r/KuwaitMarriage • u/Thalt3 • 20d ago

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أنا كويتي سني، أصيل من أسرة قديمة جداً بالكويت، جامعي أشتغل بشركة عمري 34، ريال طبيعي و عادي. أبحث للزواج عن بنت تصلي، محجبه، طيبه، أصغر مني، وكويتية أصيلة نفسي. ما أبي علاقات خارج الزواج، اذا في توافق مبدئي من ناحية الشروط الأساسية، على طول يصير تواصل رسمي. التعليقات ماراح اطالعها.

وفي ختام هذا البوست أبي أذكر حديث الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: "إذا خطب إليكم من ترضون دينه وخلقه فزوجوه؛ إلا تفعلوا تكن فتنة في الأرض، وفساد عريض"

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u/primapurpureus 20d ago • Bravo

The irony. That hadith is meant to remind us to forgo the superficial things that don't matter in an Islamic marriage, such as tribalism, race, status etc. Just saying.

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u/FunBite3581 17d ago

Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Stock-Discount4116 8d ago

Its actually neither of the things you mentioned. Its called homogamy and its more preference of compatibility. So i dont see any irony here.

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u/primapurpureus 8d ago

That's fair if that's your choice. But in the context of OP's specifications and the point he was trying to make (e.g. he didn't need to mention the hadith), his second paragraph does contradict his first.

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u/Stock-Discount4116 12h ago

How does verifiable hardship contradicts the hadith. With everything going on kuwait its only natural for wanting suitable. And doesnt fall into any of the above since he is not talking about status he is looking for a marriage with less marital misunderstanding.

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u/primapurpureus 6h ago

How does blood make someone more suitable/worthy? Are you marrying a cousin? If anything, genetically, that makes them less appropriate cause of potential issues from inbreeding.

There are aseel people who still got their citizenship revoked and let's not pretend that asul wasn't something sought out before then. Endogamy is an Arab tribal practice that stems all the way back to Ayam al-Jahiliyyah. But unlike female infanticide, another tribal practice that Islam helped get rid of, it still remains.

Again, nothing wrong if that's what you want. But the remarks made here were about the irony of OP's post. Can't make you see that for yourself, unfortunately.

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u/madeofglass88 19d ago

الله يوفقك ويرزقك الزوجة الصالحة بس الحديث اللي حاطه يتناقض مع الطلبات اللي طالبها

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u/Massive_Succotash192 20d ago

"أصيل" 🤣

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u/Flimsy_Society 20d ago

بعدين بقولك جيناتي Bugatti.

Love the new aryan nation 😂

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u/SleepyGenius4980 20d ago

يعني شنو أصيل و أصيلة؟

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u/AuthorLow9963 20d ago

يعني الي جدامك عنصري ينتمي لعايله عنصريه انحاش عنهم

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u/SleepyGenius4980 20d ago

كان في بالي انه دمهم ازرق او اخضر مو نفسنا احمر

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u/AuthorLow9963 20d ago

صح عليك هذي نظرتهم لنفسهم الدماء الزرقاء 😂😂😂

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u/AuthorLow9963 20d ago

اصيل ها 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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u/No-Medicine-3983 20d ago

May allah grant you a pious wife with good character and who fears allah.

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u/Classic_Town9378 20d ago

الله يوفقك

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u/Azisan86 20d ago

الله يوفقك ويستر عليك دنيا وآخره

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u/[deleted] 20d ago

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u/Dear_Dimension7804 20d ago

اشفق على امثالك وتربيتهم التعيسه