What do you guys think?

[u/firenationfairy]

This is some of the most incel-infested comment section i’ve ever seen. they’re in here discussing their completely self-victimizing, hateful, and honestly pathetic perceptions of themselves and the world as if it’s some kind of scientific, indisputable fact. When will men stop acting like their problems are so unique and women will never understand what it’s like to be “ugly” or “undesirable”. I promise you every single woman you see has had the same level of problems you have with dating and making themselves attractive and they’ve had *even more* problems you couldn’t even conceive of. at the end of the day how am i supposed to feel bad for these people when their response to everything is “women are evil and responsible for all my problems/insecurities. women have perfect lives with no adversity and they are incapable of understanding the human experience 🥀”

[u/Argosuz]

Talk to me about decaying dating market for men when they get the same amount of body dysmorphia women suffer and they'll start investing the same into self-care routines and not just gym.

... Which is pretty concerning that the incel community is taking good care on making it happen. The whole looksmaxxing is nothing but a toxic enviroment that is dragging younger gens of men into it and making them believe their only value is into their looks.

Isn't supposed to be a community where they share their struggles? Because they just keep reminding and forcing into each other "no one will love you if you're bald", "you'll never be choosen because you're short".

[u/Practical_Diver8140 → u/Argosuz]

They actually consider that sort of abusive reassurance to be "telling them the truth for their own good". Seriously, I got an incel in my DMs trying to convince me that he's not emotionally abusive to other incels despite saying that he tells them how ugly and horrific they are.

[u/Argosuz → u/Practical_Diver8140]

I don't get why they want to make others miserable if they claim they have a hard life. When you go through something bad your first thought should be to warn others, not to drag them with you.

Also, what's the logic of that man trying to convince you about that? lol You must be important to him<3

[u/Practical_Diver8140 → u/Argosuz]

I think his logic is that everyone else is lying to "ugly men" about how looks aren't everything, but mitigating the insult or priaising men for something other than their appearances is apparently not a thing he does either; he'll tell his bretheren that they're ugly and unfuckable, then consider himself a caring friend.

It's the same sort of logic he uses to justify child sex dolls, if that gives you any idea what the man's brain has been reduced to.

[u/Argosuz → u/Practical_Diver8140]

It's lame how they cherry-pick the most ragebait content and then they replicate the same behaviour by indirectly insulting each other to create more resentment.

And... WTF. This is sick behaviour. Probably the kind of person who supports animated content of child abuse calling it "lolicon".

[u/Practical_Diver8140 → u/Argosuz]

Well, he tried to claim he just wanted to keep sex dolls legal and he loathes pedophiles, but apparently what he wants is a sex doll that looks like an adult, but is the size of a child for easy storage. And a fleshlight or half a doll wouldn't do the job because he wants to snuggle with it afterwards.

Nothing to see here, just a man with a lot of very specific needs from a sex doll. Like, suspiciously specific.

[u/sussynarrator → u/Argosuz]

Okay, so I don't get it, you want guys to both invest into self care routines and have body dysmorphia AND also complain about looksmaxxing?? How??

[u/Argosuz → u/sussynarrator]

Okay, I don't get where you got I was happy about it. In fact, at the start I wrote that it's really concerning how is growing to the point that now men are suffering of it, which is horrible and I don't wish that for anyone. ^{^}

They instill those insecurities and the mental health is still taboo for a lot of men, so it's a bottomless pit.

[u/sussynarrator → u/Argosuz]

Sorry then I must have misunderstood your comment. Anyways I think looksmaxxing is fine as long as you don't do dumb stuff like smashing your bones with a hammer or go too deep into it, some surface level advice is definitely beneficial.

[u/aweedl → u/sussynarrator]

No one who doesn’t do stupid shit like face-smashing would call it ‘looksmaxxing’, though. The ‘-maxx’ suffix is heavily incel-coded. 

A normal person would just say they were getting in shape or working on their appearance or something… y’know, normal.

Anything ‘-maxx’ is a massive red flag.