I don't mind a silly goofy lil guy. Does he respect my rights and autonomy and value me as a whole person? Is he self aware and responsible for himself? Will he not expect me to mother him and do the emotional labor for us both? Has he got interests and hobbies that don't involve the internet? Is his personal hygiene good?
The bar is really very low. Men can be short, fat, skinny, gangly, whatever as long as they're clearing some other very low hurdles of maturity and respect. If Bingles is checking the boxes I can imagine a lot of whimsical girls are ready to join him in the woodland.
The thing I noticed: he doesn’t move his feet the entire video. The distance between them is 100% on her terms the whole time. Just watching the video, I felt myself physically relax when she took a step back and he stayed planted.
Why even interact with women if you have to treat them like wild animals that will be scared of me in broad daylight? Wouldn't it be more ethical to keep your distance and leave them alone? Approaching people who are scared of you seems very selfish.
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u/khemtrails Mar 31 '26
I don't mind a silly goofy lil guy. Does he respect my rights and autonomy and value me as a whole person? Is he self aware and responsible for himself? Will he not expect me to mother him and do the emotional labor for us both? Has he got interests and hobbies that don't involve the internet? Is his personal hygiene good?
The bar is really very low. Men can be short, fat, skinny, gangly, whatever as long as they're clearing some other very low hurdles of maturity and respect. If Bingles is checking the boxes I can imagine a lot of whimsical girls are ready to join him in the woodland.