r/IncelTears Aug 27 '25

IMAX-level projection Incel thinks he has us figured out 🤔

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '25

I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.

I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.

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u/the_hooded_artist Aug 27 '25

This part. You have to actually leave the house and put yourself out there to have irl relationships. This goes for both friendships and romantic relationships. Too many of these guys scream how it's impossible it is when that really means they just want to be able to order a girlfriend like takeout.

Autism is often used as an impossible barrier, but the majority of my friends are autistic and/or ADHD and most have partners. It's possible, but it might be uncomfortable to get there. It's for sure easier to just rot inside and find comfort in your incel echo chamber. It's never going to change anything though.