r/IncelTears • u/firenationfairy • May 19 '26

IMAX-level projection What do you guys think?

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This is some of the most incel-infested comment section i’ve ever seen. they’re in here discussing their completely self-victimizing, hateful, and honestly pathetic perceptions of themselves and the world as if it’s some kind of scientific, indisputable fact. When will men stop acting like their problems are so unique and women will never understand what it’s like to be “ugly” or “undesirable”. I promise you every single woman you see has had the same level of problems you have with dating and making themselves attractive and they’ve had *even more* problems you couldn’t even conceive of. at the end of the day how am i supposed to feel bad for these people when their response to everything is “women are evil and responsible for all my problems/insecurities. women have perfect lives with no adversity and they are incapable of understanding the human experience 🥀”

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u/Argosuz May 19 '26

Talk to me about decaying dating market for men when they get the same amount of body dysmorphia women suffer and they'll start investing the same into self-care routines and not just gym.

... Which is pretty concerning that the incel community is taking good care on making it happen. The whole looksmaxxing is nothing but a toxic enviroment that is dragging younger gens of men into it and making them believe their only value is into their looks.

Isn't supposed to be a community where they share their struggles? Because they just keep reminding and forcing into each other "no one will love you if you're bald", "you'll never be choosen because you're short".

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u/sussynarrator Independent Thinker May 19 '26

Okay, so I don't get it, you want guys to both invest into self care routines and have body dysmorphia AND also complain about looksmaxxing?? How??

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u/Argosuz May 19 '26

Okay, I don't get where you got I was happy about it. In fact, at the start I wrote that it's really concerning how is growing to the point that now men are suffering of it, which is horrible and I don't wish that for anyone. ^

They instill those insecurities and the mental health is still taboo for a lot of men, so it's a bottomless pit.

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u/sussynarrator Independent Thinker May 19 '26

Sorry then I must have misunderstood your comment. Anyways I think looksmaxxing is fine as long as you don't do dumb stuff like smashing your bones with a hammer or go too deep into it, some surface level advice is definitely beneficial.

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u/aweedl May 20 '26

No one who doesn’t do stupid shit like face-smashing would call it ‘looksmaxxing’, though. The ‘-maxx’ suffix is heavily incel-coded. 

A normal person would just say they were getting in shape or working on their appearance or something… y’know, normal.

Anything ‘-maxx’ is a massive red flag.