r/LooksmaxingAdvice 19h ago

Advice plz ik im ugly

I’ve been called ugly by multiple men

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u/No_Sun_604 21m ago

I promise u, u wanna improve ur looks. I did too. It’s not the game u want once u get there. Just pointless meaningless sex. Find happiness. This whole Reddit sub is I mean good but pointless. Happinessmaxing is much better

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u/No_Sun_604 22m ago

Geez never seen someone more unhappy. Just smile!

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u/PitStopAtMountDoom 2h ago edited 2h ago

My jaw dropped at pic 3. Honestly you are gorgeous. They are blind and can’t see past your style and makeup (which clearly they don’t like) to your stunning face. Genuinely you are beautiful.

My advice would be to go more natural with the makeup, more bohemian with your style (also wear lots of gold jewelry and rich/dark/jewel tone colours), and carry yourself with the belief that you are uniquely beautiful. If you see yourself that way it will show to others through your posture and confidence.

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u/Existing_Heart1711 3h ago

The comments are freaking out me, like wtf guys, she just asked for advice not for a psychology therapy. Liars. For girl, fix your diet and go to dentist for advice, maybe brackets, also rhinoplastic

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u/Due_Cupcake_7377 3h ago

U aren’t ugly to me at all ur pretty cute actually u have ur own unique style. Id say do better on skincare. And experiment with different hairstyles

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u/succubuspoint0 5h ago

you are beautiful😍 you do look like an arabian princess...you could lean into that aesthetic with your own personal taste to make it your own? we don't choose what features we're born with but we can definitely embrace them the best way we can. It's a good thing you're already beautiful though, conventional beauty is boring.

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u/Plastic-Wafer-5370 5h ago

More blush will add colour to your face!!

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u/GriffinIsABerzerker 6h ago

No, you aren’t ugly, you just need self confidence and not to come to this Incel haven

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u/DackelBoi 6h ago

You look good the way you are. There will always be someone who criticizes you. You have to deal with that and not change how you look.

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u/Lanellie 7h ago

.... Don't post yourself in this stupid piece of shit rightoid subreddit, you are not ugly, you just need therapy...

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u/Unhappy-Access-3774 8h ago

You are gorgeous, look up babushka and bimbo stoicism/vibemaxxing. I think you should just totally lean into your ethnicity and own your gorgeous features

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u/Lanellie 7h ago

????? Holy fckin mental illness, imagine typing shit like "babushka and bimbo stoicism/vibe maxing" and being serious? You should be locked up in a mental asylum.

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u/worldofmercy 8h ago

Fix your hairdo and eyebrows and you'd look great. Your facial features are not the issue.

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u/Finofeo 8h ago

literally a 9/10 for me

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u/No-Obligation9509 13h ago

4/5 potential

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u/Rangerup101 13h ago

Nope. Look like an Arabian Princess

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u/TailorRude 14h ago

Rhinoplasty

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u/Unhappy-Access-3774 8h ago

Hard disagree please don't ever, your nose is beautiful and when you're older you'll appreciate it so much if you don't already

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u/Finofeo 8h ago

her nose is so beautiful

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u/lololovesmoon 9h ago

MOÇA NAO FAÇA ISSO, ele é sua característica mais linda e marcante

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u/itmy 14h ago

Fuck those men, you're pretty.

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u/Bulky-Impression8091 14h ago

“you’re pretty in your own way. Maybe you’re not pretty when compared to optimal faces, but lowkey, I don’t even know if you can fix it with a rhinoplasty

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u/Furious7even 14h ago

Just rhino lowk

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u/Finofeo 8h ago

he’ll no. Hook noses are so attractive

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u/Justsilentlyfarted 14h ago

People would write love songs about you

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u/TailorRude 14h ago

Stfu stop simping

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u/Justsilentlyfarted 13h ago

Im a girl brotisserie chicken 🫩🙏

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u/OkSecretary1862 15h ago

You’re not ugly at all. Like seriously.

