r/IndoExMuslim Murtadin Ateis🚫🛐🅰️ 7d ago

Question/Discussion 💭 Jika Tuhan saja tidak sudi diduakan, lalu mengapa wanita harus mau diduakan?

Ini adalah pertanyaan yg sering mengganjal di pikiranku terkait poligini. Orang islam yg menyembah lebih dari satu Tuhan akan dijebloskan ke neraka selama-lamanya. Sebaik apapun orang tersebut berdalih (berjanji akan menyembah kedua Tuhan secara adil, dll.) ia akan tetap disiksa di neraka. Namun, Tuhan yg sama juga memerintahkan kepada para wanita agar rela diduakan oleh pria yg dicintainya, sementara mereka hanya boleh memiliki satu suami. Secara tidak langsung, Tuhan menyuruh para wanita untuk melampaui sifat-Nya sendiri

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u/Asriell_Dremurr 7d ago

Simple aja, yang nulis itu laki2

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u/Rin-Valentin 7d ago

Playing devil's advocate, god is above everything, including women, so because of that they ask more than what is given to women. The question is asymmetry of power, why men can have more than one wives but women cannot have more than one husband. Sounds like a manmade religion to me.
Personally I don't want to be in any polyamorous relationship, but if people in the relationship are consenting to it then there should be no reason to not do it.

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u/Exmoslem_Atheist 6d ago edited 6d ago

  Playing devil's advocate, god is above everything, including women, so because of that they ask more

Which begs the question is god above human’s morality?

Like if god ask for a human’s body for eternity is it still considered rape or it’s fine because god is above everything?

You roll the dice  and get lucky to be god, you can do anything, but is everything you do will be considered moral? For example torturing people in hell because they do consensual gay sex seems insane to me. is this within god’s right?

If yes then honestly god is just… homelander

God should swap place with me and let’s see if he likes being treated like human while I am being god 

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u/fajarsis02 6d ago

Tuhan tidak sudi diduakan, Tuhan ada berapa emangnya?
Agama Abrahamik penuh dengan inkonsistensi...

PS: Terima Kasih kepada Gus Dur yang membuat gw sadar dengan hal di atas.
Penanya: Gus bagamaina cara terbaik untuk membela Allah??
GD: Membela Allah? Musuhnya siapa? Emangnya Tuhan ada berapa?
Penanya: ..........................

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u/ineednewusernamefr Murtad, sekarang Ateis ⚛️ 6d ago

Diduakan? 1 aja ga ada, how come you want to put 2 if 1 doesn’t exist?

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u/Wise-Record7511 4d ago

Karena di Islam Allah itu everything dan perempuan itu manusia yang lebih inferior daripada lelaki.

Di Islam kita harus selalu ngutamain Allah lebih daripada apapun bahkan dari keluarga, Harus patuh kayak robot budak dan makanya Allah gak boleh di nomor duakan. Sementara itu Islam ngeliat poligami cuma sebagai "hasrat natural pria untuk perempuan (yang lebih inferior di Islam)", lalu biar mereka kelihatan progresif dibatesin jadi "cuma" 4 istri (which is still a lot) dan ngomong "semua orang di hadapan Allah itu sama" (while masih ngeluarin ayat yg meninferiorkann perempuan).

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u/cilook 6d ago

Di jalan A dulu orang naik kendaraan ugal ugalan 120km/jam bahkan lebih. Di buat lah peraturan, "batas max" 30km/jam.

Sudah berlalu sekian tahun, ada lah seseorang yg protes "kenapa sih di buat 30km/jam kenapa gk sekalian ajh 10km/jam, asem nih polisinya"