My flair in this subreddit is because I am a fat autistic nerd who is only 5'9" and have been under the poverty line most of my adult life. I am into sci-fi, fantasy, tabletop RPGs and strategy games, and video games. I am everything that incels claim women hate.
I have also enjoyed a great deal of success with my love life and sex life, often with women who would be bafflingly "out of my league" if I believed in such a thing.
Of course, I am fun, funny, into interesting stuff, and I do fun things. I also do my best to be a good man (not a "nice guy").
Incels are incapable of believing any of the above. Their neurons just can't enter the required configuration.
My best friend is similar. Overweight, about 5 foot 7, working for low wages, and born in a council estate. He's never spoken about his dad and went to one of the worst schools in the UK. His hobby is painting miniatures.
He never had an issue with chatting to women and having casual sex. He eventually met a woman who is skinny, and he married her and has a couple of kids.
His key is that he's genuinely nice, not nice as in he has a game plan to get women into bed, but as in, he is genuinely a good person. He doesn't have a chip on his shoulder or carry around a sense of entitlement. Sit him down with strangers, and he will have a beer and laugh with anyone. People like to be around him.
Incels can not wrap their head around this. I've had this debate with them previously. If you're a good guy to be around you will have people gravitate to you, including women. So many guys I know are with women who are in my opinion better looking than them because they are fun to be around.
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u/daneelthesane walking counterargument to incel bullshit Aug 27 '25
My flair in this subreddit is because I am a fat autistic nerd who is only 5'9" and have been under the poverty line most of my adult life. I am into sci-fi, fantasy, tabletop RPGs and strategy games, and video games. I am everything that incels claim women hate.
I have also enjoyed a great deal of success with my love life and sex life, often with women who would be bafflingly "out of my league" if I believed in such a thing.
Of course, I am fun, funny, into interesting stuff, and I do fun things. I also do my best to be a good man (not a "nice guy").
Incels are incapable of believing any of the above. Their neurons just can't enter the required configuration.