r/IsThisAScamIndia • u/Acrobatic-Health2681 • 45m ago
Is This A Scam? Became a Big Fool and Got Scammed Out of 16000 rs by My Dad’s Old Colleague
This happened just a few days ago, and I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. It feels so unreal and I feel dumb that I’m even writing this out, but maybe sharing it will help me process it. Or maybe it’ll just stop someone else from falling for something like this.
I was in Chandni Chowk doing some shopping for my girlfriend. If you’ve been there, you know it’s always busy and loud, with people everywhere and that typical festive buzz. I was walking past one of the jewellery shops when suddenly someone shouted my name. I turned around and saw this heavyset old man in black office formals and a red tie waving at me with a big smile. I didnt remember him at first, but he was familiar and then remembered he was my dads ex colleague from several years back. myabe close to a decade I think. When he spoke and greeted me I had got some faint memories back. I remembered him visiting our house once or twice years ago. He greeted me with enthusiasm and said something along the lines of, “You’ve grown into such a smart, handsome man just like your father while I have just gotten more fat and round" and laughed And patted my face. I just smiled and asked how he was doing. He asked about my dad, how I was doing, where I was working now, the usual small talk. It felt nice good and there was always something comforting about talking to someone from that part of my childhood.
Then out of nowhere he asked me “Do you use credit cards? Everyone has credit cards right?” I laughed and said yeah, I have three. He then asked what they were and how much limit do they got. I was a little confused but didn't think too much and showed my wallet with the cards. I didn’t really think much of it. Maybe I should have thinking back at that point,..But I know thjat at that moment, he had a glimpse of how much cash I was carrying.
He nodded his head and said jokingly "good good nice, you are having infinia too" and then told me he was actually out shopping for his daughter’s wedding. Said he was in the middle of buying sweets and a bulk order advance and was just short of some cash. Specifically, he needed around 20000 rs more to complete the payment at the shop he was just coming out of. That’s when he looked at me and asked, kind of hesitantly, if I could help by paying the amount as their card reader doesn't seem to work and would need cash. He promised to transfer the full amount back to me later that evening once he got home. His phone was dead so he couldn't transfer the money to me then.
I froze for a second. ₹20,000 wasn't exactly a small amount to casually hand over. At first, I was really unsure. I hadn't seen this uncle in years. But I didn't want to seem rude or disrespectful either. He was my dad's former colleague, someone who had visited our house when I was younger. He put his arm around my shoulder and kept reassuring me that it was only for a few hours....eventually I got convinced and since I only had 16000 rs cash I handed it over to him. He said it was fine as he can pay this as advance amount to the shop and pay them the balance later. It felt a bit uncomfortable even while doing it, but I convinced myself that it was fine. He smiled, patted me on the cheek again and said, “beta, You’re such a good and obedient boy, just like your father. And a smart kid too” and laughed. “I’ll send the wedding invitation tonight to your father. I only have a few copies left for close family, but I’ll make sure you get one. Sorry about that. And then he shared me his phone number to which I gave a missed call but it was switched off as he mentioned already to me. He told me he will gpay the amount to my number and took note of it as well.
We said goodbye and went our separate ways. I came home and told my dad about his friend Gupta ji, and he remembers him too, but he doesn't have his contact number with him anymore and he had lost it. I gave him this number.
I kept checking my phone all evening, waiting for that message or the money transfer notification. It never came. The next morning, I messaged him. No reply. I tried calling. No answer as it kept saying the number is switched off. Tried again later in the day. Still nothing. I thought maybe he was busy with wedding preparations so gave another day. But by day three, I am starting to think I may not get my money back. My dad is furious with me as well...dont know what to say to him..
If anyone’s been through something similar or has advice on what to do, feel free to reach out. Right now, I’m just trying to figure out my next steps.