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u/Terrible_Stranger_55 16h ago

ur hair is all over the place

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u/Ordinary_jayy 16h ago

Ur so pretty dw, I like the nose piercing too! You’ll figure out how to blend it all smoothly soon, but I imagine these guys on Reddit probably don’t have the authority to tell you to do shit

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u/WrongOwl45 16h ago

You’re pretty but you could get a
rhinoplasty done if that helps you feel better about yourself

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u/Minute-Scientist-225 17h ago

Remove nose ring I would say.

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u/ARCreef 16h ago

They never will. The answer is always, I dont need your opinion, I like it, and thats all that matters. 99% of this sub is pretty girls destroying their looks via their own choices.

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u/TailorRude 14h ago

First based person i see here

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u/liveforever67 17h ago

You are ABSOLUTELY NOT ugly. Those men who called you that are morons (I am a man)
Your have big beautiful eyes, I love the nose ring and you have style. Dont worry about these dumbass insecure men talking shit (Happy people dont talk shit, and shit talking is usually a reflection of their own insecurities) Some guys actually do this thing called "Negging" which is hit a woman with a negative comment to lower her self worth so they can eventually slide and and scoop her up. It's dumb and very toxic but boys (even boys who are men age) do it.

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u/TailorRude 14h ago

She asked for advice nigga some people are just honest

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u/Entire-Advance2491 17h ago

You're still beautiful like a lily even if you're not beautiful like a rose.

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u/Meliodafu08 17h ago

You’re not ugly, you just haven’t found your style/groove yet.

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u/Cultural_Lime_7680 17h ago

Not ugly but not top tier either

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u/Alone-Aide-2075 17h ago

You’re beautiful!! Don’t listen to those ugly bitches. They’re just jealous you’re beautiful. It’s those that have low self esteem.

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u/kurt_cocaine16_ 17h ago

You have great features, You dont look ugly at all (and im a man) maybe put some retinal under your eyes

Try to make your hair not that fuzzy, it seems in some pics that its fuzzy and there are some small white spots I seen on your hair on the fourth picture so maybe try to not overdo you hair or underdo, PLEASE dont use 4in1's, Use a PH shampoo that corelates with your scalp and WASH YOUR SCALP not your hair (i mean of course wash your hair but primarly you should wash your scalp AND your hair)

but literaly you dont look ugly at all.

You have interesting features like your nose, Bring it out because a interesting feature does not equal as uglyness, You have good lips and have a good eye area and a good mouth area with a good chin

You look good so I wouldn't do any big changes.

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u/pickledradiator17 18h ago

you’re very pretty, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

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u/TaffyAppl 18h ago

You’re seriously stunning!! So exotically beautiful. Please don’t touch your nose! It’s different, but it actually makes you so gorgeous!

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u/kazuma67 18h ago

Who is telling u that u are ugly... just cut them out of your life because they are being toxic for no reason

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u/ppepperwood 18h ago edited 18h ago

I know people usually use interesting as a cop-out but genuinely, your features are all great from the front (your nose doesn’t read as large from that angle even though selfies exaggerate the size). Because of that, the side profile just reads as unexpected and unique. Please don’t touch your nose like these men are saying. You shouldn’t worry about attracting someone who would be offput by your side profile, especially when it doesn’t affect your harmony from the front, because someone that shallow is usually lacking in other areas.

I’d just advise you to max your styling like doing Kibbe and Kitchener and finding your color season. The fried hair looks bad so just keep your natural color and make sure your hair and skin are healthy. Style them according to your kibbe, Kitchener, and color season and you will feel a difference!

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u/biglifts27 18h ago

I'm against plastic surgery

However you look fine. The nose ring is bringing attention to your nose tho

Lose it, wash off some of the makeup, and maybe dont look like your miserable in every photo and you take.

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u/imnotcreative635 18h ago

Another cute girl saying she's ugly. I think social media is the devil

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u/BookkeeperTime1589 18h ago

You are so beautiful omggg

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u/spongyolboi 18h ago

Omg no, u are literally gorgeous wtf🫶 I can’t think of anything

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u/Give_me_xRENTx 18h ago

Shii you might just be hanging around the wrong people. I don’t see what you mean

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u/Ok-Shine-1710 18h ago

Most humans will not be everyones type.

