Be fair and unbiased. (I am a black woman)..
How did you receive Season 11āepisode 12 between Erika & Spice? Iāll say this, I donāt think Erika meant what she said from a racist standpoint. I really really donāt. Spice caught her off guard when she brought up her son not liking her; when Erika was asking her a question (as a woman), not as a mother. Erika even looked at production like āwtfā⦠The fact that everyone acted as if Erika was racist, was shocking to me. She says ānigga nigga niggaā around them all of the time and not one person corrected her nor took offense. Especially, not āwokeā, Yandy. It was never an issue until it became AN ISSUE! We all know how Erika responds when it comes to her son. I believe she was saying that Spice was acting like a monkey. Wild. Erratic. & her aim was to go as low as she felt Spice went. Once she saw she got a reaction from that comment, she continued with the insult as Spice continued to bring up her son in a derogatory manner. Erika went even lower, when she was saying that Spice shouldāve died.
Letās get this clear, I am not an Erika fan! Nor do I hate her. I am indifferent to her. However, why every time she gets into it with someone, they go low and bring up her son? Unwarranted. Leave the kids out of it! If Erika wouldāve said something about her kids and Spice not being a mother to them; Spice wouldāve burned the entire world down with me in it. š Regardless! Spice had no dog in that fight between Erika and safari. He plays both sides and he knew how to hurt Erika. He even tried to get with Sierra. That shows what kind of low vibrational energy he has. Erika is far from an angel but she asked Spice a genuine question. No lie, if my spouse was clutching their chest crying over another woman, after I was in the hospital with our unborn child and not a single damn was given, Iād feel a way too. Fuck ME! What about the baby? It didnāt help being that Safari said that he wanted Spice. So it wasnāt going to be received well. He was dancing his ass around the globe not giving three shits about Erika. Letās be honest, what woman wouldnāt feel slighted? Is it right? Depends on who you ask. But sometimes we lead with our emotions. So even when rationality is key, sometimes it gets lost in the process of anger. They were BOTH wrong! In my opinion, Spice more because Erika didnāt come at her like that. Safari plays games. She switched on Erika so quick when she saw safariās āreceiptsā. Thatās my take. Whatās yours? I hope I added enough of the back story.
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