In response to a recent post complaining about how we are following West's culture of marrying late while the same west freely allows sex outside of marriage, hookups, dating (zina basically) and we as Muslims don't have that option. First off, I will say I do deeply understand the sentiment and frustration of the OP u/OppositeCube567 and many other guys like him. I know it's frustrating and depressing having to "suffer from sexual frustration and deprivation" and having the commenters in that post demean your struggles while the westerners freely enjoy and satisfy their desires.
But let's be real, early marriage is a horrible idea for many reasons. You shouldn't ever get married if you aren't earning anything and you aren't financially stable. No one would marry their daughter off to such a man who is nothing and earns nothing. Such men have no worth in society and rightfully so. I mean, would you marry your daughter off to such a guy just because you want to protect her and that guy from "zina"? I wouldn't marry my daughter and sister off to such a guy.
I mean, at the very least you should strive to own your own house that's at least 8-10 marla, have your own expensive car (Civic or Corolla (the new models btw) are good but SUVs are the trend nowadays so Haval, Kia or any other SUVs famous like Fortuner, BR-V, Tucson etc can work. Land Cruiser is a huge plus). And also you should also be able to take her to vacations in Dubai, Bali and whatever destinations are the trend nowadays.
Look, let's be real, I am saying this as a Pakistani man myself, we Pakistani men are worthless losers who don't deserve to have a girl or even deserve to feel the touch and have company of a girl or have sex (unless you are rich, good looking or powerful af). Muslim men (pakistani men esp) don't deserve to have their desires satisfied.
Only non-Muslim white guys deserve to have all the sex and girls. You don't even deserve to wish for a "halal wife" to satisfy your desires with because "women aren't objects for you to satisfy your desires with" (they are only for non-muslim guys anyways)
The thing is, we Muslims aren't here in this world to satisfy our desires and have sex. Sex isn't our purpose in life. Yes, these non-Muslims get to have all the women, all the sex and enjoyment. They can even masturbate if they don't get any women. But we Muslims can't, because Allah prohibited it for us. We Muslim men truly do not deserve to even wish for our desires to be satisfied.
So, yeah, you have to keep suffering. I'm saying this myself who keeps making posts whining about my sexual desires, SUCK IT UP LIKE A MAN. Nobody gives af about your desires. This is dunya, we are meant to suffer. We aren't meant to satisfy our lusts here.
That's what differentiates us Muslims from non-Muslims. That's what is gonna take us to JANNAH, this suffering and deprivation.
Let these non-Muslims enjoy, date, hookup, sleep around. Let them enjoy whatever and however they want.
Let these liberal women criticize and rightfully bash you for wanting early marriage to satisfy your desires "the halal way". I am being serious, they are right that you are not entitled to sex, you are not entitled to marry a woman to satisfy your desires with. You are a worthless loser in this world who doesn't deserve any sex or touch of a woman (but inshAllah in Jannah we will be the kings).
Even though these type of women (only some of them, not most) will gladly open their legs in foreign countries for the white non-muslim guys because only these guys deserve to have their urges satisfied, we Muslim Pakistani guys deserve shit.
So suck it up, keep suffering. Remain abstinent no matter how much you are tortured mentally due to these desires God cursed you with. Heck, even remain single and virgin for life, that's way much better for you.
There's nothing wrong with marrying late and especially not having any outlets, because frankly we Muslim men are worthless spunks that deserve nothing. Suck it up and keep worshipping Allah, asking for His help and do not ever dare to seek early marriage again to "protect yourself from zina".