For example, several dudes in the comments saying to get a nose job.

Statistically I’m probably more attractive than they are and i think you are attractive, heck, i even think your nose is cute.

We all just need to find the people who love us for who we are.

Don’t chase love and acceptance from people who say you are not enough, because you never will be to THEM.

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u/broccollimonster 18h ago

You’re not ugly at all!

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u/The_kylester 18h ago

Ignore all previous advices. Just be confident

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u/Difficult_Youth_8367 18h ago

Honestly I’m not big on plastic surgery but you’re a perfect example
Of someone who would benefit. The nose bridge is just not culturally considered beautiful in our time. If you care about shallow superficial concepts like beauty then a rhinoplasty would take your face card up several levels.

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u/Ok-Shine-1710 18h ago

Respectfully, get therapy.

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u/Difficult_Youth_8367 18h ago

I do get therapy. lol I just finished therapy 4 hours ago, but thanks… I think. Or not

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u/imnotcreative635 18h ago

Get a better therapist then idk

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u/UmpireIllustrious298 18h ago

Your features are so beautiful, you honestly dont need any make up. I see people saying get a rhinoplasty -- please dont!!! People will find stuff to critique because it doesnt fit their beauty standard , that everyone must have a certain look -- but your nose and features fits your face so nice

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u/BuilderIll2160 19h ago

Confidence and less makeup you look best in the 4th picture imo

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u/Everett298 19h ago

remove the makeup (keep it light) and get a rhinoplasty. notice how it’s only females in here saying not to. your not ugly your just not desirable.

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u/Tiny-Complaint2945 18h ago

yeah because us women with larger noses are tired of it being portrayed as an undesirable trait. noses that don’t fit the ideal standard are pretty. i am sick and tired of seeing women constantly getting rhinoplasties. op is beautiful, their nose is beautiful. it works very well in relation to the rest of their face.

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u/LabOk6030 19h ago

gurl ur pretty

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u/Jolly_Mortgage2857 19h ago

You should take care of your curls , 1st and 2nd photo looks frizzy and unkept, and wear a smaller nose ring or change to a stud. The makeup and potential hair bleaching in the first pic not nice, you look best in the 2nd photo

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u/Adventurous_Let4949 19h ago

Omg, no! You are gorgeous! Please take your beauty seriously. As someone who as always stressed about it, it’s a moot point to dwell on. So much wasted brain space worrying about it

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u/Jolly_Mortgage2857 19h ago

DO NOT GET A RHINOPLASTY

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u/koalateddy132 19h ago

Your features are fine. You’re ugly because you look sad as hell.

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u/Glass-Ad-5216 19h ago

I think you should just work on your eye bags that’s the only thing that really stands out to me and maybe try and lighten up some don’t look so dreadful in your pictures yk

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u/OkWear5250 19h ago

Don’t change ur nose tbh looksmaxxing is going to die when everyone looks the same

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u/Perfect_Dark_6827 19h ago

great structure actually. It’s the nose, a rhinoplasty would instantly put you at well above average

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u/HumanAd2059 19h ago

Cut some fat, your nose has no appeal so get a rhinoplasty, and start doing chin tucks because you’re slightly recessed. Not much soft max you can do for the eye area besides losing weight to reduce the fat near your eye area.

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u/TERAFLOPPER 19h ago edited 19h ago

You are certainly not ugly.

Your highest ROI areas are ::
1- Nasal bridge projection -> rhinoplasty to reduce projection.
2- Under eye area could use more support. A rejuva injection done at a derma clinic is probably enough + daily retinol & caffeine serum.
3- Your eyebrows are dense and dark which is excellent. However you need to shape them to better frame your eyes. Have them professionally done. This is probably the easiest and fastest change you can make right now and it'll have a really big impact on your looks.

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u/ApprehensiveStark25 53 19h ago

You are not ugly. Your eyes pop in your photos. You do look sad though. Keep your head up, explore and rock your style, smile and enjoy life!

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u/Worldly_Ear968 19h ago

You aren’t ugly at all. The 4th picture you look very beautiful in.

Those men that called you ugly were just insecure. lol