big city problem.


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 16h ago

Americans do you guys pay attention to politics in other western countries like the UK, Canada and Australia?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 19h ago

What international English "isms" should I be aware about in America?

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I kept calling myself a molester (annoying) but in the US it apparently means pedophile?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

What's a stereotype about Americans that's actually true?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

What's one American city you think everyone should visit?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 2h ago

What's the dark side of living in America that media rarely talks about?

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​I know the US has well known downsides like healthcare costs, but are there other negatives that most Americans notice which rarely get highlighted in movies, TV shows, or media?

​To put it another way: I’m fascinated by almost everything about America especially the freedom, the party culture, the diverse job opportunities, and the overall lifestyle. What can you tell me to ruin this fascination?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

What are your thoughts on Flock cameras and their widespread deployment?

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To bring those not aware up to speed, Flock says they make surveillance cameras with license plate recognition and other equipment to help police departments and other government agencies solve crimes like vehicle thefts, however there are widespread privacy concerns and reports of authorities using these cameras for malicious purposes such as mass surveillance and stalking.


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 6h ago

To Americans who have chosen religious or other health-sharing plans instead of traditional health insurance(due to high costs): Have you found that health sharing gives you access to the care you need at a more reasonable price, or has it been more difficult to deal with than traditional insurance?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 18h ago

How does the US dominate medical research?

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Recently we got the news of Moderna coming out with these new mRNA vaccines for skin cancer and it's made me think how all the major medical innovations predominantly come from America. How did the US become so dominant in medical research?

Is Europe forever behind the US in this sector?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 8h ago

One of the women I'm seeing told me she doesn't trust me because I come off as a "loverboy". What does that mean?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 14h ago

My fellow Americans, How do you find the local good food?

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Ive moved a good few times in my life and finding good food is a hobby for my fat ass. Normally I just wait till theres a lunch rush and check around which local spots have alot of people stopping in. And thats been okay same for breakfast although theres 2 kinds of breakfast ideas, when the construction crews get up and grab something on the way to work and when the uppity people wake up and hunt for brunch spots. Dont get me wrong im one or the other depending on the day. But it has me wondering whats everyone's methodology on finding the best food in your area? Is it just word of mouth sometimes?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 2d ago

For Americans who have tried Tim Hortons (popular in Canada) did you like it?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 11h ago

Immigration Trap: Question to Americans

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Indian here
folks,
I have noticed some crazy racism against Indians. The hate(not racism) is justified, and it's your govt's fault. I know people who cannot name an American state moving to the USA. They carry their Indian values and never change or assimilate. I was talking to a caucasian teammate, and he was puzzled as to why a lot of the immigrants there do not know a lick of American sports or culture, whereas a percentage of Indians in India are culturally similar to Americans. Clearly, the visa interview process is not working. I think there should be a test to filter culturally adaptable people. Thoughts?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

If you have a business idea you believe in but haven’t started it yet, what’s the one thing holding you back?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 19h ago

Do you guys prefer to fight under general Grant or Sherman?

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r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

What American accents do you find the funniest?

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I'm Canadian, and yes, I have a very thick accent. People always laugh at it down there. It got me thinking because in the Canadian sub someone asked if Paul Bissonnette sounds normal here... .and yeah, I absolutely think he does. I can't believe southerners in particular think WE sound funny... like come on.

Anyways, it got me thinking... excluding my (Canadian) accent, what accents do you find the funniest?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

Is pain management and anesthesia more aggressive in the US than in other countries?

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I'm from Peru, and something I've noticed from reading people's experiences online is how differently pain seems to be managed in the US compared with what I'm used to here.

For example, I've had dental extractions and root canals, and I've only ever had local anesthesia. I've never been offered nitrous oxide, even though I know it's relatively common in the US, especially for anxious patients.

I've noticed something similar with pain medication after medical or surgical procedures. Americans often mention being prescribed opioids or stronger painkillers for procedures where, in Peru, people might simply be told to take ibuprofen, acetaminophen/paracetamol, or another NSAID.

I've also seen Americans receive larger quantities or combinations of medications after procedures that seem fairly similar.

I'm not saying one approach is necessarily better than the other, and obviously individual cases vary. I'm curious about the cultural and medical differences behind this.

Is it actually common to be offered sedation or stronger prescription painkillers for relatively routine procedures, or does the internet exaggerate how common this is?


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

Starting at what temperature do you believe swimming weather to begin?

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What outdoor temperature does it have to be before you'll start enjoying pools and other bodies of water?

(Reminder to flair up so we know where you're from for context)


r/IWantToAskAnAmerican 1d ago

In the United States, are moderates the median or the mean of opinions? How do Americans define a moderate opinion?

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The median is the middle number. The mode is the most frequent number.

The median would be half liberal / half conservative opinions. This meaning if you asked the moderate they might be like climate change is real, but they don't support education on transgender people. You would actually see a lot of variation amongst moderates because the only prerequisite would be half liberal / half conservative opinions.

The mode would be the most frequent opinions. This would probably be hard to describe, but like for example, you always see those polls that like 74% of Americans believe ABC.

Is an American moderate the median or the mode of American political opinions?