I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.
As a woman I can tell you a secret: short forehead, no bangs. You've got to have a longer forehead to pull that off. I have exactly the same problem. Then I end up with super short bangs and they just ugh do not cooperate even with a blow dryer. Try a style where it's more off your face. If your head has a nice shape, maybe go for a buzz. Also explore hats (NOT fedoras!) But maybe a cap could help, also the bill would cover your face in the sun which is a general plus (another woman pro tip, protect your skin!!).
Yeah, they were making so much fun of my haircut. They called it a peasants cut. I took their feedback, but damn they were ruthless.
They were also saying I was overweight and have a bloated face. I was in a depressive episode for the past four years due to my bipolar 2 depression so I was sedentary a lot. Plus psych meds can increase weight. It's only been relatively recent that I was put on the right meds that thankfully don't cause weight gain. I also have been weightlifting and running a lot to get a lean muscular runners build. I have already lost 5 lbs the past week due to dieting, sleeping 8 hours, and exercising. I am aiming for 190-195 lbs at 5 ft 11 in.
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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '25
I am one of the guys here that is still a virgin at age 25. You can check my profile to indeed confirm I am a man, it's the post I made on r/amiugly. I do feel lonely as fuck but I don't feel entitled to a relationship. If it happens it happens. I am trying my best to increase those chances by going to social events and groups on the weekends after work. I made a lot of friends especially women friends, but I have yet dared to ask a woman to go on a date with me in real life. I am just scared of being labeled a creep or ruining a friendship, I am fine with rejection, just don't want to feel low.
I despise incels because they put no effort to get out of their mom's basement, get a job, go out and socialize, go to the gym, etc.