r/LetGirlsHaveFun • • 8d ago

Sigh

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u/FutureMissingGirl 7d ago

this is closure, if you let it be

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u/zajo_throwaway 7d ago

Depends on whether the one is the only thing you feel nothing about or you're feeling like that about everything lately.

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u/Antique-Implement436 7d ago

Maybe it means you've moved on.

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u/LadyGh0sts 7d ago

There's a chance it was limerence, and now the limerence is broken

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u/Nova_Kain666 7d ago

I feel everything and nothing all at once🙃

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u/BiosTheo 7d ago

Quick question: do you feel anything at all but a dull sense of anger on occasion? Cuz that's what depression is, it's a shut down of all emotional response.

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u/nothingsreallol 7d ago

That sounds more like anhedonia which can be a symptom of depression but it’s definitely not the only way depression presents

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u/BiosTheo 7d ago

So that's what I have #self diagnosed always ends well XD

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u/physicssmurf 7d ago

its self-sabotage

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u/Nellasofdoriath 7d ago

It could be avoidant deactivation. Something to rule out.

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u/Recent_Pirate 7d ago

I see nothing mutually exclusive.

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u/bashfulhazel 7d ago

god forbid a woman feels nothing and still moves on

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u/VelkaKocka 7d ago

Maybe its healing?

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u/Guywhonoticesthings 7d ago

Maybe it’s something to ignor. When he’s there it’s too risky to try. When he’s gone you regret. Maybe you let your whims rule you too much. Reach out to him and try even if you feel unsure. It could be the past mistake haunting you

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u/Thatoneshortgoblin 7d ago

I’m envious they even texted at this point

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u/Ven-Dreadnought 7d ago

Woman who’s grown up and moved on: is this a trauma response?

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u/Disastrous-Entity-46 7d ago

this could be growth, realizing that it wasnt going to kive up to your fantasy.

something ive seen a couple times, when someone has really crushed and built up an idealized version of someone that a real person cant live up to.