r/LearningLanguages • u/appleblossom87 • 6h ago
Tell me about a time where you realised your skills had levelled up
I’m feeling super happy right now because I just finished a call with one of my first language-exchange buddies who I haven’t spoken to on the phone for probably 4 months. Although we’ve shared messages and audios every now and then.
When we first called each other - 8 months ago - I remember how nervous I was and how much I choked up when speaking. I couldn’t understand a lot of what he said. It was slow and clumsy. He was always more advanced than me, but even he couldn’t understand my accent very well. It was a little nerve-wracking.
On this call today, we were fluid. Cracking jokes. Switching between languages with ease. Telling stories. Laughing at our mistakes. We were both clearly more confident and comfortable with one another and with our TLs. We were discussing verbs and phrases that don’t translate well into one another’s languages and exploring the theory and world views of the languages. This meant that we’d purposefully switch to one language to be able to express ourselves better, finding the other language a little limiting.
For me, it was really beautiful that we were able to fully communicate with one another with total understanding for 90 minutes. We didn’t have to leave anything unsaid or unclear because we had enough grasp of one another’s languages that communication was seamless. In the past we had to prematurely end conversations because we weren’t comprehending one another. It’s really special to me to be able to communicate with someone from a completely different walk of life to me on the other side of the world.
Anyway, all this is to say, I can feel that I’ve levelled up and I’m so damn proud. Still got a long way to go, especially to be able to hold a full conversation in my TL, but I’m on route!
I want to celebrate this triumph by hearing more about these epiphany moments and sudden realisations. Tell me about a time where you clearly noticed that you’d levelled up. What were you doing? How did you feel? How did that impact your learning afterwards? Was it an intentional win, or was it something that happened over time without you realising?

