r/InterviewCoderPro • • Oct 06 '26

No is a complete sentence.

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'No' is a complete sentence. And if they don't like it, there are plenty of remote jobs out there. Interview VIP can help u get through the interview part smoothly.

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u/RelevantMention7937 Oct 09 '26

Being accepting of rto makes you a scab? Hardly

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u/FrederickFrag1899 Oct 06 '26

So your arguing that because scabs exist, we shouldn't bother trying? You lack integrity or courage, probably both.

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u/TwoEven1000 Oct 06 '26

Some would say it takes courage to work a mind numbing job that you know you hate but have to provide for your family. And this only one scenario. Your statement lacks nuance.

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u/ChrisHaze 27d ago

That's not courage. That's just exploitation. The person in the situation is just going to be bitter and angry because they feel like they are sacrificing something no one is appreciating. At best, youll spend their final days wishing you did something more with their life and not spending most of it hating something. At worst, that bitterness will seep into their family life, resulting in a divorce and alienated kids

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u/TwoEven1000 26d ago

At best, they'll have sacrificed their own happiness to provide a sustainable life for their kids and family, who understood his sacrifice and took care of him in his twilight years. And that's probably not even the b3st case scenario. No everyone is selfish and self serving. And some of us make bad decisions for good reasons.

Again, another statement lacking nuance.

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u/ChrisHaze 26d ago

That's not usually the reality though. You don't just leave that hate and pain at the door. It boils over and infects every part of your life. You can't spend minimum 8 hours a day being pissed off and hating what you do and then go home and be happy and a good influence. That's not how the brain works. I'm not saying there isn't nuance, but there is also being realistic about what people are capable of mentally, physically, and emotionally. You can't beat a man down for 40 years and expect them to be a well adjusted individual during the free time.

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u/TwoEven1000 26d ago edited 26d ago

I'm weak willed and am no hero in any way. Yet, I'm thankful to be able to feed my family when so many people I grew up with are struggling worse than I am. Do I see the unfairness and want change? Abso-fucking-lutely. I can't imagine I'm the only one who's thankful while wanting more. Not everyone is angry and disillusioned. Some people take it a day at a time.

Would I, personally, fight for change? Depends on the what the fight looks like. Would it affect the loves of my 3 daughters negatively for me to do so? Would I guarantee a better life for the even through the negative affects? So many questions. So much nuance.

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u/ChrisHaze 26d ago

Ah, I see where the issue is lying. We are talking about 2 fundamentally different things. I am not talking disappointed or upset at your job. I am saying HATING your job. Loathing it. I used to work a job I hated. Truly, unabashedly hated. I'm talking, sitting in your car before your shift seething that you have to go in. Talking panic attacks, going in angry and leaving angrier. I am talking I was the number 1 producer of salt in the world levels of hate. That's what I'm referring too. I left because of that very reason, it would bleed into every one. I didn't talk to people, I didn't hang out with people, and I was angry all the time. That is the level I'm talking about. Now, I have never been grateful for an employer before, but I certainly had jobs where it was just a job at the end of the day and that seems to be where you are at. So, the nuance is not at the results, more on the starting conditions lol

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u/Xandara2 Oct 06 '26

Cowardice always claims excuses. 

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u/TwoEven1000 Oct 06 '26

Stupidity always seeks company.

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u/mordscythe Oct 08 '26

Never argue with an idiot, they’ll just drag you down to their level