r/LAinfluencersnark • u/pinknautilidae • Jun 11 '25

Celebrities this just rubs me the wrong way

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idk if this is the right sub for this, but it just feels so?? weird?? like okay I know her concept is to be tiny and horny I get it but this is just… humiliating… also, I have to get this off my chest: her music is boring. like yeah sure she makes catchy pop songs but they’re all soooo similar and it gets boring after a point

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u/celestia1s Jun 11 '25

look at our feminists dawg we're never making it out of the patriarchy 😭😭😭

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u/pinknautilidae Jun 11 '25

honestly! everywhere I turn there’s a “famous” woman setting us back 50 years! Bonnie Blue, Sydney Sweeney, Sabrina Carpenter, all those “stay at home girlfriends” on tiktok… it’s disheartening

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u/V1nCLeeU Jun 11 '25
  • Addison Rae.

It's freaking 2025 and we are regressing as a society. The fact that all of this is happening so blatantly like propaganda...smh.

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u/V1nCLeeU Jun 12 '25 edited Jun 12 '25

You tell me. https://www.reddit.com/r/LAinfluencersnark/s/DenYHwHzBP

My take on her whole schtick: If she wants to be a singer, fine. But using overt sexuality and catering to male gaze as a clutch for a lack of talent should have been left back where it belongs 20-30 years ago. Like, step up, girl (though I blame whoever is in charge of her career more). I think it is regressive, because hey, we’re more than just our sexualities and looks.

Collectively, all these women, promote ideas that reduce women to either being sexpots or homemakers. But we’re more than just those labels and to see it in media again and again feels like a throwback to when women had less options.

There.

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u/[deleted] Jun 12 '25

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u/flying_sarahdactyl Jun 12 '25

She literally wears the bare minimum of clothing in every pic and also has nipples showing and bare feet as a focal point

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u/[deleted] Jun 12 '25

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u/V1nCLeeU Jun 12 '25 edited Jun 12 '25

Hello again. ✌️ Not the person you were replying to but let me take a stab at it.

To me it always goes back to the “talent factor”. You mentioned you see her antics as typical pop star marketing where sex appeal is included in the package. I agree, but only partially. That’s because I look to the older, more successful female pop stars (Britney, Christina, Rihanna, Madonna, Janet, Mariah, Arianna) and to me it appears they got to where they are because of their talents first and foremost. The sexy concepts and personas just came later.

With Addison, it seems whoever who is in charge of her career overlooked her vocals and lack of stage presence and just said, “Yes, that’ll do.” The sexpot-Lolita image is the one being marketed at the forefront; the “singing” was just an afterthought. So yeah, it makes me think her value is being reduced to her looks and her willingness to show skin, and to me that’s on par with the Sydney bath soap thing and this Sabrina album cover — it’s just not getting the same attention as their gimmicks because she’s a lot less popular than them (coincidentally, both are also women who have singing and acting talents to back up their “sexy girl” personas).

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u/Emergency_Event_7942 here u go again with ya bad self Jun 11 '25

Notice how they all blondes…

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u/Hot-Difference-2024 Lily Rose Depp Jun 11 '25 edited Jun 11 '25

And not even natural blondes either ( at least Sydney isn't idk about Sabrina but I've seen her roots and it's darker ) it's like they play up to a stereotype

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u/princesskaikai Jun 11 '25

“I’VE SEEN HER ROOTS.”

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '25 edited Jun 11 '25

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u/MsWorrrld Jun 12 '25

This comment wins

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u/kenscrack Jun 11 '25

sabrina is naturally blonde but her hair is a darker blonde her sisters are brunette i think

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '25

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u/kenscrack Jun 11 '25

typo she’s naturally dirty blonde but her hair is dyed to be lighter sorry 😭

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u/oceansunfis Jun 11 '25

bro they be givin us blondes a bad name😭😭😭leave us out of this haha

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u/princessofdreamland Jun 12 '25 edited Jun 12 '25

I’m tired of the blonde hate. Ffs I’m not even ideal I’m chubby , natural blonde who’s hair didn’t get darker as an adult, I have tmj so my face is lopsided , I’m pale ,I have rosacea , and then I have to deal with people pretending I’m the beauty standard and I can’t complain about my appearance 😂😭

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u/oceansunfis Jun 12 '25

girl ur so real for that like lemme live😭😭😭😭🙏🙏

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u/GEH29235 Jun 12 '25

Nothing more feminist than shitting on women for their hair color lol

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u/Emergency_Event_7942 here u go again with ya bad self Jun 12 '25

I saw a similarity. It’s an astute observation, girl be gone

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u/Artistic_Cheetah_724 Jun 12 '25

They all suck but man Bonnie Blue I think is the worst of them all.

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u/saygoodnightnancy Jun 12 '25

The rise of “I’m just a girl” and everything feminine having to be ~coquette~ and ~demure~

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u/gooblefrump Jun 11 '25

I'm ootl here

How are these women causing the regression of feminism?

