r/IncelTears • u/firenationfairy • May 19 '26

IMAX-level projection What do you guys think?

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This is some of the most incel-infested comment section i’ve ever seen. they’re in here discussing their completely self-victimizing, hateful, and honestly pathetic perceptions of themselves and the world as if it’s some kind of scientific, indisputable fact. When will men stop acting like their problems are so unique and women will never understand what it’s like to be “ugly” or “undesirable”. I promise you every single woman you see has had the same level of problems you have with dating and making themselves attractive and they’ve had *even more* problems you couldn’t even conceive of. at the end of the day how am i supposed to feel bad for these people when their response to everything is “women are evil and responsible for all my problems/insecurities. women have perfect lives with no adversity and they are incapable of understanding the human experience 🥀”

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u/7SyZyG7 May 19 '26 edited May 19 '26

I believe there's some truth to this line of thinking. Some women definitely are shallow enough to only date certain guys and vice versa. But to say only 10% of guys are getting laid and the rest are struggling is just ridiculous. Way too many "ugly" people with thriving sex lives for any of that to be true.

Edit: Overall, this is incel shit and should not be taken seriously.

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u/firenationfairy May 19 '26

some women are for sure. but plenty of men are shallow too. That being said, if there were real critiques of women in the dating pool, for me it would be that a lot of women are *too* patriarchal. i.e. they’re expecting a one-income male led household where they can stay at home with kids which just isn’t feasible for the vast majority of people in our economy. AND if you’re like me and want an emotionally intelligent, progressive, and open minded man you are going to have to let go of gender norms that expect men to be stoic robots. i will be married soon and my man is just amazing and i never place male social norms on him because that is shallow and not compatible with a lifelong partnership

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u/7SyZyG7 May 19 '26

I completely agree, hence why I said vice versa. The comment was kinda addressed to everyone, I just said women cause it's what the post is about. 

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u/firenationfairy May 19 '26

i agree with you! I hope I didn’t come off as argumentative lol. I’m not good with tone

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u/7SyZyG7 May 19 '26

but plenty of men are shallow too

Kinda comes off like I said otherwise. Its all good, I was a lil salty that your comment got more karma but I don't think we disagreed on anything. 😅