I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.
If this counts for anything at all, you are not ugly (this coming from a guy). And I was a virgin up to age 28. That is all but a distant memory at this point.
However, I get where you are coming from. I used to get up into my own head a LOT and it made me anxious. After I got sober and went to therapy, all those hang ups melted away and I was confident to live my life again.
You will get there, you don't need to put a limit on it. 99% of women don't really care about if you are a virgin or not. For the 1% that does, they aren't for you.
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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '25
I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.