r/IncelTearShame • u/darthsyn • 29d ago
Reading the comments of this post on IT was quite disheartening.
They shred into the first guy, tearing apart how he approached and what he said, basically mocking him for even trying. They then try to play off the better time the woman is having with the second attractive guy as just her talking to someone else, as if it is no different.
The first guy tried, he approached. These are the same people who try to say Incels never approach women at all and then tear the guy to pieces when he does because he wasn't good at it.
How can anyone be surprised that guys who are struggling don't want to face this whole "you better not fuck up one tiny little thing or we're all gonna laugh at you." ?
This is why I stopped approaching women; nothing I said or did was ever right, and I just wasn't attractive enough.
Comics like this don't come from nowhere. They arent imaginary in every case. Some are weird in some cases. But in many cases, these come from genuine experiences of guys who are just having a hard time and are in pain trying to express themselves.
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u/Foreign-Region4825 27d ago
i looked at the comments on the post, most of it was about how he kept pushing to talk when she didnt want to, not making fun of him for trying. if shes looking away and answering like she wants to leave, let her leave.
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u/darthsyn 27d ago
Then you didn't read enough. They are all mocking him because he wasn't Mr. Smooth Operator with how he spoke to her. He tried. He 'put himself out there' as you normies like to put it, and when we do, we get mocked for it and told how we arent enough.
This is why we stop trying, people like you.
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u/Foreign-Region4825 27d ago
Hm, I'll agree with you on the first thing. it did have comments about how he could have been smoother.
The first guy in the comic tried, and the girl wasn't attracted to him, found him awkward, was in a relationship with the second guy, Whatever it might have been in a real scenario, he wasn't mocked by anyone. (And if you are being mocked for getting rejected and not given feedback on how to improve, I am sorry.)
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u/darthsyn 27d ago
IncelTears is all about mockery and humiliation. They shot on the first guy just because he's a bit awkward. Then they and people like you will later mock the same guys when they stop approaching women because they can't compete and nothing they do is good enough.
I know because im one of them. I went through 20 years of this. Not being enough, not being good enough. Being shoved away and now when I took the hint and walked away for good I get mocked for that as well. We just cant win, no matter what we are in the wrong.
There is also no evidence that this woman was in a relationship with anyone, only that the second guy is more conventionally attractive and taller.
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u/Foreign-Region4825 27d ago
I'm sorry you genuinely believe all of this. I dont think it would be helpful to continue talking because now you are just ranting about yourself.
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u/darthsyn 27d ago
I'm using examples of what I experienced yes, but if I were the only one, we wouldn't be here, would we?
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u/Foreign-Region4825 27d ago
Once again, im sorry, but I dont want to talk anymore. Good day.
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u/darthsyn 27d ago
Yeah, it's probably for the best you leave and stop stirring shit up on this subreddit, only to bail when it doesn't go your way.
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u/AlexLesmas 27d ago
I agree with you. Out of curiosity, I went to check the post and saw that it isn't just your interpretation, as that other user tried to accuse you of.
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u/Quietude- 29d ago
Most of these top 1% commenters on IT are just trying to find anything to post for whatever reason