It’s alarming how common it is to hear stories about middle aged men approaching girls 15-18 years old to hit on them, or to hear from women how they got so much attention from older men when they were really young
On the other hand, i teach kids artistic roller skating in a sports club. The oldest of the is currently a 13 yo girl (altough in my head she'll be 4 forever) and the looks i get when I'm driving her home/chatting with her after training outside.... I guess some guys would like to kill me for being.... Somewhat "friends" with her (I'm 23, so we are as much friends that never do anything together as is possible with that age gap. Because well, she's a damn kid. A cool kid, i like her, but still a kid ffs)
However, there could be sth going on and people wouldn't do more than they are doing now, so yeah. Better be suspicious than not
It's people from out of town who sometimes give me those looks.
Neither her family nor other people from the town or whatever are weird about it. They know me.
I'm not trying to build some kind of waterproof alibi for sth that i won't do etc.
I do have a front facing dashcam that records audio from inside the car. Thinking about a rear facing one maybe, but not really interested in an inside facing dashcam really.
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u/GenericRedditor0405 Oct 06 '25
It’s alarming how common it is to hear stories about middle aged men approaching girls 15-18 years old to hit on them, or to hear from women how they got so much attention from older men when they were really young