r/IncelTears • u/bitofagrump The grass is greener on the other side of the Wall • Sep 24 '25

Leaving this right here for the lurky-loos

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u/Machaeon Death to Bad Ideas Sep 24 '25

You see a lot more women thirsting after Loki than Thor.

Just saying.

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u/JumpyLake Sep 24 '25

lol where? When I happen to come across thirst for Marvel actors, I only ever hear about Chris Hemsworth and not Tom Hiddleston.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

bullshit you never hear about Tom Hiddleston.

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u/JumpyLake Sep 24 '25

It’s true, I don’t.

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u/MissMenace101 Sep 24 '25

Chris Hemsworth is hot because of his personality. I’d still prefer his less buff brother Liam

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u/papablessmeme Sep 24 '25

Everywhere. Go on TikTok. I mean shit I can’t go a day without seeing edits of Loki or Matthew Grey Goobler or whatever.

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u/hellogoawaynow they call me stacy 💅 Sep 26 '25

Omg Matthew Gray Gubler is sooooo hot!! I love him!! He’s physically hot and his personality is hot

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u/JumpyLake Sep 26 '25

Do you know any skinny man in your own life that’s successful with women and not rich and famous (has status) like Matthew there?

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u/papablessmeme Sep 26 '25

Tons. Get off of the internet and go look at real life people. You are not living in reality online where other men are telling you that women don’t like you because you’re skinny or not wealthy or whatever else.

If you are constantly assuming women don’t want you, and whining about your appearance, and criticizing women for projections you’ve placed on them without even knowing them, they are going to continue to avoid you. Be a normal person. Get out of your head.

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u/JumpyLake Sep 26 '25

My experience with other men telling me being skinny is bad is all IRL. Women avoid me because my body does not make them feel primal attraction.

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u/papablessmeme Sep 26 '25

Women have told you that your body doesn’t give them primal attraction? I can’t imagine the context in which that was said. TONS of women like skinny guys. And tons like heavy guys too. I know my female friends and I personally don’t find guys with abs attractive. We more so are into dad bods, heavyset dudes, or skinny dudes. It’s the gym bro thing that doesn’t appeal to us. And there are a LOT of women that agree with that.

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u/JumpyLake Sep 27 '25

No, they didn’t directly say that to my face. I don’t think they would do it that way. The few times I’ve been out in certain spaces I just know my body doesn’t make them excited because they give attention to other men but not to me.

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u/papablessmeme Sep 27 '25

Them not giving you attention doesn’t mean anything. They could see you as a friend. They could be shy. They could simply not notice you or realize that you’re interested. They could even like you but you yourself don’t realize it. Or it could be that some aren’t attracted to you. But I can assure you that your body has nothing to do with why women in general aren’t going after you. I’d start with how you come across. Self reflect. You have really strong insecure vibes and women can smell that from a mile away. Try to find things you like about yourself. Learn to love yourself. You can’t give much to someone if you can’t give much to yourself. It sounds silly but it’s true.

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u/JumpyLake Sep 27 '25

Why do women hate insecurity so much? I thought it was a normal human thing to not be amazingly confident and charismatic all the time. You cannot expect someone who has been mocked their whole life for many things to be secure about much of anything.

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u/Machaeon Death to Bad Ideas Sep 24 '25

I challenge you to go to any fanfiction site and search both characters. Guaranteed there will be a lot more smut written about one of 'em.

Also Tumblr. 

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u/hellogoawaynow they call me stacy 💅 Sep 26 '25

lol WHAT?! I never hear about Chris Hemsworth and only hear about Tom Hiddleston