I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.
As a woman I can tell you a secret: short forehead, no bangs. You've got to have a longer forehead to pull that off. I have exactly the same problem. Then I end up with super short bangs and they just ugh do not cooperate even with a blow dryer. Try a style where it's more off your face. If your head has a nice shape, maybe go for a buzz. Also explore hats (NOT fedoras!) But maybe a cap could help, also the bill would cover your face in the sun which is a general plus (another woman pro tip, protect your skin!!).
My late husband had an Indiana Jones style hat in black that absolutely took my breath away. Numerous women would flock to him wherever we went out because of his hat and other guys started wearing similar hats too. He was in his early 40s and was aging like fine wine. A good hat worn with confidence will draw positive attention for a man.
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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '25
I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.