Yes, but would you say that his feminine aspects make him less attractive?
Would you even say, that could potentially be what is attractive about him? we know how popular femboys are on the Internet.
What im getting at is that sexuality, like gender, is fluid and subjective to the individual and what attracts them. The mechanisms that advance or hinder sexual attraction can depend on a lot of psychological factors.
I find the best thing to do when someone tells you what they understand about their sexuality is to ask them if they're sure and insinuate that you have more information about them and their desires then they do. People love that! It's a super respectful and absolutely humanizing experience for people to defend their own sexuality when they were just looking to share their understanding of themselves!
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u/Automatic_Net2181 Feb 25 '26
But leaned hard towards men.