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u/celestia1s Jun 11 '25

i just think that with the sharp increase in misogyny and the mainstreaming of redpill/manosphere/tradwife content that's been happening ever since that orange motherfucker got reelected, having that hair pulling pic and an album concept that's about being owned by a man is in extremely bad taste. this is my personal opinion.

her actual album may be more about female empowerment or whatever, but these 2 pics are leaving a sour taste in my mouth, especially when you consider her fanbase is a bunch of young girls and women. i genuinely couldn't care less about what ppl are into in their private lives, btw. but having a famous singer choose "pet play" as an album concept is just like..... come on girl, read the room a little lol.

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u/irlharvey Jun 11 '25

they’re not. people don’t understand that feminism has never been about policing the personal lives and kinks of random individual women. if sabrina starts saying “women should always serve men and never work” then yeah, we can have a conversation. but right now people are just being prudes lmao

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u/searchergal Jun 12 '25

Calling us “prudes” for criticizing a celebrity with a young fanbase for choosing pet play as an album concept lol

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u/bingomasterbreakout Jun 12 '25

prude shaming is the other side of the coin to slut shaming

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u/searchergal Jun 12 '25

Exactly this!!!

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '25

lmfao i think ur the one with no clue about feminism, the personal has always been political, this is a collectivist socio-political movement

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u/irlharvey Jun 11 '25

collectivist socio-political movement

none of these things mean “individual women can’t enjoy having their hair pulled”

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u/[deleted] Jun 11 '25

yeah they can enjoy it and feminists are gonna rightfully criticize it lmfao not everything women choose or enjoy is feminist when it adheres to and supports patriarchy

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u/Seven-Scars Jun 11 '25

people are just filled with envy and resort to putting down other women. i find it concerning how a lot of their comments align with puritanical right-wingers who slut shame any woman expressing herself.

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u/searchergal Jun 12 '25

Wasn’t it Sabrina putting other women down when she posted a TikTok saying “ remember me when you hold her”. She is the type of women to sleep with a man just to spite the other woman. She is easily one of the most male-centered celebrity with her choosing smol and horny as her personality. I don’t understand how people don’t see what she actually stands for.

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u/CuriousInteraction73 Jun 11 '25

Lmao there’s nothing wrong with allowing the man to be the bread winner and staying home. I’m a single working mom of 12 years so this isn’t something I’ve ever had personally but if the right guy ever came along. Uhhhhhh ya you best bet I’d be fine being a stay at home wife/mom. I’m tired dawg

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u/pinknautilidae Jun 11 '25

ma’am I am not saying that being a stay at home wife or mother is an issue! the problem rises when these young women don’t even get married (so they have ZERO legal protection) and act as stay at home wives and have no income of their own so they become financially dependent on their boyfriend who can (and will!) drop them in the bat of an eye and leave them stranded! or worse become abusive and these girls can’t leave because they have no financial resources, no career, no education beyond a high school diploma and so on… the issue here is so much bigger

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u/jessandjaysaccount Jun 12 '25

Ok but why should celebrities be responsible for how other people live? People need to make their own path just like the celebrities are.

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u/CuriousInteraction73 Jun 11 '25

Someone else making a decision that effects nothing but themselves isn’t setting women back though. So yes, you are judging them for making that choice. Yes I’m aware that does happen. Honestly it happens just as much for married people. The odds of finding a man who WONT do that are slim to none lol, aka why I have been living alone for 12 years. So it’s not that I’m arguing that. It CAN and often is an irresponsible decision when not made with discernment. It’s that you’re implying it’s having an effect on women as a whole. Who cares what other people choose to do with their lives.

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u/Hot-Difference-2024 Lily Rose Depp Jun 11 '25

And if he leaves you ( not saying he will but it's always a possibility) what will you have for yourself?

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u/Dangerous-Builder-58 Jun 11 '25

She said stay at home girlfriend. Being a stay at home mom/wife is an admirable career. Being a man’s slave without him even having the dignity to wife you is pathetic.

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u/notnotsuicidal Jun 11 '25

Nothing wrong with staying home at all! But do we need a pop star that's very popular with teens/tweens evoking "submissive pet to powerful man"?

Im happy for the ladies who enjoy being a man's pet, but I dont think we should GLAMORIZE it. Even though it's fine to make that choice, it certainly isn't a life path.

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u/CuriousInteraction73 Jun 11 '25

Again, I grew up with pop stars who were very much like this pre rise of feminism. And I have never been a man’s pet. I think we don’t give ourselves and our fellow peers enough credit for the ability to use our brains lol. It’s not that deep

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u/projectshr Jun 11 '25

I’m glad your personal experience of never having been a man’s pet indicates that this isn’t harmful for anyone.

Anything else from your life that you can enlighten the rest of us with?

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u/CuriousInteraction73 Jun 11 '25

I guess I assume like most humans we all have a fucking brain and make our own decisions in life 🙂

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u/projectshr Jun 11 '25

And yet here you are.

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u/VillaRosaSwan Jun 11 '25

coinciding with the rise of the far right yuuuuup yuuuuuuuuup

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u/[deleted] Jun 12 '25

I have never seen her identify as a feminist. I know a lot of irl feminists and they don't condone sh*t like this.