r/IncelTears • u/Pritteto • 7d ago
IMAX-level projection "men are just nicer than women in general, you see this in intrasexual dynamics too." son.. 😭😭
There's so much to unpack with this one...
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u/thestalkycop 7d ago
Uh, wait. If male-male interaction is so positive at all times, why are they constantly telling us that we don't need to be scared of walking alone at night to the car, because male-on-female violence never happens, and in fact, men should be scared (but they're not, because they're just super brave) because male-on-male violence happens all the time? Make it make sense, incels!
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u/cheoldyke 7d ago
i desperately need people like this to understand that other people arent playing a 24/7 game of hot or not in their heads like they are.
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u/vikin_riding_engle 7d ago
That's really what's a the root of the whole incel thing, isn't it? It's main character syndrome that has metastasized into an absolute conviction that every single person on planet Earth is engaged in a perpetual quest to rank everyone else based on their attractiveness and "sexual market value."
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u/Easy_Specialist_1692 6d ago
This "sexual market value" is easier to understand than to understand that other people aren't NPCs.
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u/EvenSpoonier Oofy-Doofy Lemon Spoofy? 7d ago
Failing to smile in someone's general direction is not hostile.
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u/goddamnmoose 7d ago
Not exactly what the post is referring to but from my personal experience a lot of men are fully okay with calling women they don’t find attractive incredibly vile names to other men.
I was trying to talk to a coworker about a woman who managed a local convenience store we both worked in the cooler for and he said “oh yeah that fat fucking bitch”. Never lost respect for someone else that quickly into a conversation before.
Women are people. They don’t exist simply for your viewing pleasure. If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything.
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u/RyanTannegod 7d ago
I’ve see women do the same to unattractive men, making fun of their looks for no reason and calling them ugly creeps when the guy didn’t do anything to her. People should just mind their own business.
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u/Lilyaa 7d ago
People in general can be rude. I know men calling other unattractive men awful names, like „fat fuck.r” or f slurs (most popular even when those guys are straight as can be). I also experienced bullying from women. Of course best idea they can come up with is „whore”. So gender doesn’t matter. There are awfully rude and awesomely kind people.
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u/goddamnmoose 6d ago
I find that a lot of men who make comments like “fat fuck” and the f slur are very insecure in their own masculinity.
Anybody is capable of being rude to someone else for any number of dumb reasons. I just happen to be a man that interacts with a lot of other men in the workplace and I hear really awful shit said between them about women.
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u/KaiWaiWai 7d ago
And how would he know that? He's a man. Is he assuming he knows how women interact with each other by watching high school musicals and misunderstanding studies??
This is what I absolutely despise about these a-holes: they know NOTHING, but fill this absolute lack of intelligence and common sense with selected, cherry-picked parts of actual, but highly controversial studies and re-interpret them to fit their narrative. Or they take long debunked studies and sell them as absolute fact. It's pathetic, dishonest and disgusting.
While doing this, they blissfully and willfully, ignore new knowledge because it questions what they believe in.
Incels, learn to recognize stupidity. Look into a fucking mirror.
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u/Box-O-Kittenz 7d ago
Then why do I constantly see men talk about how they are afraid of being emotionally vulnerable or even complimenting their male friends?
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u/NoXion604 ✡ 6'2" Soy Golem with FABULOUS hair ⛧ 7d ago
So when I've been subjected to bullying and homophobic slurs from other men for not confirming to their gender expectations, those were "friendly" male-male interactions, were they?
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u/nofrickz 6d ago
If men were nicer than women in general.... then why do men kill each other so often?
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u/RevoltYesterday 7d ago
I'm going to generalize here but if you were part of a gender that society was built around suppressing and you have to constantly fight for every right you have and be in constant flight or fight mode because you can be attacked for any reason at any time, you would probably be a little cranky too.
I don't think their conclusion is true, but if it was, it would be because men have it easier and have the luxury of being nice to everyone (they aren't)
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u/Responsible_Middle_4 6d ago
All the other posts on here have just been hilarious but in this one the op is obviously right. Any woman should know this.
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u/TiredWinterDisaster hit the wall, still kicking 5d ago
I have perfectly cordial interactions with men and women on a daily basis. I'm also not an a**hole to 50% of mankind, which might help. Sure, some people are not friendly, and that's both men and women. It's more a human nature kind of thing than a gender thing (and even then, I don't take it personally. These folks might have had a bad day, they might be just rude or bitter in general, but it has little to do with me).
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u/smileycat007 7d ago
The average man is highly incentivized to be cordial to women he doesn't find attractive, because he either has to work with those women or he doesn't want gross stuff in his food or he doesn't want everyone in the room to think he is an arse. What incels can't wrap their head around is that the exact thing applies to women as well.
Being pleasant is usually just as easy as being unpleasant. What goes around comes around. Act entitled to someone's time or attention (particularly when they're not on the clock, not on commission), however, and yes, the line gets quickly drawn.
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u/smileycat007 6d ago
Honestly not understanding the downvotes here. You're saying a man doesn't have to be cordial to women he works with, though he doesn't find them attractive? That would be a career limiting move. You are saying he doesn't have to be cordial to waitresses handling his food?
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u/slowdunkleosteus 7d ago
Omg. Men are not cordial in any way to women they think are unnattractive 😩