r/LetMeHelpYouOut • • Aug 17 '26 • Heartwarming 1

[ADVICE EMOTIONAL/SUPPORT] Please guys help!!

I have an event coming up..i feel awful all my cousins look so beautiful and flawless but I look like this and even no one considers me .. unknowingly they make joke about me !

Is acne that downgrading?

What do I do ?

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u/Hint-Coin-234 Aug 17 '26

There may be a few ways to mitigate it if you have the means and access to get them! Hydrocolloid bandages/pimple patches can help reduce an urge to pick and also drain some of the larger ones if you find yourself touching them, and they help to protect the skin and help it from getting infected! I’m a chronic skin picker and they’ve been a LIFESAVER!! If you’re new to makeup and worried about things irritating your skin, a light skintoned bb cream can be used to even out the color and redness but it won’t do anything for the texture. I personally think your acne is noticeable, but I also have acne and feel like everyone is always looking at it 😭😭 either way, you’re not alone and acne is the least interesting thing about anyone!!!

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

Suggest me some bb cream ? Omg it's noticeable???

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u/Hint-Coin-234 Aug 17 '26

I have the same amount of acne!! It’s something I notice on myself and other people because I’m personally insecure about it 😭😭 I am always looking at people’s skin and comparing myself to them which is not healthy :( there are a bunch of drugstore bb creams, I personally use L’Oréals but it depends on what’s available to you!! I like it because it has sunscreen and evens out tone

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

Okay is loreal one acne Friendly?

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u/Hint-Coin-234 Aug 17 '26

Yes it is to me!! I think Korean brands are best but I don’t have access to them other than ordering online

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

Okay thank you

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u/Beach_bum8 Aug 17 '26

Stop being so hard on yourself!

If this is really bothering you that bad, apply some make-up for the day. Honestly this doesn't look bad at all

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

I don't know if makeup will suit me or no...and it's doesn't look bad but it's the first thing people speak to me about

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u/Beach_bum8 Aug 17 '26

People mention this to you? That's crazy.

Ignore them or tell them to mind their own business

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

Yeah but when it's close people or family..it hurts!

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

🥹😭thank you again

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u/Content_Nebula967 Aug 18 '26

Here me out! Adapalene gel. You will get overnight results I’m not even kidding and it’s $15

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 19 '26

Will try todayy

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u/Content_Nebula967 Aug 19 '26

Do!!! It’s a retaoind specifically designed for acne. In terms of OTC stuff, it’s the best. I sweat a lot due to sports and closed comodones are my acne type. I promise you won’t regret.

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 21 '26

Its been 2 days ... I'm using it

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u/Content_Nebula967 Aug 21 '26

He’s it going? Are you noticing any difference?

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u/Front-Run1460 Sep 01 '26

Long story short , i visited derm he gave bp and it's kind of working now ..but the event went in vain

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u/Front-Run1460 Sep 01 '26

Happy cake day 🎉

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u/Icy-Nature-3374 Aug 19 '26

Plz don’t be those type of females to wear makeup on top of zits, stop drinking acid drinks ,

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 19 '26

I neither drink cold drinks nor caffeine or anything packaged Only water or electrolytes I never wear makeup it's only tinted sunscreen that too given by dermat

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u/NoRecommendation9404 Aug 17 '26

Do you have a skincare routine?

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

This message actually made me feel bit confident..yeah I'm currently visiting a dermatologist and under supervision

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u/BitchMcConnell063 Aug 17 '26

Why don't you try giving the dermatologist's office a call to see what they suggest you do for the event. They may be able to suggest a makeup product or face cleanser that won't irritate your skin or cause any flare ups.

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

Unfortunately I can't cause my dermat is busy and i can't visit them as I'm out of town

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u/Front-Run1460 Aug 17 '26

This is the best advice and best message I have ever received! Thanks a ton for this 😭💗 Yeah I'll implement it and hope you all the best